New couple looking for ffm - help!

14 Feb 2005

Hi Guys
We're new to this (first time on anything like this!) and frankly we're very nervous confused

but nothing ventured...
We've seen some ads we like but what's the ettiquette for replying? I can understand the "no one liners" but how far do you go with a reply? We love to write each other stories to act out/turn each other on and were wondering if that sort of thing was ok..? Also, how can we put this, some of the ads seem just too good to be true if you see what we mean... Anybody into swapping stories/photos? Is this a done thing?
Sorry if all this seems niave, just don't want to get burned and hey, we all have to start somewhere.
Be gentle....

14 Feb 2005

New couple looking for ffm...
Nothing new about that ;)
There is a stories link. You can submit your work from there and some one decides whether it goes up, I think.

14 Feb 2005

Hi Beast... We're also a new couple looking for ffm. We haven't met up with anyone yet but have at least made some promising contact via e-mail and msn. Probably best to contact some one you think is looking for what you're interested in and see if you can get some communication going. The thing is, you'll be all excited, it being new and al, and then it takes months to get going. Just refer to your interests in your own ad too.
Good luck!

14 Feb 2005

Quote by beastofburden
We've seen some ads we like but what's the ettiquette for replying? I can understand the "no one liners" but how far do you go with a reply?

Personally I like replies that tell me a bit about the couple - not just what they like sexually - but something that gives me a bit of insight into who they are really. And i have to admit that overtly sexual photos in an intro just turn me straight off.
But then that is just me. I don't profess to my likes being those of everyone else.
Rs :color:

14 Feb 2005

Well, feel free to post replies on any of the threads and that way you'll start to acquire a persona and you'll begin to get known. Try putting up a few posts of your own if you think they would interest/entertain but don't go OTT and appear to be spamming the site.
In my experience it all follows from there.
Best to avoid the threads that wind you up though, unless you're feeling in the mood for a sparring match!
Have fun. wink

:wink:

14 Feb 2005

Quote by Rainbows
We've seen some ads we like but what's the ettiquette for replying? I can understand the "no one liners" but how far do you go with a reply?

Personally I like replies that tell me a bit about the couple - not just what they like sexually - but something that gives me a bit of insight into who they are really. And i have to admit that overtly sexual photos in an intro just turn me straight off.
But then that is just me. I don't profess to my likes being those of everyone else.
Rs :color:
I'd agree with Rainbows. When I was looking/playing I did like to find out more about the person and their attitude/perspective on general things.

14 Feb 2005

:welcome:
Remember the old adage "If it sounds to good to be true.........it probably is".
:love:
Netsuke

15 Feb 2005

Good morning everybody
Just wanted to post a thank you to all the people who took time to bother to post a reply to the thread - all of them are helpful and also helped to calm the jitters! Going to take all advice on board and if anybody has anything else to add feel free! smile

15 Feb 2005

Be Happeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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15 Feb 2005

Hey Beastofburden,
Not sure that I have anything to add to the other comments on this thread, other than to say a big Welcome to SH.
However, I am also looking for a FFM. No real reason for telling you that.
I just wanted to get it out there. lol