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Warming the Bed
patience, and common sense.
i've lurked around here for a long time (a year!) before i started posting. i've only just started posting and contacting people. but I have chatted quite a bit in the chatrooms, and i've been getting to know a few people in the chat room, and just making friends and getting to know how things work.
i've still not had any sex, or met anyone, as i know i'm still a newbie to this scene. but for me it's more about getting to know people and seeing what happens
my time will come evenutally! lol
i've lurked around here for a long time (a year!) before i started posting. i've only just started posting and contacting people. but I have chatted quite a bit in the chatrooms, and i've been getting to know a few people in the chat room, and just making friends and getting to know how things work.
i've still not had any sex, or met anyone, as i know i'm still a newbie to this scene. but for me it's more about getting to know people and seeing what happens
my time will come evenutally! lol
Orgasminator
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Quote by easyease
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Excuse me, but my man aint a dog and he wont just do anything to "get off", so dont label everyone the same as you.
louise
Orgasminator
well your bloke has got you so how would you know what he'd be like if he didnt? Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available.
Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available. Orgasminator
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational acts.
Sex God
Quote by easyease
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Hmmm I'm interested to see what Stormwalker will make of this one!
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
If Joe was in prison, on a desert island with nothing but blokes or a man among the only living people left on earth he would not " get off" just for the sake of it. I think he would rather do it alone ( if you get my drift). So i wish that you would stop assuming that you know what the "majority" of men would do, because you dont.
Louise
Quote by easyease
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Quote by easyease
well your bloke has got you so how would you know what he'd be like if he didnt? icon_ Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
How to make friends and influence people
Orgasminator
Quote by splendid33
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
There you go again, "all the married guys". Im sure you dont mean to say that, but you should think about it a bit more before you post something which you know will offend people.
louise
Orgasminator
Quote by Steve_Mids
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Quote by easyease
well your bloke has got you so how would you know what he'd be like if he didnt? icon_ Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
How to make friends and influence people
nope.....how to be honest, even though it might upset a few peoples sensibilities....... Quote by easyease
Im not shitting ya, I'm a bi bloke who has met a fair few so called "straight" guys who arent too fussy anymore........
Im speaking from experience, men are dogs, they'll do anything to get off.
DEAL WITH IT.
Quote by easyease
well your bloke has got you so how would you know what he'd be like if he didnt? icon_ Im not saying all blokes are the same but just there are a lot who will give something new a try because nothing else is available.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
How to make friends and influence people
nope.....how to be honest, even though it might upset a few peoples sensibilities.......How can you be honest about other peoples dealings, you can only be honest about your own.
louise
Orgasminator
Quote by louise_and_joe
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
There you go again, "all the married guys". Im sure you dont mean to say that, but you should think about it a bit more before you post something which you know will offend people.
louiseok substitute "all" for "a hell of a lot", im not attacking any individual relayionships. Im just speaking from what ive observed in the photo ads section, and experience from meeting some of these people.
Quote by easyease
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
I know what you are saying........ but people can get very protective of the label by which they define themselves... (I know that I do- altho' that label gets broader daily it would seem)
men specifically say they are open to anything.....except the possibility that at some point in time for whatever reason they might just have sex with a man. being "straight" or whatever is, for some people, a comfort... and security. I know that for me defining myself as a lesbian for years was safe... Now I realise that it isn't as simple as that.
others may never be open to that change.
just tone it down a bit...
Orgasminator
Quote by splendid33
ever heard the phrase "gay for the stay"? which is usually used to refer to people who are imprisoned and take whats on offer because its better than nothing.....
both men and women are capable of that. people can be bisexual purely for convenience y'know.
lol.... I think that you are offending people with the way that you are putting your point across.
just to put my point across I actually think that a sexual act doesn't define a sexuality. I think that someones' sexuality is defined by much more complex things than situational ok i admit i am coming across as a bit "in your face" but thats purely because i had three people in a row tell me im talking bullshit.
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
I know what you are saying........ but people can get very protective of the label by which they define themselves... (I know that I do- altho' that label gets broader daily it would seem)
men specifically say they are open to anything.....except the possibility that at some point in time for whatever reason they might just have sex with a man. being "straight" or whatever is, for some people, a comfort... and security. I know that for me defining myself as a lesbian for years was safe... Now I realise that it isn't as simple as that.
others may never be open to that change.
just tone it down a bit...
good point, i think im guilty of assuming that just because people class themselves as swingers that they are as broad-minded as i am. sorry for coming across as brash and all that.me and my big gob... :twisted:
Orgasminator
Quote by northwest-cpl:lol: its definately a thinner line to cross than some would like to think.
I always thought the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 6 pints of lager.
Quote by easyease:lol: its definately a thinner line to cross than some would like to think.
I always thought the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 6 pints of lager.
You mean 4 pints might do the trick sometimes? :lol: :lol: :lol:
Certainly looking through the chatroom lists, the bi chat rooms always seem to be plentiful and full ...
Sex God
Quote by easyease
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
I think it's more than likley they aren't as straight as they make out. I'm guessing that it's less to do with not being able to find a woman and more to do with the opportunity to try something they've had desires to try for many years that may have been suppressed because of social conditioning. I've never had the remotest attraction to men, even in the leanest 'woman free' periods, so it's a big assumption to lump us all into the 'any holes a goal' catagory.
You don't just turn bi/gay but, as with many things, the internet has opened up a world of new opportunities.
Orgasminator
Quote by northwest-cpl:lol: its definately a thinner line to cross than some would like to think.
I always thought the difference between a straight guy and a bi guy was 6 pints of lager.
You mean 4 pints might do the trick sometimes? :lol: :lol: :lol:
Certainly looking through the chatroom lists, the bi chat rooms always seem to be plentiful and full ...full of married men........ :lol: oh gawd i better shut up ive upset enough people for one day. had a couple of nice pm's though which restores my faith in the cafe.
Quote by meat2pleaseu
there must be a lot of people in the cafe who have never ventured into the men for men section of photo ads, thats all i can say. thats where all the "straight" married guys go in search of action......
I think it's more than likley they aren't as straight as they make out. I'm guessing that it's less to do with not being able to find a woman and more to do with the opportunity to try something they've had desires to try for many years that may have been suppressed because of social conditioning. I've never had the remotest attraction to men, even in the leanest 'woman free' periods, so it's a big assumption to lump us all into the 'any holes a goal' catagory.
You don't just turn bi/gay but, as with many things, the internet has opened up a world of new opportunities.
Agreed :thumbup:
I have never considered men as they just don't do anything for me.
I've never gone into the bi chatrooms......i've never been interested in going in them the reasons......i'm not bi....simple as that....no point leading any of the guys on now is there....so here is one married men not interested in other guys....and Bloke2005 can vouch for that......so easyease i think you shouldn't put all us married men in the same boat!
Orgasminator
Quote by Steve_Mids
good point, i think im guilty of assuming that just because people class themselves as swingers that they are as broad-minded as i am. sorry for coming across as brash and all that.
me and my big gob... :twisted:
So to be a swinger you have to be as broad minded as you
did i say that? no 