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Im thinking of putting photos on my profile and was wondering what type of photos tend to be most appealling for you?
Any help appreciated xx
No cock shots. Face pics are good.
Why are you only asking the ladies?
Quote by freckledbird
No cock shots. Face pics are good.
Why are you only asking the ladies?

Cheers Frecklebird
Well im asking ladies because its them who, i hopewill be looking at the profile smile
The opinions of other men might be helpful though - they know what's worked (or not) for them.
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The opinions of other men might be helpful though - they know what's worked (or not) for them.

True, never thought about that. New to this confused
Quote by goram1979
The opinions of other men might be helpful though - they know what's worked (or not) for them.

True, never thought about that. New to this confused
I know, just trying to be helpful. biggrin
I agree, I would like face pics so I can see who I'm talking to.....
But it's also nice to see a cock shot.....so if you're doing an Ad then put a face pic AND a cock shot in my opinion....
But if it's just your profile don't put up a Cock Shot....Jags will kill you!!! LoL....
Face, definitely. If you dare to put it on your ad. But it's a waste of time REPLYING without one.
Body - if it looks good. Cock shot - only if it's really remarkable. Either over 8 inches, or incredibly good-looking. If no-one's ever told you it is, nope....... It isn't.
Most cock shots make me laugh.... blokes have no idea how to take the picture, so mostly all they prove is that they actually have got a cock. Poor sad limp dangly little things, they look, mostly. More blokes have put me off with pics of their knobs than have ever turned me on.... you think "who'd want to suck THAT sad little object?"
Quote by goram1979
Im thinking of putting photos on my profile and was wondering what type of photos tend to be most appealling for you?
Any help appreciated xx

For me personally a face pic( if youre brave enough) is nice, but can always be sent via direct e-mail after first contact, if you dont want your face in a public ad.
Willy pics- essential- but as previously mentioned take a decent one! Right light, trimmed as necessary and ideally, erect! ( ooh whos a big boy!) surprised
Droopy is very unflattering!
If you want to get dimensions across- take picture beside an object of obvious size ( a deodorant can or a coke can work!) or even alongside a ruler!!!! :censored:
The best pic is from just above the waist, and includes upper thighs & the vital parts! biggrin
:idea: Most important thing on any ad is HONESTY, dont exaggerate ANYTHING or it will come back and bite you on the ass!
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:idea: Most important thing on any ad is HONESTY, dont exaggerate ANYTHING or it will come back and bite you on the ass!

I agree, why is it men always say they are really well-endowed and then when you meet them or they send a picture they're not well-endowed at all......
I would rather a guy be honest and say "I have got 6 inches" and then I would be happy with that, rather than them saying "I've got an 11 inch monster cock" and then turn out to be less than that....
Am I making sense here? :shock:
I reckon it's the blokes who look at the cockshots! I see some bloke and think, oh, yes.... he's a cracker. And husband says, yeah.... but what a tiny dick. And then I see some Hound from Hell, and say, never in a million years, and hubby says, yeah.... but look at the size of his knob. And my bloke is definitely not bent.... just wants to see me struggling on the end of a big thick knobbly one. But I've talked to other girls whose blokes are just the same. Perhaps men are just malicious, and want to see us suffer! Not that I complain (just wind up choosing doggy-position).
Cheers for all your advice.
Will put up some photo's in the next few days and you can tell me what you think.
Just out of curiousity - what is commonly accepted as the boundary between average and well-endowed, and the boundary between well-endowed and very well endowed?
The commonly accepted answer to that question is "oh god not that old thread again, we've been over that a million times already"
Well i don't mind cock shots if they come with the rest of the body/face somewhere else on the add, what i hate is when men but 3 close up cock shots on their add confused cummon boys it does NOT look different from different angels, a cocks a cocks ffs lol but one cockc shot and a couples of face/bodys pics is ok in my book
I sent a face picture and got the reply
"I thought we said no dick pics!"
:cry:
Quote by Happy Cats
I sent a face picture and got the reply
"I thought we said no dick pics!"
:cry:

rotflmao
Yes I find looking at photos of mens willys embarrasing
I like the feel and touch of them very much but
but it is nice to see what you are getting prehaps.
A nice pic from a distance to show whether tall, short, fair , black.
to get a basic idea.
When reply send a pic if thats what the lady or gentleman want.
thats what i would like, a nice personality helps too.
lisamarie
but dont be like me and take three days to realize that you have to make the pic smaller
thanks again to everyone who helped redface surprisedops:
Reading through, it seems face and or body pics are the way forward... How about full body shots with cock showing? I have two of them and these are on my ad. I've got 3 face pics, but I'm not shy so i went with the whole body thing. Hasn't worked yet but oh well.
Am I the only person who responds to people who smile in their adverts?
Maybe I am weird - there are so many cock shots, but I like to see a person's face and if they are smiling then I am much more likely to respond
For example, etched chaos has a very nice body but looks very serious rolleyes - just an observation.
Just looked at cuddly simon's profile though and you can see his personality shine through - I think that's much more appealing
smile
Maybe it's just me?
:confused2:
Angel (who has no photos at all on here - smiling or not smiling!)
I do have a pic of me sorta smiling, never liked my smile always makes me look ermmm, errrr weird i guess. I'll add the picture of me sorta smiling to my ad. Thank you for liking my body, it doesn't get me anywhere lol, but its nice to know someone likes it.
What if they have a bendy cock and lie on their side so that it looks like a big smile lol
I'll happily do so, if your willing to take the picture smile.
note: Am unable to take pictures of myself at such angles on m y own :P I'm not Mr Fantastic no matter how much I wish.
Thank you, now maybe someone will reply or something *he says hoping*
redface You'll make me blush in a moment. I am pretty shy i guess, it depends on who it is I'm with. So much easier on the internet :P.
someone sent me a funny mail the other day from another site.
yep he sent a cock pic but with a ruler next to it, and it measured just over 7" like i was going to be impressed lol
i was tempted to send a pic back of my new boyfriends member cos hes a fooking big boy :lol:
Quote by angelnn66
Am I the only person who responds to people who smile in their adverts?
:confused2:

Woohoo, I might actually get a reply to my ad then :bounce:
Well, only problem is to find something interesting to write in the damn thing of course confused: :notes: Actually that's probably the part where we guys would need most help and advice :jagsatwork: (especially foreigners like me who don't talk England good rolleyes )
Angel (who has no photos at all on here - smiling or not smiling!)

Even if we ask very politely ? ;)
Thomas x
Click here to view my ad
Pictures of a freshly cooked pizza always gets a good response cool