This is a general question really. The wife and I found our way to this site because I had a fantasy of seeing her with another man. This is a fantasy we have now fulfilled, several times actually.
My question is, why do I enjoy this?
The first time I started to have these thought I was a little concerned. I googled my thoughts to find I was not alone and thousands have these thoughts. But why does it turn me on so much?
As a younger man, seeing my girl even chatting to another man would have put my back up, now I love to watch the wife getting a good seeing too, with my trousers round my ankles and my old man in my hand, and then join in!
The wife and I have a fantastic sex life, and always have had. We love each other very much and have no problem with trust.
When I first had these thoughts it did bother me very much, but now we love our new way of letting off steam but I would still like to hear others thoughts on this matter.
i have been very lucky to meet couples were the hubby films,takes pics and only joins in now and then.
i cannot answer it for you and i cannot tell you how i feel about it either.
dont get me wrong ive made some great friends because of it and ive never felt uncomfortable about being filmed etc.
some guys just cannot keep it up as long as others i suppose and they want to see their wife happy.
one thing i did say no to was when recently a woman i had met with her hubby started texting me for a meet without him.
i said no because if i went down that road i could see it all ending in trouble, and she wasnt much of a person in the end as she got very abusive when i said no to her.
some guys just cannot keep it up as long as others i suppose and they want to see their wife happy.
I can see this has some truth in it as I do love to see my wife have a great time, and the more she enjoys her self the more I enjoy watching. But I have no trouble with "keeping it up" so that is not my motivation.
I wish!
Enjoy it while you can people. If that's what floats yer boats then just do it.
Life's too short!
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Mr Fun doesnt have problems with keeping it up!!
He likes to watch while he is with someone too but if I'm playing with a single guy he leaves me to it .... he's not a watcher .... more of a do-er!!!
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