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Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx
Not really,they might not have ever used the chatrooms and forums because they are here purely to use the photo ads secton!
Quote by Mr-Powers
Not really they might not have ever used the chatrooms and forums because they are here purely to use the photo ads secton!

not to mention the chatroom is a very large place....
Its highly possible to travel through numerous rooms and not see a specific member..
did you get their username? that would help in your search lol
Quote by liznbob
Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx

Then consider the fact that some ask to go to munches and wonder why they need to be vouched for - how does one decide who is genuine enough to be 'let loose' with other members? wink
They could have been coming to the ad section for ages. I have met some people through the ads who don't even know there is a forum here. Probably because they come here just to meet people and not for chat etc smile
Quote by liznbob
Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx

I guess it is not too different to trying to judge someone with only 17 posts - if post count is to be any indication of people being 'genuine' confused
Quote by liznbob
Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx

Why not just speak to them over the phone? :shock: rotflmao :shock:
Quote by Liaisons
Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx

Why not just speak to them over the phone? :shock: rotflmao :shock:
Think we will have to do that lol, let the girls speak to each other and take it from there smile
Not really, I'm the poster here (Mr Jay doesn't at all) and have only really been posting for a few months, not posting doesn't mean not a reliable person! We've met people who don't post and have chatted freely on MSN and met them and they've been genuine wink
Quote by berksbex
I have met some people through the ads who don't even know there is a forum here.

Same here. I've also met people in chat who are prolific readers of the forum but have less than a handful of posts to their name.
Post count and/or length of membership etc aren't a reliable benchmark at all, I always ask to speak on the phone to any person I'm considering meeting as I find that soon sorts the genuine from the dreamers.
I've been here for yonks - much longer than my registry date says - I've got a fair amount of posts, yet still no one has a feckin clue who i am! lol
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I've been here for yonks - much longer than my registry date says - I've got a fair amount of posts, yet still no one has a feckin clue who i am! lol

Who are you? kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
thats like us......we have been members of SH for a long time, have always read the forum but never really posted........untill now, we have decided to start to get ourselves known here!!
we are 100% genuine!! and we may not post much on here but we chat some times in the chatroom and alot on msn.
hope this helps!!
♥ Minx and Mr ♥
Quote by PoloLady
Hi folks,
Recently we were approached by an absolutely gorgeous couple, almost too good to be true if you what we mean lol,we checked their posts to find they do not have any, and do not recall seeing them in the chatrooms. So its a little awkward knowing just how how genuine they are, presumably there are readers of this who have had simular problems ???
Hugs n stuff,
Liz n Bob xxx

I guess it is not too different to trying to judge someone with only 17 posts - if post count is to be any indication of people being 'genuine' confused
I agree with you there, there are people who post who have over 2000 and from what I can see, are as see through as clingfilm! My trusting and liking of people comes from their interaction with me as a person in the form, MSN chats, PM's etc etc, little words mean much more than a "clever" posting in the forum. I only need two hands to count the ones in the forum that are genuinely nice, they know who they are smile
Liznbob
As previously said the Forum/chatroom is a tiny percentage of users of this site. Being either of the above makes people no more 'genuine' than the people who choose not too. Depends on your definition of genuine (let's not go there rolleyes )
Chatting via PM's/email/msn/phone will give you a better idea and basically use good old common sense.
We've had great success with the ads using the above. There are lots of really nice genuine swingers out there, it takes time and investment though and it's not an exact science.
Good luck :thumbup:
pink x
Quote by blonde
I've been here for yonks - much longer than my registry date says - I've got a fair amount of posts, yet still no one has a feckin clue who i am! lol

Who are you? kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

And you are .... ????
My step-mother! :giggle:
Quote by Marya_Northeast
I've been here for yonks - much longer than my registry date says - I've got a fair amount of posts, yet still no one has a feckin clue who i am! lol

Who are you? kiss
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

And you are .... ????
My step-mother! :giggle:
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
Can I just be your older sister? :rascal:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx