Hi,we are naturist virgins & need any info tips etc to gently help us along the do swing ocassionaly so does this occur alot in this envoiroment?or do we keep quiet about naturists want to get in touch & help? Would a beach or a specialist hotel help & anyone know any home or
hi there we are both naturists and we have found that at most naturist camp sites swinging does exist although it is usually kept discreet.
any swinging we do is usually off site as most peeps dont want to upset the non swinging naturists hope this helps.
bri & sue
naturism brings in all sorts. it won't take long for you to find out who the swingers are. but there are also factions which don't approve of it. so its no different to anywhere else.
Hi,
We have been naturists for about 20 years and had been swinging for about 10 years up to the time of Madame Smooth's breast cancer and mastectomy in 2007. We agree with most of the above. As in many matters discretion is the key word. If you find yourself amongst naturist 'purists' and start asking if anyone swings...you won't get far!!!! However it would be unrealistic to think that most naturists are aware that swinging does not happen at sites. Its just a matter of finding out 'who does'. Naturism is not about sex, it is about the freedom and joy of enjoying being unencumbered by clothes as you relax or do whatever you are able to in the surroundings. (Heard all the bbq jokes!) It is also about bringing children up in a safe environment where they can be confident in themselves so that they have fewer hangups in later life. Is naturism sexy? Well, if you have the same attractive lady dressed in stockings suspenders etc one day and naked the next, which would you find the sexiest? Hopefully the sexy aspect is removed when its 'all on display'.............just like going to your first topless beach.......stunning at first then when you've seen one you've.....
The advice from Smooth2 would be to go to a naturist site first and become accepted. Enjoy the naturism. When others can relax and talk freely with you then you can always test the water by dropping non-committal hints. If anyone responds, then you're on your way..........but don't rush it!
Smooth2
I always wondered about this subject. My two big fears have always been someone laughing at me and at the other end of the spectrum, me getting a hard on and not being able to hide it - does this ever happen?
Plim
Hi,
Interesting comments. As far as hard-ons go I've never had one in the time we have been in public at naturist sites. The whole essence of naturism is that you see people as they are not the designer clothes or jewellery that they choose to hide behind. You see the person, warts and all (no not those warts!!!!) There is no sexual thrill in seeing a naked body unless it exhibits some sort of sexual activity. As you will see from the other post whilst having been swingers and enjoyed most of our encounters immensely on and off site, we are passionate naturists and strongly support the naturist ideal of enjoying the freedom without any interference from a less understanding society. Forget the supposed connection between naturism and sex (orgies, dirty postcards, The Sun using it as titillation etc)and enjoy it. If there are swingers there it won't take long to find them using a little discretion.
Until people are familiar with your nakedness its actually a very effective way of remaining disguised or even hidden.
by the way if you get a hard on at the club just walk into a clump of stinging nettles and hold them between your legs.
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