My wife and I

8 Oct 2011

have played softly in the past.
She was outgoing, fit, attractive and massively sexy, (and still is..), we have only played a couple of times; sexy soft fun play, 2 x m and a few times her + G with me on the byeline..
Time has marched on..
Girls always seem attracted to her, she is a nice person....
Question: how to sensitively re-ignite those past experiences/latent desires without cheesing her off!...
For me, its all about her.. my pleasure is giving her pleasure.
She knows this and acts coy (pseudo shy..)...
Myriad of reasons i know, but am interested in comments..

8 Oct 2011

Your membership lists you as a couple, as does your stated desires....however this particular posting seems to imply that you haven't yet enlisted the co-operation of your partner. My advice would be to sit down together, as many couples do, and get involved in the general chatroom banter. Get to know other members online and just treat it as a social activity...if your wife has a desire to become involved in actually meeting, socially or otherwise, then this will surely present the opportunity without any pressure from yourself.

8 Oct 2011

Perhaps suggest going to a aclubb or party that has a social aspect to it. For example one that has a bar in a totally different area of the club to the play rooms. You could do it as a look and see thing. I asked Mrs Tweeky first time to come to a munch (social party) where there is no play at all. I told her its basically a bar a disco and chat to people which it is. Pretty much the same as going out anywhere else excpet its a room of swingers. Treat it as a look and see thing biggrin

8 Oct 2011

Quote by tweeky
Perhaps suggest going to a aclubb or party that has a social aspect to it. For example one that has a bar in a totally different area of the club to the play rooms. You could do it as a look and see thing. I asked Mrs Tweeky first time to come to a munch (social party) where there is no play at all. I told her its basically a bar a disco and chat to people which it is. Pretty much the same as going out anywhere else excpet its a room of swingers. Treat it as a look and see thing

:thumbup: Good advice there, I reckon.

9 Oct 2011

We would like to go to a club, but prefer the social side first to see how things progress. A club with a bar and disco would be our preference and Liberty in Leics seems to fit that profile. any advice would be appreciated!

9 Oct 2011

I'm sure between us all we can give you loads of advice, but it would help if we knew what it was you wanted to know.
There are loads of club socials that go on all over the country. If you want visit a club socially first, why not have a look in the club meets forum and get your name down for one of them?

11 Oct 2011

"I had this dream the other night...*insert what you used to do*...and it got me totally hot! mmmmm!"
Then leave it at that...or discuss.