Need some advice

21 Apr 2007

We are hoping to go to a swinging club tonight and was looking for a little bit of advice, as never been before. We have looked at the website and read about suitable attire etc, it states to go upsatirs you have be dressed in likes of your underwear etc....now I (fem) feel a little self concious parading round in my underwear. It says you can wear towels, but is that about it, or would say a dressing gown be acceptable?? Any hints and tips would be greatly appreciated.
Also hope this right part of forum to post this!
J & B

21 Apr 2007

Nope - but I have moved it for you. My good deed for the morning.
lol

21 Apr 2007

Does deed size count? wink

21 Apr 2007

Quote by Lost
Does deed size count?

Nope, just quality! Same as usual...
:lol:

21 Apr 2007

Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels? dunno

I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up well.
If you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:

21 Apr 2007

We have been to several clubs where women have worn robes. A silky kimono type wrap would always be preferable to a towelling dressing gown though. Sexy dresses are usually acceptable wear for the playrooms too. The usual rule at clubs is no "street-wear". Take a lingerie set in a bag as well in case you change your mind halfway through the evening.
Good luck, once you've been there for half an hour you'll wonder why you were worrying about it. cool

In edit ... just looked at your profile - the basque you're wearing in the photo would be perfectly ok at the club you are planning to visit.

21 Apr 2007

Cheers for the advice! biggrin

The club is the Town H o u s e on the wirral.
xx

21 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels?
I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:

They could Cover you up with a stamp, blink

but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?

21 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?

Yes indeed they are and if you ever fancy a trip to Chams with your lovely wife, I'll hold your hands kiss

21 Apr 2007

Quote by varca
Cheers for the advice!
The club is the Town H o u s e on the wirral.
xx

I am a member and it is an excellent club. It is very relaxed and as it says it's just a case of not allowing routine daywear upstairs. I wore a pvc dress when it was time to get changed but others were just in lingerie, wraps, sexy short shirts and tops, fetishwear. It was mainly the men that were in towels. There were ladies of all shapes and sizes and everyone was really friendly. You'll love it there, a good choice for your first time. I'm thinking of going again next Saturday so I might see you there wave

If you want to know anything else, just pm me :D
hijack sorry redface

varca

get back to your work wink

21 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels?
I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:

They could Cover you up with a stamp, blink

but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?
redface

Yes they're plenty big enough - I stick with the small towels though - If I had a large one I'd be tripping over it because it would be down to the floor :giggle:

21 Apr 2007

Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
- If I had a large one I'd be tripping over it because it would be down to the floor :giggle:

I wish I had the same problem.
But - while you're down there . . . . . . .
innocent

21 Apr 2007

Quote by Dawnie
but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?

Yes indeed they are and if you ever fancy a trip to Chams with your lovely wife, I'll hold your hands kiss

Funny thing is Dawn I can’t get my head round clubs at all, the idea just seems a bit icky to me. No offence intended for those of you who like em, but the idea of being naked around stacks of people I don’t know fills me with dread. :eeek:
Huuuummmm, now Bondage clubs (I get to keep some clothes on), sounds fine. dunno

21 Apr 2007

When we went we were the same didn't know what to wear, Jay took some shorts and I took an Ann Summers robe, both were spot on as others wore similar. But to be honest, a lot of people were walking around naked :shock: so neither would have mattered! lol

Towels were worn by a lot of people also.

21 Apr 2007

I can just see me mincing through the main room, pulling at the hem of my towel trying to keep it from riding up and flashing my bits at assorted shocked individuals

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

21 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
I can just see me mincing through the main room, pulling at the hem of my towel trying to keep it from riding up and flashing my bits at assorted shocked individuals :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

You wouldn't shock me Stormy :rascal:

21 Apr 2007

I will have to find something appropriate. Dont even know if we will venture upstairs being first trip, but better be prepared at least!
How did you take your drinks into the place (if you drink alcohol)....just like a bottle of wine or spirits?? I will deffo need a drink thats for sure!!
Thanx for the tips tho!
Is anyone actually going tonight??
J & B x

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
I can just see me mincing through the main room, pulling at the hem of my towel trying to keep it from riding up and flashing my bits at assorted shocked individuals :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Stomrwalker honey, Morbius is of larger build than you and he's never had that problem :shock: some clubs are better than others though lol

Cx

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
Hiya you two
Difficult to answer without knowing which club you're going to, but it might be worth just giving them a call and asking the club directly.
One thing I will say is even if they do say it's ok to wear a dressing gown, would your lady feel more self concious if everyone else was in underwear & towels?
I know when we've been to chams they do 2 sizes of towels and the large ones are full size ones that cover you up you don't mind naming the club you're planning on visiting you might be able to get some advice from people who've already visited it :thumbup:

They could Cover you up with a stamp, blink

but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?
Yep the went round me twice settled for shorts in the end lol

22 Apr 2007

Quote by Stormwalker
They could Cover you up with a stamp, but are the towels big enough to cover me, thats the question?

No but I am :twisted:

22 Apr 2007

I have been once with some friends from mids room and befor i went i was bricking it but once inside it was no problem at all i felt very easy. Maybe that was because i knew and had met many there at socials ect.
Maybe a good idea id if you know someone else who goes or is going ask them to sit with you so you feel easier.

22 Apr 2007

It was great really enjoyed ourselves. Will deffo be going back.
Thanx for the tips!!