Need some advice

1 Jan 2007

Hey all this is my first post.
My predicament is when i have sex i come quickly the first time but i can regain a full erection within 2-3 mins now would this be a major problem in the swinging community or would i be ok. i'm looking at getting into this sort of thing but this could hold me back. any advice would be gratefully received.
Thanks

1 Jan 2007

yep...i think this predicament will hold you back......i suggest you quit now and find another hobbie instead...

1 Jan 2007

Well fella if you recover that quick then i wouldnt bother saying nothing just go with the flow and when it happens lie back say mmm now watch this lol

- only problem comes is if you fail to live up to your statement then your gonna look silly biggrin

and no repeat performances

1 Jan 2007

My advice?? Be honest about it when you are contacting people... There are all sorts of things that you can do while you are waiting for it to get hard again wink

1 Jan 2007

Quote by Jonnygee
Hey all this is my first post.
My predicament is when i have sex i come quickly the first time but i can regain a full erection within 2-3 mins now would this be a major problem in the swinging community or would i be ok. i'm looking at getting into this sort of thing but this could hold me back. any advice would be gratefully received.
Thanks

Hi Johnnygee,
You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'. I've never had a problem with coming too soon, in fact sometimes I find it takes me too long sometimes, but I wanted the abilty to be able to control my own orgasm... to be able to pull myself back from the brink whilst keeping up my grinding for the lovely lady. The quality of your erection will increase too, youll be rigid.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle so many times a day to work it out. To find the muscle, next time you go to the toilet to wee stop yourself 'mid-wee'. That is the muscle which should be worked on. Start with tensing it for 3 seconds, 50 times each day, and as the weeks roll by you'll increase the number of reps just like you would weights in the gym.
Same principle for women too, but its the PC muscle not the BC. It tightens up their love tools and strengthens their urinal control. It also helps prevent problems with the prostate in men.
Look it up mate, give it a whirl.

2 Jan 2007

You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'. I've never had a problem with coming too soon, in fact sometimes I find it takes me too long sometimes, but I wanted the abilty to be able to control my own orgasm... to be able to pull myself back from the brink whilst keeping up my grinding for the lovely lady. The quality of your erection will increase too, youll be rigid.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle so many times a day to work it out. To find the muscle, next time you go to the toilet to wee stop yourself 'mid-wee'. That is the muscle which should be worked on. Start with tensing it for 3 seconds, 50 times each day, and as the weeks roll by you'll increase the number of reps just like you would weights in the gym.
Sounds like too much hard work to me!! lol

3 Jan 2007

I find 15 pints of lager helps wink

3 Jan 2007

Quote by kentswingers777
You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'. I've never had a problem with coming too soon, in fact sometimes I find it takes me too long sometimes, but I wanted the abilty to be able to control my own orgasm... to be able to pull myself back from the brink whilst keeping up my grinding for the lovely lady. The quality of your erection will increase too, youll be rigid.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle so many times a day to work it out. To find the muscle, next time you go to the toilet to wee stop yourself 'mid-wee'. That is the muscle which should be worked on. Start with tensing it for 3 seconds, 50 times each day, and as the weeks roll by you'll increase the number of reps just like you would weights in the gym.
Sounds like too much hard work to me!! lol

Is that what it is called, you learn something new each day.

3 Jan 2007

De_Sade, I hope this helps - although my brain is trying to tell me it's too early to be looking at anatomical pictures this early in the morning. lol

3 Jan 2007

never mind the kegel exercises.
Just watch theres something about Mary for all the expert advice you need.
"never go out with a loaded gun"
But check in a mirror afterwards.

3 Jan 2007

Quote by Kiss
De_Sade, I hope this helps - although my brain is trying to tell me it's too early to be looking at anatomical pictures this early in the morning.

Oi you !
We all know you've been looking for excuses to post genital shots in the forum since you joined- but eeeeeugh! smackbottom

3 Jan 2007

Quote by winchwench
De_Sade, I hope this helps - although my brain is trying to tell me it's too early to be looking at anatomical pictures this early in the morning.

Oi you !
We all know you've been looking for excuses to post genital shots in the forum since you joined- but eeeeeugh! smackbottom

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
kiss

3 Jan 2007

Quote by de_sade
You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle...

BC muscle? dunno

Bum control? Big cock? Before Christ? Back Chasm? Blue Cheese? Butt Cheek?
Sorry not being a body-builder your technical jargon is lost on me. Care to explain what a BC muscle is...?
:dunno:
When you go to the toilet for a number 1, stop yourself half way through and that is your BC muscle. You'll know what it is, is the thing you use to pump extra blood into private johnson too. Same muscle for the ladies too.
Can do it anytime, anywhere and only takes a few minutes. I got it off a programme I watched on channel 4 a few years back, porn stars do it to help them with control and so their willies dont dribble, they explode. :twisted:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by de_sade
You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle...

BC muscle? dunno

Bum control? Big cock? Before Christ? Back Chasm? Blue Cheese? Butt Cheek?
Sorry not being a body-builder your technical jargon is lost on me. Care to explain what a BC muscle is...?
:dunno:
When you next go to the toilet for a number 1, stop yourself half way through and THAT is your BC muscle. Its the one you use to pump extra blood into private johnson too when hes starting to slack a little.
Can do the exercise anywhere and any time and it only takes a few minutes. I got it from a channel 4 programme a few years back. Porn stars (both girls and boys) do it in that industry. It helps the blokes in controling themselves and so they can explode half way across the room, and it keeps the ladies tighter.
Would never of told my ex to do 'em mind, she'd of clouted me! :scared:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by Iluvit1984
You can sort the problem out mate, or at least help it by performing an exercize called a 'Kegel'.
Basically it involves tensing your BC muscle...

BC muscle? dunno

Bum control? Big cock? Before Christ? Back Chasm? Blue Cheese? Butt Cheek?
Sorry not being a body-builder your technical jargon is lost on me. Care to explain what a BC muscle is...?
:dunno:
When you next go to the toilet for a number 1, stop yourself half way through and THAT is your BC muscle. Its the one you use to pump extra blood into private johnson too when hes starting to slack a little.
Can do the exercise anywhere and any time and it only takes a few minutes. I got it from a channel 4 programme a few years back. Porn stars (both girls and boys) do it in that industry. It helps the blokes in controling themselves and so they can explode half way across the room, and it keeps the ladies tighter.
Would never of told my ex to do 'em mind, she'd of clouted me! :scared:
I'm not sure if I want to explode half way across the room luvit! :shock:
Just the odd orgasm or two'll be fine for me thanks! wink

3 Jan 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
I'm not sure if I want to explode half way across the room luvit! :shock:

Ahhh come on man! In 6 months time, instead of the usual dribble you'll be cleaning it off the ceiling... it'll be like your own natural inbuilt super soaker! :haha:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by Iluvit1984

I'm not sure if I want to explode half way across the room luvit! :shock:

Ahhh come on man! In 6 months time, instead of the usual dribble you'll be cleaning it off the ceiling... it'll be like your own natural inbuilt super soaker! :haha:
Where's spurter when you need him dunno

3 Jan 2007

I can feel a shooting competition coming on!! wink

Please let me have a ringside seat.

3 Jan 2007

Quote by Hungrypussy69
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)

3 Jan 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :thumbup:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by Iluvit1984

I'm not sure if I want to explode half way across the room luvit! :shock:

Ahhh come on man! In 6 months time, instead of the usual dribble you'll be cleaning it off the ceiling... it'll be like your own natural inbuilt super soaker! :haha:
USUAL DRIBBLE? evil

Right luvit..that's it..
TAKE AIM..
FIRRRREEEE!..
blast

3 Jan 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
Minxy..in the immortal words of Tammy Wynette..Stand by your hunk!

3 Jan 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
Minxy..in the immortal words of Tammy Wynette..Stand by your hunk!

I have 3 niceandgentle, can I go somewhere in the middle? :twisted:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
:laughabove: :laughabove:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by BiWelshMinx
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
Minxy..in the immortal words of Tammy Wynette..Stand by your hunk!

I have 3 niceandgentle, can I go somewhere in the middle? :twisted:
Fine by me Minxy, stand by your hunkS it is but how will you be in the middle???
You'd have to have 2 on one side and 1 on the other or 1 each side and 1 front or back or 1 behind,1 in front and a spare to hand..! :twisted:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
Minxy..in the immortal words of Tammy Wynette..Stand by your hunk!

I have 3 niceandgentle, can I go somewhere in the middle? :twisted:
Fine by me Minxy, stand by your hunkS it is but how will you be in the middle???
They can leave a gap between each of them & minxy can walk back & forth behind them- like in the fairground!
You'd have to have 2 on one side and 1 on the other or 1 each side and 1 front or back or 1 behind,1 in front and a spare to hand..! :twisted:

3 Jan 2007

Quote by niceandgentle
I can feel a shooting competition coming on!!
Please let me have a ringside seat.

I want one right at the back and the fecker who hits me has a date!! ;)
Minxy..in the immortal words of Tammy Wynette..Stand by your hunk!

I have 3 niceandgentle, can I go somewhere in the middle? :twisted:
Fine by me Minxy, stand by your hunkS it is but how will you be in the middle???
You'd have to have 2 on one side and 1 on the other or 1 each side and 1 front or back or 1 behind,1 in front and a spare to hand..! :twisted:
I did say somewhere in the middle ;)

3 Jan 2007

Quote by mazandden
never mind the kegel exercises.
Just watch theres something about Mary for all the expert advice you need.
"never go out with a loaded gun"
But check in a mirror afterwards.

That movie has made my life soooo much easier, best piece of advice anyone could ever have.

3 Jan 2007

Someone nicked my insight!
OI! give me my fecking words back! :fuckinghell:
It was funny too!

3 Jan 2007

Quote by winchwench
Someone nicked my insight!
OI! give me my fecking words back! :fuckinghell:
It was funny too!

Winchwench, please try again!
SH needs your insight or else all is..er..insightless! wink