Not a bad looking bloke I guess, very experimental and not to bad with experience although never really tried this... so here is hoping to new experience learnt...
where's everyone at then?
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n00bie in the SW London area...
people are a bit wary these days.... Still I have found this a great open forum, chill and enjoy the conversation, there are some great ppl here.
Darksoldjah, I wouldn't know what advice to give, everyone has different opinions and wants.
For the majority of people who have just joined because of all the fuss in the papers, they're going to be very disillusioned with the site........ They will find out pretty quickly that they won't find the quick free shag with a total stranger and no effort involved ....... If that's what I wanted I would just hit the town for a night.
To me, this site has been about making friends with like minded and very open minded people - although, never in a million years would I have guessed at the strength of some friendships that have been made in a relatively short space of time.
So for advice .... be yourself, let people get to know you, presume that nothing other than friendship will develop .... then you can't go wrong and you won't be disappointed.
Be happy, have fun
For the majority of people who have just joined because of all the fuss in the papers, they're going to be very disillusioned with the site........ They will find out pretty quickly that they won't find the quick free shag with a total stranger and no effort involved ....... If that's what I wanted I would just hit the town for a night.
To me, this site has been about making friends with like minded and very open minded people - although, never in a million years would I have guessed at the strength of some friendships that have been made in a relatively short space of time.
So for advice .... be yourself, let people get to know you, presume that nothing other than friendship will develop .... then you can't go wrong and you won't be disappointed.
Be happy, have fun
sound advice - i will be myself. I don't really follow the media, I find it disillusional in itself, it all seems like a school of piranah's that rip a story to peices just to get the darkest secrets out of it, I just can't be bothered with it.
Its long and boring, so hopefully I will find likeminded peeps on here, that don't ignore the world but just choose to do something better with there lives rather than worry about the next catastrophy...
thx for the effort you made in that post misschief..
Its long and boring, so hopefully I will find likeminded peeps on here, that don't ignore the world but just choose to do something better with there lives rather than worry about the next catastrophy...
thx for the effort you made in that post misschief..
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Hmmm! "The newbie doth protest too much, methinks."
The jury is still out on this one. I shall wait and see.
The jury is still out on this one. I shall wait and see.
Hiya DarkSouljah, and TnH,
Bit much when all the new people have to stand in a corner chatting to themselves. Advice DS. Think about your own sexuality, and what you want out of membership in Swinging Heaven, then look to meet people. You will find there are many different people in here, with many different lifestyles. There is scope for you to look for what you want, rather than trying to fit in with what other people want.
Besides, unless you can say what you are after, and why, you will just look like another bloke with a full sack too lazy to have a wank!
lhk
Kat
Bit much when all the new people have to stand in a corner chatting to themselves. Advice DS. Think about your own sexuality, and what you want out of membership in Swinging Heaven, then look to meet people. You will find there are many different people in here, with many different lifestyles. There is scope for you to look for what you want, rather than trying to fit in with what other people want.
Besides, unless you can say what you are after, and why, you will just look like another bloke with a full sack too lazy to have a wank!
lhk
Kat
