New couple

27 Sep 2013

Hello
At last, after many years of asking, my wife is now keen to start playing. When we first met I told her all about my love of swinging and she was very keen, however she soon became pregnant with our first child and swinging was placed on the back burner. She was happy with me to continue looking on SH, and to have the very occasional meet. After a couple more children and a new start with a new career, she has now said that she wants to play as a couple. I feel very lucky but a little out of my depth as to what to do as a couple. We have had several long talks about what we do and don't want, and I feel comfortable with whats happening but would like any real couples help as to what to watch out for and how I can ensure that our first steps into this lifestyle go as smoothly as possible. Any(serious) suggestions would be gratefully received.
I hope that this comes across as its ment, as a curious question and not just for wank material.
Fry

19 Oct 2013

Thank you so much for answering.
We have followed your advice and have a couples profile,with recent pics of us both (that we loved taking). We have had lots of very straight talking about what we would and wouldn't like to do, and we are now chatting with another couple with the view of meeting. We are both very excited (it seems we both have butterfly's living in our stomachs). We do live close to a couple of clubs and think we may like to attend a couples night.
thanks again for some very good advice
yours
fry