Hi there,
I am new here and have just a couple of questions and would be eternally grateful for help.
I am confused by some of the initials used, is therea help page that will give me their meanings?
Is it normal that I am getting a lot of contact from single guys even though my ad is pretty clear ( well, I think it is ) about what I am looking for?
Do I HAVE to post a sexy pic? I have had quite a few emails asking to see some and the sad fact is I just don't have any. Hmmmm ... maybe I should start a volunteer list for cameraman.
Lastly ...... Is it rude of me to expect sex to be safe ( i.e protection )
I won't bore you with all my other minor questions. I ask the above ones in particular due to some things that have happened to me on here in the last couple of days.
All help welcome and hell, with the way I feel today a hug would be nice too :crazy:
Thanks, Abilene xxxxx
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Hi and :welcome: to the forum. Abilene
Some one will help point you to the relevant help pages.
You post what pics you see fit to post and no one else.
No it's not rude to expect safe sex and don't concider any other way what ever anyone says. Unless thats what you want.
If you have any questions just ask in here there are many who will help
All the best and hope you find what you want.
Some one will help point you to the relevant help pages.
You post what pics you see fit to post and no one else.
No it's not rude to expect safe sex and don't concider any other way what ever anyone says. Unless thats what you want.
If you have any questions just ask in here there are many who will help
All the best and hope you find what you want.
Yes you will get hassled by single guy. Generally our dicks work quicker than our brains or fingers (oo - err). 
No you don't have to post a sexy picture.
The picture on the right is easy. Honest, it only took me 3 months to work out. Go to my Profile and click oon forum settings and there you go. All the stuff is on the right side.
Oh by the welcome. :welcome:
No you don't have to post a sexy picture.
The picture on the right is easy. Honest, it only took me 3 months to work out. Go to my Profile and click oon forum settings and there you go. All the stuff is on the right side.
Oh by the welcome. :welcome:
Quote by Abilene
Hi there,
I am confused by some of the initials used, is therea help page that will give me their meanings?
A link to a post giving explinations about intials............... HTH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3403.html
:welcome:
In edit: I've found another swinging related one.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3361.html
Do I HAVE to post a sexy pic? I have had quite a few emails asking to see some and the sad fact is I just don't have any. Hmmmm ... maybe I should start a volunteer list for cameraman.
Just visited your profile. It's areally nice photo. :thumbup:
If you do need a volunteer, single male or not I would like to be put on the list.
:D Quote by Abilene
Hi there,
I am new here and have just a couple of questions and would be eternally grateful for help.
I am confused by some of the initials used, is therea help page that will give me their meanings?
I used to have a list that someone sent me, I'll see if I can dig it out for you. Other than that, just ask as you see them. I did. People sometimes laughed, but I'm happy enough o know that no-one laughs at me any louder than I do
Is it normal that I am getting a lot of contact from single guys even though my ad is pretty clear ( well, I think it is ) about what I am looking for?
I'm afraid it might be. If you hang around, you'll soon learn to spot the chancers, chancing their arm. It is possible to block contact from "single guys" in your settings. The drawback with that is that you might miss something, but if you fins there are some that you'd like to be able to contact you, you can sort of "unban" them by adding them to your friends list. Again, somewhere in your settings.
Do I HAVE to post a sexy pic? I have had quite a few emails asking to see some and the sad fact is I just don't have any. Hmmmm ... maybe I should start a volunteer list for cameraman.
NOT AT ALL, do you HAVE TO post any pic, information about you, or anything else that you're not comfortable to post ! ! ! ! ! And anyone that leaves you with that impression is an arse !!
Lastly ...... Is it rude of me to expect sex to be safe ( i.e protection )
Again - NOT AT ALL ! ! ! - You set your rules and boundaries. And again, anyone wanting you to break them is an arse ! !
I won't bore you with all my other minor questions. I ask the above ones in particular due to some things that have happened to me on here in the last couple of days.
You should feel free to ask questions you have, and ask for any advice where you feel the need.
All help welcome and hell, with the way I feel today a hug would be nice too :crazy:
Thanks, Abilene xxxxx
Welcome to the asylum
Here's a welcome hug, as you asked :therethere:
Quote by sheddy
Hi there,
I am confused by some of the initials used, is therea help page that will give me their meanings?
A link to a post giving explinations about intials............... HTH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3403.html
:welcome:
In edit: I've found another swinging related one.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3361.html
HTH??? Help The Hindered????
Quote by keeno
Go to my Profile and click oon forum settings and there you go. All the stuff is on the right side.
I must be having a 'stupid day' ( I have them quite often it seems ) as when I went to 'my profile' there is nowhere that it says ' my forum settings' it does have 'my profile settings' but no help in there. Grrrrrr..... I now need not only a hug, but a damn drink too !!! lol
Hi and welcome to the forum and the site.
I'm sure you'll get much more help on the teckie front than I can give you.
Yes you will get attention from single guys, don't ignore all of them, some of them here on the forum are actually human :shock:
As for the safe sex thing, you're here for your enjoyment and your benifit and you shouldn't be expected to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Don't be affraid of saying no and don't be bullied into anything you don't want to do. (not that I'm saying you would)
Most importantly of all, enjoy yourself and have fun :twisted:
H.x
I'm sure you'll get much more help on the teckie front than I can give you.
Yes you will get attention from single guys, don't ignore all of them, some of them here on the forum are actually human :shock:
As for the safe sex thing, you're here for your enjoyment and your benifit and you shouldn't be expected to do anything you don't feel comfortable doing. Don't be affraid of saying no and don't be bullied into anything you don't want to do. (not that I'm saying you would)
Most importantly of all, enjoy yourself and have fun :twisted:
H.x
Go to my Profile and click oon forum settings and there you go. All the stuff is on the right side.
I must be having a 'stupid day' ( I have them quite often it seems ) as when I went to 'my profile' there is nowhere that it says ' my forum settings' it does have 'my profile settings' but no help in there. Grrrrrr..... I now need not only a hug, but a damn drink too !!! lol
Probably me. I'm possibly the least techy person on this site. Don't worry someone will explain it to you. I'll just shut up and leave it to the clever people.
Quote by sheddy
A link to a post giving explinations about intials............... HTH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3403.html
Holy Cow !!!!! I looked at the link .... there isnt going to be a test on this is there .... maybe Hindered is right for me ... !!!! Damn Americans we can never get it right!!
When you're looking around for info about the "picture over there, ao the left" - it's known as an avatar. That's what you need to look for in your settings thingy.
Has anyone directed you here yet ?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
The mentor scheme for new members.
Has anyone directed you here yet ?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
The mentor scheme for new members.
Quote by Abilene
A link to a post giving explinations about intials............... HTH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3403.html
Holy Cow !!!!! I looked at the link .... there isnt going to be a test on this is there .... maybe Hindered is right for me ... !!!! Damn Americans we can never get it right!!
I bloody well hope not as i hardly know any of them :lol:
Welcome to :swingingchair: Heaven Abilene
Sorry to hear you are already been bombarded with unwanted messages so soon. Hope it doesn't put you off from being here. As mentioned already you can block messages from those you don't want but don't know how successful it is
I am sure you will like it here as it does seem a friendly place and people are willing to help :D Hope you find what you are looking for :thumbup:
Sorry to hear you are already been bombarded with unwanted messages so soon. Hope it doesn't put you off from being here. As mentioned already you can block messages from those you don't want but don't know how successful it is
I am sure you will like it here as it does seem a friendly place and people are willing to help :D Hope you find what you are looking for :thumbup:
Quote by sheddy
A link to a post giving explinations about intials............... HTH
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/3403.html
Holy Cow !!!!! I looked at the link .... there isnt going to be a test on this is there .... maybe Hindered is right for me ... !!!! Damn Americans we can never get it right!!
I bloody well hope not as i hardly know any of them :lol:
Well, I have a new one that I would like submitted to the list ( for future tests )
SAG .... no, it does not mean what my breasts will be doing in another 10 years !!! It means Stumbling American Girl lol
Sex God
im goin to put my half pence in now!
an id like to put me self 4ward for the camrer man position if thats ok?
welcome to SH have fun hun!
Quote by Abilene
Hi there,
I am new here and have just a couple of questions and would be eternally grateful for help.
I am confused by some of the initials used, is therea help page that will give me their meanings? iv bin on the net for year's an still dont know what all this crap mean's?
Is it normal that I am getting a lot of contact from single guys even though my ad is pretty clear ( well, I think it is ) about what I am looking for? just like me m8 (best gunner/comander british army) Dammy say's YES! there tryin it on hun!
Do I HAVE to post a sexy pic?I have had quite a few emails asking to see some and the sad fact is I just don't have any. Hmmmm ... maybe I should start a volunteer list for cameraman. no you dont hun an most of the men askin for a pic r just pic colector's? its a fact of life sorry!
Lastly ...... Is it rude of me to expect sex to be safe ( i.e protection ) NO! never! its your life make sure ur safe babe!
I won't bore you with all my other minor questions. I ask the above ones in particular due to some things that have happened to me on here in the last couple of days.
All help welcome and hell, with the way I feel today a hug would be nice too :crazy:
Thanks, Abilene xxxxx
an id like to put me self 4ward for the camrer man position if thats ok?
welcome to SH have fun hun!
Sex God
Hola honey!
No point in us putting any advice, we don't really have a clue ourselves, and everyone already seems to have written a ton of info for you!
So hello, love your pic and I (maz) also love your signature!heheh!
Maz and Den xx
No point in us putting any advice, we don't really have a clue ourselves, and everyone already seems to have written a ton of info for you!
So hello, love your pic and I (maz) also love your signature!heheh!
Maz and Den xx
Quote by Abilene
Well done Abilene
Told you there were some nice folks in the forum didn't i ?
You sure did Goose, thank you.
In case anyone is interested to know ... Goose is sexy as hell when he wears his glasses !!!!
Are you settled in now
: Was going to apply for the photo shoot but seems its taken :cry: I'd love to see nice shoes :twisted:
Don'y know if anyones told you i like slingbacks n boots :twisted:
Quote by goose35
Are you settled in now
I'd love to see nice shoes :twisted:
Don'y know if anyones told you i like slingbacks n boots :twisted:
Yep, getting settled in ... should have listened to you last night and came over here ... lol.
Talk to Kiss, maybe she'll consider you for her assistant/supervisor role.
be back later xxx
Sex God
Quote by goose35
Well done Abilene
Told you there were some nice folks in the forum didn't i ?
You sure did Goose, thank you.
In case anyone is interested to know ... Goose is sexy as hell when he wears his glasses !!!!
Are you settled in now
: Was going to apply for the photo shoot but seems its taken :cry: I'd love to see nice shoes :twisted:
Don'y know if anyones told you i like slingbacks n boots :twisted:
I STILL don't know what these slingbacks are that you keep going on about, Goose, and I'm a girl!
ops: Maz xx
(Den doesn't know either , but that doesn't surprise me!)
