Hi all,
This weekend, I am going to ask my wife if she would like to play with other guys, maybe just start with giving blow jobs.
General question open to all, how did you ask your partners to start in this lifestyle and what was their initial reaction?
Wish me luck
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My Wife
well i would have thought u would has discussed this with your wife before you joined the site but having seen your add and pictures there is no mention of a wife and the only pics you have are ones of your cock so i think its a fair bet your a single guy or your wife dont know your on this site
In going about it this way you are likely to turn your wife completely against swinging in general and any other form of playing. This is not really something for you to ask others opinions on. It is for you and your wife to talk it over, think of the down sides before the up sides THEN decide if you BOTH want to do it.
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Sex God
She might already be swinging too :shock:
But in all honesty take your time and slowly bring the idea up
As for how we started - - its a long story I won't bore you with
But in all honesty take your time and slowly bring the idea up
As for how we started - - its a long story I won't bore you with
Sex God
Quote by onemanandhisfrogthink she will swallow that like
Hi all,
This weekend, I am going to ask my wife if she would like to play with other guys, maybe just start with giving blow jobs.
:lol: 
Orgasminator
I first came across the scene through an ex-girlfriend who was already on the scene, well before we had even met and i think her tactic and my curosity is the only reason i'm here.
She brought it into a conversation whilst at the pub with our friends (open minded friends at that, wouldn't suggest thats a wise move in most cases), and all she did was simply ask,
'Hey have you heard about dogging?'
It then turned into a deep discussion, but it was a good way to see if it sparked an interest in me. It did and before long i was apart of a couple's free membership on here all those years ago.
Just dropping it into the conversation is a good way of finding out if its a wise move to even ask her. Just say something subtle, like
'One of the guys from work was on about swinging today, apparently him and his wife are soft swingers, but i havent a clue what he was on about do you?'
She brought it into a conversation whilst at the pub with our friends (open minded friends at that, wouldn't suggest thats a wise move in most cases), and all she did was simply ask,
'Hey have you heard about dogging?'
It then turned into a deep discussion, but it was a good way to see if it sparked an interest in me. It did and before long i was apart of a couple's free membership on here all those years ago.
Just dropping it into the conversation is a good way of finding out if its a wise move to even ask her. Just say something subtle, like
'One of the guys from work was on about swinging today, apparently him and his wife are soft swingers, but i havent a clue what he was on about do you?'
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Start off with swinger porn and gauge her reaction to that. If she doesn't think it's immoral or disgusting then you might be in with a chance.
Asking if she'd like to give blowjobs to other guys is about as subtle as cum in her face.
Or as subtle as a sledge hammer!! If it were put to me like that I would be... WTF???
Sex God
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Sex God
I once played some country music backwards, just to see what happened
It ended up with me getting my house back, my wife back, my truck back and my dog back :mrgreen:
(i'm avalable for private performances, birthdays, bar mitzvahs......
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It ended up with me getting my house back, my wife back, my truck back and my dog back :mrgreen:
(i'm avalable for private performances, birthdays, bar mitzvahs......
) 
Sex God
He can work without swearing.............but it fucks his timing up
Sex God
go to a spa with her n let her have a peek at things
Maybe it's just me but isn't all this stuff supposed to be discussed before people get married. True you can't cover every base before you get hitched but sexually likes and dislikes was one of the first things we covered when we started going out.
Sure on the first date I didn't say hey fancy watching you sitting on your best mates face, but we did discuss fantasies along with does this feel good, do you like it when I do that, is'nt chocolate sauce more trouble than it's worth. (in the end we just eat the damn stuff then have fun sex).
By the time we were going to get married, my wife knew which of her friends given half the chance I'd love to fuck, I knew which of her friends she's love to fuck and that while in bed the idea of her taking on a room of studs against her will on the odd occasion make her wet. In reality it's not on our radar of the next sexual thrill we will fulfil.
Sure on the first date I didn't say hey fancy watching you sitting on your best mates face, but we did discuss fantasies along with does this feel good, do you like it when I do that, is'nt chocolate sauce more trouble than it's worth. (in the end we just eat the damn stuff then have fun sex).
By the time we were going to get married, my wife knew which of her friends given half the chance I'd love to fuck, I knew which of her friends she's love to fuck and that while in bed the idea of her taking on a room of studs against her will on the odd occasion make her wet. In reality it's not on our radar of the next sexual thrill we will fulfil.
Sex God
I don't think asking you wife if she wants to satisfy your personal swinging fantasies is your main problem.
Your big problem will be explaining to her what you've been doing as a member of this site for the last 4 years.
Please feel free to post a review of THAT particular conversation on here - it should be fascinting. :giggle:
Seriously though - if you want to start a conversation about swinging - try asking her what SHE would like.
Your big problem will be explaining to her what you've been doing as a member of this site for the last 4 years.
Please feel free to post a review of THAT particular conversation on here - it should be fascinting. :giggle:
Seriously though - if you want to start a conversation about swinging - try asking her what SHE would like.
I had a good idea that my Wife wanted to have sex with other people (and vice-versa) early in our married life. The subject normally came up in bed but we did not start swinging until a few years ago. Perhaps when your having sex and both hard at it you could suggest that she could be having one of her male friends big cocks inside her.....see what the reaction is - if she stops and gets off then I think you have your answer 
