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Hello all,
First post on forum!!!!!!!!
but won't be the last!
Has anyone got any advice for M/F couple looking for bi female for a first time 3some. We have posted our profile and have sent out a few contact e-mails, no responses yet. As total beginners we are looking for females late 20's, early 30's who have done this before and can show us the ropes (so to speak).
We are still a bit nervous of posting piccies and giving full names yet, should we be worried? are are we selling ourselves short for the profile?
any advice will be helpful.
J
Get used to the site, and take your time
and Welcome biggrin
Many thanks!!!!!!
We have really enjoyed what we have seen so far!!!!!!!!
:welcome: peeps we're newbies ourselves but have been made very welcome. Get to the bar its your round He He!!!
where is the bar?
or am I being thick?
this is were steph would have come in!! :cry:
lol
Hi bigmac99
:welcome: to swinging heaven
Hope you have loads of fun and find what your seeking hehehe
Shaz kiss
How you doing Shaz and Tony,
We are just signing of now after a few pints in the bar.
but looking forward to picking up any further advice in the morning.
Thank you for the warm welcome.
We are starting to feel like one of the family already.
Welcome to SH - as others have said, things here can take time. Be patient. Good luck.
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How you doing Shaz and Tony,

Were do fantastic thankyou bigmac99 apart from the flu!
Shaz x
Bonjour big mac, do you know what they call the big mac in france? Le big mac pretty obvoius realy but it was thought worthy enought o get scripted into pulp fiction!!??
anyway welcome to SH, and as for advice just get to know people, it is sooo hard to get meetings with single bi fems be it here or anywhere else but here is probably a better place to start than any, so dig in, make yourself at home and enjoy SH.
Hi bigmac and welcome.
Pull up a chair, sit down, kick off your shoes and relax.
I'm learning that people begin to trust you, the more you post and get involved.
And there endeth my font of all knowledge. lol
Dave
Hi Bigmac, welcome to the madhouse, I mean forums wink I hope that someone warned you that once you get in here, there is noooo way out, you are here for ever lol
As for the advice, I can only say what the others have already said. Get yourself known a little on here, join in with the banter, and most of all, dont rush things. Take it slowly and enjoy the time 'thinking' about it, but most of all, only do what you feel comfortable with.
Have fun :lol:
Hi there
We are also new on this site, so we know how you are feeling in fact we are still novices in swinging but have enjoyed our few experiences so far. Must say more seems to be going on in the main land than in NI .
Good luck and enjoy yourselves
smile
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Hi there
We are also new on this site, so we know how you are feeling in fact we are still novices in swinging but have enjoyed our few experiences so far. Must say more seems to be going on in the main land than in NI .
Good luck and enjoy yourselves
smile

And a big welcome to Credo as well :welcome:
Oh how rude of me I completely missed this post so now i'm here let me extend a warm friendly and slightly clammy hand shake to you and say :welcome: to :swingingchair: Heaven
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very difficult to get connected to a single fem.....or should i say a single fem who is genuine or not a guy or not a piccy collector....we still arnt able to tell the difference.....
pics on your profile do help...even if you cut the heads off and just give people an idea of your body size/type etc....this is an ace site though ,.......and we know it works (weve had a meet wooooohoooo) and the forum is the best, laterz guys and welcome
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this is were steph would have come in!! :cry:
lol

Or, in fact, any number of regulars who also say 'welcome', such as the ones on this thread.
Steph was not the only helpful person on here.
wave :wave: :wave: Welcome, Bigmac.
ok all the newbies in this thread HELLO and welcome to swinging heaven,
just because soem of us ladies do not have our faces in our profiles does not mean we are nor real,
best bet is to stick with the forum users and get to know those who are real through here and munches, after all not all men who are men are still genuine. so just cuse you can establish gender does not mean it establishes if they are ture swingers etc ??
xxxxxxxxxx lots of luv xxxxxx lou xxxxxxxxxxx
a real female
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ok all the newbies in this thread HELLO and welcome to swinging heaven,
just because soem of us ladies do not have our faces in our profiles does not mean we are nor real,
best bet is to stick with the forum users and get to know those who are real through here and munches, after all not all men who are men are still genuine. so just cuse you can establish gender does not mean it establishes if they are ture swingers etc ??
xxxxxxxxxx lots of luv xxxxxx lou xxxxxxxxxxx
a real female

Agreed, Lou. We've played with bi females off this site. And met genuine couples. And met genuine single men.