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Quote by MISSCHIEF
Iam shy about my body as well how will I combine the feelings and dream I got with the shyness of my body! I would like to do so much and not feel shy about it!
Hiya Sweety
Welcome to the forums
I know exactly where you're coming from with the shy thing. When I first joined here I kinda felt I was stuck between a rock and a hard place - my body was raring to go and up for it, but my mind was still stuck in 'embarrassed' mode.
What helped me in the end was to say to myself that I did want to give this a shot, just go for it, if it all goes pear shaped then I don't ever have to see or speak to the guy again. Even more frightening was we decided to go to Rios for our first time!!! Was like a rabbit caught in headlights going into that place for the first time :shock: Very weird, meeting someone for the first time and its naked meet ups.
I've mentioned this bit before but it did also help break the ice in a weird way - being the clumsy oaf I am, I tried stepping in the jacuzzi all elegant and ladylike, missed the last step and ended up doing a big belly flop, boobs flying everywhere :lol2: ...... certainly took my mind off the naked issue and onto the mascara now halfway down my face issue! :shock:
Sorry, rambling here, but the mindset I had ( just go for it, I didn't have to see him again and take from it what I wanted) worked for me. Saying that tho - I knew that I was 100% sure I wanted to do it, I was just fighting shyness. If you have any doubts about it, then don't do it. Think about it some more, take your time and only go for it when you are absolutely certain about it. There's no rush, enjoy the journey and the fantasies on the way to the actual event - for some, the fantasy is enough and will stay there. Whatever suits you is right ok
Good luck and in the mean time, enjoy the site :D
Hi! Iam trying to be open as poss! What Iam mainly shy about is I have a big scar on my left breast and it runs in the middle of the breast and it makes me feel not good...ok a few pounds over weight, but I can handle that........its mainly my breast, so how do you over come that.....Iam so ready to meet poeple but thats what stops me!
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what guy would be upset at that? i wouldnt ffs, things like that make you the indidual that you are , we al have something about us we arent happy about , please dont be scared about it although i understand , people on here a genuinely a different breed to those in the other world of cosmetics etc,
indeed as MidlandsMale says few men would say anything, it's more of an "issue" in your own head. That isn't to deny your feelings, trust me the pic of me is a good one in fact how it looks that good amazes me, I personally don't see a good pic, I can see my stretchmarks, those few extra pounds etc. The other pics we took look nothing as good as this one ....
I doubt that very many people would actually notice the scar as you see it, and of those that do very few would say anything, because it just isn't an issue.
We went to a club and the different shape, size, age, style of look was just not an issue, and I really thought I would find it moreso, if you see what I mean.
Relax, get to know people and trust in yourself
you will be just fine ....
I doubt that very many people would actually notice the scar as you see it, and of those that do very few would say anything, because it just isn't an issue.
We went to a club and the different shape, size, age, style of look was just not an issue, and I really thought I would find it moreso, if you see what I mean.
Relax, get to know people and trust in yourself
you will be just fine .... 
Quote by redstilletto
hiya sweety nice to meet you
hounestly i think all women worry about their bodies
we all have are hang ups
im sorry to hear what your hubby did you must be so hurt shocked and angry
big hugz from red
Thank you so much! Yes Iam hurt it feels like somebody died....all the last 12 years I keeped my feeling sexual feelings under rap, we prommised we would never be unfaithfull.....but now in one way it opend my eyes...I only live ones and I want to live it my way, and that it when and wher its up to me now nobody else! Thank you again I hope I will find real friends here!
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have a read of muy confession its in the cafe somewhere sweety, your so right about living your life for yourself, cant find it to link it but i know where your comming from even though i was the cheat
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http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/14929.html
there you are,
there you are,
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some nutters on here too , im one and red and gilbet easy blue jags marms kitty gmah willing cal dreamer snerty sweety with a bit of luck she'll be bit mad, i could go on with lots more , oh yeah roger mad as a hatter but a bit smelly
Quote by bohemian1
hi sweety.
i'm a very new member, so i'll tread carefully so i don't step on any toes. what's the
most inportant thing you have learnt within this forum so far.
welcome to you too!
Do not take this wrong but I rathere get to know the members first its my first day and I want to get it a day at a time! I know what I want but want to learn as well!
Thank you!
Casanova
Hiya sweety1909
:welcome: Welcome along to the fun and often educational world of the Forum.
I have just read this thread and just want to say that I am sure you will find your feet amongst everybody !!
This place is like taking an instant polaroid picture :- You gotta sit back, relax and just see what develops !!
If you fancy a chat please feel free to PM me anytime
Kind regards Dan xxx
:welcome: Welcome along to the fun and often educational world of the Forum.
I have just read this thread and just want to say that I am sure you will find your feet amongst everybody !!
This place is like taking an instant polaroid picture :- You gotta sit back, relax and just see what develops !!
If you fancy a chat please feel free to PM me anytime
Kind regards Dan xxx
Hi Sweety ! I'm pretty new here too. Just to tell you that some of us guys have all the same worries about how our bodies look too . Also I've still got my worries about thinking some of my fantasies and urges are "too rude" and have usually kept them hidden from my partners.
But the great thing here is finding out that most women are thinking along similar lines and that actually I've probably been missing out on a lot of fun over the years due to hiding those feelings
Join in at your own pace , its not a competition or a race.. The rewards are well worth it. Don't foget that you can PM members without having to give out your email address or other details.
Love
Plums xxx
But the great thing here is finding out that most women are thinking along similar lines and that actually I've probably been missing out on a lot of fun over the years due to hiding those feelings
Join in at your own pace , its not a competition or a race.. The rewards are well worth it. Don't foget that you can PM members without having to give out your email address or other details.
Love
Plums xxx
Hi Sweety! :welcome:
Relax a bit this is the net afterall... the majority of it is all just to build a rapport,, find some common ground and let yourself go with the wit, your experiences and well let your hair down... In the end you can make it all a fantasy world and at the end of the day turn off your computer and walk away... alternatively.... :twisted: :twisted: You could always let your hair down,, let rip on some of the topics if the mood takes you within reason of course... And if you choose to have a dabble... Well Good Luck and Enjoy every moment!!
In th end Have fun!!!!
Relax a bit this is the net afterall... the majority of it is all just to build a rapport,, find some common ground and let yourself go with the wit, your experiences and well let your hair down... In the end you can make it all a fantasy world and at the end of the day turn off your computer and walk away... alternatively.... :twisted: :twisted: You could always let your hair down,, let rip on some of the topics if the mood takes you within reason of course... And if you choose to have a dabble... Well Good Luck and Enjoy every moment!!
In th end Have fun!!!!
