never mind newbie,virtual virgins

30 Mar 2005

ok ok so I decided to take the plunge at last! been looking and pondering and thinking and well, you know, we've all been there hey!
Anyway its a first for me,have never even got so far as kissing another woman or going more than 1:1 but if I dont do it now I'll never try and THAT would mean missing out on all those hot and horny fantasies.
Any tips on making that first connection with someone, ideally bi fem to join myself and my partner and er... . initiate redface

and the general script for hmm? dress codes when going to clubs (apart from a smile I mean) OMG am I really doing this?
Well thats enough for now I think, seems like a friendly site so I'm hoping its going to become a favourite of ours and who knows, maybe some of us will get better aquainted smile

30 Mar 2005

hi and welcome biggrin

you could put an ad in the lets meet up section describing exactly what your looking for.
be patient and i'm sure you will get what you want.
also, somone else will be along in a mo to give you much better advice!!! lol

30 Mar 2005

Yes my tip is =Ignore ALL the blokes
I should know cos I am one :lol:

30 Mar 2005

:welcome:
hi, eveybody is friendly here. as alot of people have suggested in the past, take your time, get to know people and that way you'll be more comfortable in the decisions you make.
Have fun

30 Mar 2005

but don't ignore all the blokes!!!!
it would be rude to do that!! (unless they are twats) lol

30 Mar 2005

ok ok I wont ignore ALL the guys - not much point in that really is there! But guess I'm after a couple or a female initially, you never know huh....Been thinking about this for about 5 yrs now so its high time I got off my ass and made it happen! :twisted:

30 Mar 2005

go for it!! good luck wink

30 Mar 2005

Quote by fcbairns
eveybody is friendly here.

I'm not!
Fuck off!

30 Mar 2005

Welcome to our little slice of Heaven.
John
smile

30 Mar 2005

Quote by Vix
eveybody is friendly here.

I'm{/i] not!
Fuck off!
lol

hahaha but your ace anyway vix biggrin

30 Mar 2005

hihi
everyone before and after us will give you safe and (not too)sane advice. But we wanted to :welcome: u!
go at whatever speed feels right, don't be pressured, you get to make the decisions on what you want. Even if it's a single bloke. we hear there are SOME redeemable ones out there... of course, should u want a sweet bi-fem couple from Oxford well.... :evil2:
MUCH LUCK!!!!
S n G

31 Mar 2005

Quote by Andromeda
ok ok I wont ignore ALL the guys - not much point in that really is there! But guess I'm after a couple or a female initially, you never know huh....Been thinking about this for about 5 yrs now so its high time I got off my ass and made it happen! :twisted:

And what a nice ass it is too. wink

:welcome: to :swingingchair: Heaven.

31 Mar 2005

Aah - you see - once you make that decision you want it to happen "now, now, now" lol

Same advice here as I have given before: - take your time to find the right person. If it isn't the right person you may find yourself a little dissapointed, and crash goes your fantasy.
What/who is the "right" person? Someone you're attracted to and click with of course! cool

But really - do take your time. Don't rush into it.
And most of all - enjoy wink

aRSexx :color:

31 Mar 2005

Quote by Rainbows
Aah - you see - once you make that decision you want it to happen "now, now, now"
Same advice here as I have given before: - take your time to find the right person. If it isn't the right person you may find yourself a little dissapointed, and crash goes your fantasy.
What/who is the "right" person? Someone you're attracted to and click with of course!
But really - do take your time. Don't rush into it.
And most of all - enjoy
aRSexx :color:

'Bows? I think I might be bi.
Will you be my 'right' person?
Note to any women I may have shagged... Shuddup!

31 Mar 2005

Welcome Andromeda wave

I was the same as you looked for ages before joining in. Glad I did now having a ball. Don't take some of the replys in posts too seriously, it's good to laugh :grin: . Goods folks on here loon

. Have fun rotflmao

:love: xxx

31 Mar 2005

ello andromeda,
:welcome: to SH! biggrin

can't offer you any advice, cos i'm rubbish at it, and you've already had what i'd have said anyways, so just a hello!
luckily, you're in SH swinging central over there across the pennines, so not a bad start anyway! ;) few more reprobates your way in the chatroom too, so see if you can get in there. smile

oh and vix? luckily i've just finished my tea, else i might well have choked! lol

neil x x x ;)

31 Mar 2005

Thanks guys ( girls too!!) you know what I mean. Am actually really buzzing about it, Think I may drop in at a club not far from here tonight and see what its about. Typical took me ages to pluck up the courage now I want to run before I can walk! hehehehe
Sure I'll get round to the chat room too so looking forward to making some new friends wink

31 Mar 2005

Just be patient and be prepared for the odd few timewasters,but generally everyone very friendly xx

31 Mar 2005

Quote by Vix
eveybody is friendly here.

I'm not!
Fuck off!
Thatâ€™s our Vix subtle as a sledgehammer and gorgeous with it lol oh and bow's read the fine print lol