My wife wants another woman

4 Oct 2005

Its been a long held fantasy of my wife to have sex with another female and now we have decided to go for it smile

. The other problem is that we dont really know how to go about it redface

.
Could anyone out there give me some advice about how to go about this?Would it be best to reply to some of the adverts on this site or should we go to a swingers/sex club ????
Any advice,opinions (and even offers wink

) would be greatly appreciated,ta.

4 Oct 2005

Why not post an ad of your own?

4 Oct 2005

you will find lots of lovely women wanting to help you on this site

4 Oct 2005

Go to a club if you want to try it sooner than later. Most women in couples are bi they say. If you start in the bar, just have a chat with a couple who interest you, and tell them what you're looking for, or join a room that's already hopping, and have your wife inch closer to the couples and gently touch an area like a leg or an arm, and if you get a smile, progress from there.

4 Oct 2005

Quote by jamnat20032003
you will find lots of lovely women wanting to help you on this site

I do hope wife really wants a 1 0n 1 with another woman with me watching perhaps...and i'm cool with that cool

We've have had a real good couple of chats and she feels that this is something she really needs to do so who am i to stop her! The thought of it does turn me on so i just hope it will happen lol

:shock: :D

4 Oct 2005

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4 Oct 2005

My wife would like to try another woman too!
Hey, perhaps we could just watch them get to it!! (I'm sure I could manage that!) biggrin

4 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
Its been a long held fantasy of my wife to have sex with another female and now we have decided to go for it . The other problem is that we dont really know how to go about it .
Could anyone out there give me some advice about how to go about this?Would it be best to reply to some of the adverts on this site or should we go to a swingers/sex club ????
Any advice,opinions (and even offers ) would be greatly appreciated,ta.

look at my adverts below innocent

:wink:
Sharon xx

4 Oct 2005

Quote by sharon_2005
Its been a long held fantasy of my wife to have sex with another female and now we have decided to go for it . The other problem is that we dont really know how to go about it .
Could anyone out there give me some advice about how to go about this?Would it be best to reply to some of the adverts on this site or should we go to a swingers/sex club ????
Any advice,opinions (and even offers ) would be greatly appreciated,ta.

look at my adverts below innocent

:wink:
Sharon xx
thanks Sharon i will show my wife your adverts when she gets in later,ta lol

4 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
Its been a long held fantasy of my wife to have sex with another female and now we have decided to go for it . The other problem is that we dont really know how to go about it .
Could anyone out there give me some advice about how to go about this?Would it be best to reply to some of the adverts on this site or should we go to a swingers/sex club ????
Any advice,opinions (and even offers ) would be greatly appreciated,ta.

look at my adverts below innocent

:wink:
Sharon xx
thanks Sharon i will show my wife your adverts when she gets in later,ta lol

Your welcome :bounce:

4 Oct 2005

if you are ever near norfolk, give me a call....Janexxx

4 Oct 2005

My advice (as a bi fem ) is go to a swinging club, untill you get to know people on here i personally wouldn't even bother looking on the internet, its full of so many time wasters and men posing as fems, at least at clubs you can see who your talking to and have a proper chat b4 deciding if you all like, when you have got to know a few people and know who is genuine and whos not and also when you have got yourself known as genuine then i would look on here, as a rule you will find that bi fems play with the known genuine couples, for reasons i have mentioned above

4 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
My advice (as a bi fem ) is go to a swinging club, untill you get to know people on here i personally wouldn't even bother looking on the internet, its full of so many time wasters and men posing as fems, at least at clubs you can see who your talking to and have a proper chat b4 deciding if you all like, when you have got to know a few people and know who is genuine and whos not and also when you have got yourself known as genuine then i would look on here, as a rule you will find that bi fems play with the known genuine couples, for reasons i have mentioned above

Very true, there is lots of men posting as females as i have found out mad

Thats why i like toat least talk on the phone before thinking about meeting..
I myself to prove i am me will go on phone, mic, and i have a webcam also smile

Just like you signature says ! lol

4 Oct 2005

Thanks for all the advice have talked about going to a club and my wife is a bit unsure/nervous.I have told her that we dont actually have to partake in any activities once we are there but atleast we could get a feel for the place confused

Any good clubs in the midlands for newbies? Whats Liberation like as that seems to be the most well known club around my area. Thanks again.

4 Oct 2005

Quote by sharon_2005
its full of so many time wasters and men posing as fems,

Very true, there is lots of men posting as females as i have found out mad

Oops!

4 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
Thanks for all the advice have talked about going to a club and my wife is a bit unsure/nervous.I have told her that we dont actually have to partake in any activities once we are there but atleast we could get a feel for the place Any good clubs in the midlands for newbies? Whats Liberation like as that seems to be the most well known club around my area. Thanks again.

what part of the midlands are you from?
chameleons is in west mids, saturdays is couples only night which is good for first timers

Quote by marmalaid
its full of so many time wasters and men posing as fems,

Very true, there is lots of men posting as females as i have found out mad

Oops!

yeah we sussed you out years ago tho :grin:

4 Oct 2005

Mayber your wife would like to join the site, and tell us what she wants?

4 Oct 2005

Quote by Vix
Mayber your wife would like to join the site, and tell us what she wants?

good idea,i'll see if she will write a few words later (after pouring her a few glasses of wine wink

)

4 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
Mayber your wife would like to join the site, and tell us what she wants?

good idea,i'll see if she will write a few words later (after pouring her a few glasses of wine wink

)
I'd be worried, if she's going to need alcohol to chat on here - how will she cope with meeting anyone?

4 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
Thanks for all the advice have talked about going to a club and my wife is a bit unsure/nervous.I have told her that we dont actually have to partake in any activities once we are there but atleast we could get a feel for the place Any good clubs in the midlands for newbies? Whats Liberation like as that seems to be the most well known club around my area. Thanks again.

what part of the midlands are you from?
chameleons is in west mids, saturdays is couples only night which is good for first timers

we live in Coventry

4 Oct 2005

Quote by mr filth
Thanks for all the advice have talked about going to a club and my wife is a bit unsure/nervous.I have told her that we dont actually have to partake in any activities once we are there but atleast we could get a feel for the place Any good clubs in the midlands for newbies? Whats Liberation like as that seems to be the most well known club around my area. Thanks again.

what part of the midlands are you from?
chameleons is in west mids, saturdays is couples only night which is good for first timers

we live in Coventry
Coventry, just down the road from us :shock:
Are you sure your wife realy wants to and is ready to try sex with another woman?
I meen there is a big difference in talking about it in general private chat than there is actually doing it!
Me and my hubby spoke about it for 2 years before i was ready in trying it although i must say once i had tried it i nver looked back :twisted:
And yeah i can understand you pouring her a glass of wine before she was to talk about it openly on a forum as i needed the Dutch courage before i acted out on this subject lol
As the others have said, best place to go and if i may add a more secure place to go until you get to know people is a club.
Let your wife talk to a couple of bi females, let her go home and think about it then let her see how she feels after that...
As long as you never push her into it as that would be a big mistake smile

This is just my two pennies worth anyway, others might think differently but this is roughly how i went about it...
Hope this helps
Shaz xx

4 Oct 2005

My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

4 Oct 2005

I would never push her into something she did'nt want to do,this is all her idea cool

.As you say, talking about it and doing it are 2 totally different things so i'll have to see how she wants it to the end of the day it was her idea to sleep with another woman and i did'nt put any ideas into her head,afterall its her getting the pleasure not me rolleyes

4 Oct 2005

Quote by da69ve
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

My Mrs has found quite a few women like that and she thinks that very few women who go swinging are actually bi

4 Oct 2005

Quote by seagull69
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

My Mrs has found quite a few women like that and she thinks that very few women who go swinging are actually bi
We've met couples where the lady is supposedly bi, but it becomes obvious that she isn't in conversation. We've just assumed that she's agreed to go along with whatever hubby wants and we generally steer clear of them after that. We had one couple round for coffee. Whenever the fem left the room, the male tried to persuade us that 'she'd go along with it once we get started'. rolleyes

4 Oct 2005

Quote by da69ve
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

I guess thats kind of me dunno

I consider myself straight but lol

there's always a but, I do like kissing some ladies and I do quite like bums and boobs. I'm not bothered about trying oral on a lady again but I would like it if a lady did oral sex on me :rascal:

4 Oct 2005

Quote by Dawn_Mids
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

I guess thats kind of me dunno

I consider myself straight but lol

there's always a but, I do like kissing some ladies and I do quite like bums and boobs. I'm not bothered about trying oral on a lady again but I would like it if a lady did oral sex on me :rascal:
On my way round .................

4 Oct 2005

Quote by Sarah
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

I guess thats kind of me dunno

I consider myself straight but lol

there's always a but, I do like kissing some ladies and I do quite like bums and boobs. I'm not bothered about trying oral on a lady again but I would like it if a lady did oral sex on me :rascal:
On my way round .................
Sarah I almost choked then :eeek: :eeek: :eeek:

5 Oct 2005

Quote by freckledbird
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

My Mrs has found quite a few women like that and she thinks that very few women who go swinging are actually bi
We've met couples where the lady is supposedly bi, but it becomes obvious that she isn't in conversation. We've just assumed that she's agreed to go along with whatever hubby wants and we generally steer clear of them after that. We had one couple round for coffee. Whenever the fem left the room, the male tried to persuade us that 'she'd go along with it once we get started'. rolleyes

]met a few like that, when u get the feeling they only doing it for the hubby's pleasure

Quote by da69ve
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

to be honest i don't like women who think its ok for you to do oral on them but wont do it back, sex is not one way traffic, if a guy went down on me i would repay the compliment as the same goes for a woman :roll: :roll:

5 Oct 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

My Mrs has found quite a few women like that and she thinks that very few women who go swinging are actually bi
We've met couples where the lady is supposedly bi, but it becomes obvious that she isn't in conversation. We've just assumed that she's agreed to go along with whatever hubby wants and we generally steer clear of them after that. We had one couple round for coffee. Whenever the fem left the room, the male tried to persuade us that 'she'd go along with it once we get started'. rolleyes

]met a few like that, when u get the feeling they only doing it for the hubby's pleasure

Quote by da69ve
My wife is not at all interested in women but has never had a problem with a woman giving her oral there any women who feel the same?

to be honest i don't like women who think its ok for you to do oral on them but wont do it back, sex is not one way traffic, if a guy went down on me i would repay the compliment as the same goes for a woman :roll: :roll:
im on my way round!