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24 Jan 2012

Hi all...
I'm the Mrs Norty of our explorative Duo... Wanted to say hello and wave at you all.. wave

I'd also like a multiple opinion (bet you all thought I was going to say orgasam lol)
Whilst scanning profiles, adverts and meet requests, I've noticed that most appear to be looking for an athletic female (which I'm defiantly not, with my jelly road map belly, bingo wings and bum, spaniel ears for boobs, selling myself ain't I hahaha) but I don't exactly think I'm put a paper bag over the head and think of England type girl either. I'm confident, bubbly, chatty, genuine, willing to try most things (expect what goes down the loo, I feel that should stay there) I make an effort of myself, like to look nice, I'm clean and shaven. Love to laugh and make the most out of life and any experiences I'm lucky to be involved in. I like meeting new people from all walks of life, friends make life rich.....
So my point is .........(I'm getting there honest)
Should I ??.... If I find these people interesting and would like to meet them, send them a message anyway, even though I know my body type is superficially .... Sorry I meant specifically, what there looking for, would this be classed as pushy, or look as though I've not took time to read the profile?
/sigh I remember a time BBW's were sexy lol :violin:
From me x

24 Jan 2012

:welcome: to the forums
Having just purved your profile pics, your gorgeous, you will not need to answer any ads, just put your own ad on and you will be inundated with reply's!

24 Jan 2012

Just said hello to you both in the Dogging forum, and also admit to having a crafty peak at your profile and photos, and oh heck, you are one very sexy lady wink

Also, if you use the chatrooms, there is often a BBW room, and a North West room, so may be worth going in for a nosey.
Good luck to you both and have fun (but having seen your photos and profile, I am sure you will have LOTS of fun) :wink:

24 Jan 2012

Aww thank you very much, though I'm confident in my own skin, I have to admit I was starting to feel a little self conscious... Once BT pull there fingers out and fix my net connection I will be using chat rooms.
And hopefully become a regular pest, I mean poster in the forum, getting to know peeps a bit better.
hump

24 Jan 2012

ok i am mr nice im here with my sexy other half just wanted to say hi to everyone
wave

24 Jan 2012

Hi folks and welcome to SH! wave

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
and oh heck, you are one very sexy lady

Approval from NWC already!?!? :shock:
You've got it made now ;)

24 Jan 2012

:welcome: from one equally un-athletic gal to another! wink

And

hello to Mr too!

24 Jan 2012

Quote by Big_Fraser
Hi folks and welcome to SH!
and oh heck, you are one very sexy lady

Approval from NWC already!?!? :shock:
You've got it made now ;)
Not quite sure what you mean by this (but it sounds good)
And I'm sure I'll find out :rascal:
And Hello Noladreams..... We are voluptuous and there's more to play with smile

24 Jan 2012

Mi Mr and Mrs MNorty (I think!!),
Welcome to SH, you both look lovely and normal to me.
Sexual preferences vary greatly and as the more experienced part of the dd group I have tried all shapes and sizes (so to speak) - personality, reliability, cleanliness and being able to hold a conversation are WAY more important when swinging.
I have shagged a lot of gorgeous but boringly dull men who are once only meets for me as I'd have more fun with my rabbit.
You might not be what everyone is looking for, but then who is?
Yoou are both good looking and seem friendly, have fun exploring and welcome to SY.
Amber xxx

24 Jan 2012

Thank you Amber ... X :love:

25 Jan 2012

Hi folks, welcome to the forum....do come and share your thoughts with us anytime.
wave

25 Jan 2012

Hello and welcome.

25 Jan 2012

Personally I don't reply to ads if I don't think I fit exactly what the advertiser requires....
But then again I am a pesky single guy and often get ignored anyway :lol2:
And I have to agree with what everyone else has already said....
Very nice indeed ;-)

25 Jan 2012

Hello both and :welcome: to the site and forum :-)

25 Jan 2012

:welcome: To the Site and the Forum.
Sit back and enjoy what can sometimes be a bumpy ride, but most importantly be yourself :thumbup:

25 Jan 2012

Thanks everyone for kind words and you never know we may see some out and about

25 Jan 2012

Quote by MrsNorty_MrNice
Thanks everyone for kind words and you never know we may see some out and about

We would just like to add our welcome....and you both look quite yummy!
Enjoy!!

25 Jan 2012

Quote by Steve
Personally I don't reply to ads if I don't think I fit exactly what the advertiser requires....
But then again I am a pesky single guy and often get ignored anyway :lol2:
And I have to agree with what everyone else has already said....
Very nice indeed ;-)

At last someone answered the question lol

the answer has to be NO, if your not what they are looking for don't contact them, that is what timewasters and annoying people do and yes it makes it look like you have not read thier profile or worse, ignored it.
As others have said, you have no need to contact people who have stated a preference for a certain, colour, creed, age, size, there are people for everyone here and you will not be short of contacts so why go down the trail of "no reply" which will not help your confidence on the site.
I am an old skinny git, far too old for many people and if thier profile says they have an age preference I will not contact them, I smoke so avoid those whose profiles state "non-smokers" preferred, I do that to save myself dissapointment and out of respect to those who have thier preferences.

26 Jan 2012

As I always say, Horses for courses. Some horses like little courses and some like large courses. Some like large fences to jump and some are better in a sprint. Most importantly be true to what you are and look for what you want.

27 Jan 2012

Hi and :welcome: to SH, hope you find what you are looking for and enjoy your time on here.

Should I ??.... If I find these people interesting and would like to meet them, send them a message anyway, even though I know my body type is superficially .... Sorry I meant specifically, what there looking for, would this be classed as pushy, or look as though I've not took time to read the profile?

Well think of it like this......
You have stated on your profile your likes and dislikes, and what you want from people with an opening message reading:
"Please ensure you read to end"
Then end with:
If you are not what we are looking for we will not respond, if your profile is basic with limited info, we will not respond, if you are persistant or pushy, you will be blocked!!!
Surely you have answered your own question dunno

xx--xx

27 Jan 2012

most people on here don't go for looks. so you will fit in well smile

27 Jan 2012

Quote by nostringsluton
most people on here don't go for looks. so you will fit in well

C'mon nostrings', you're a regular contributor here, you can do better than this...it sounds like something added when you came home from the pub. you have inferred that these new members are unattractive and that it won't matter here! I'm not going to say any more but I hope you have an appropriate and lovable response.

27 Jan 2012

Quote by skinny
most people on here don't go for looks. so you will fit in well

C'mon nostrings', you're a regular contributor here, you can do better than this...it sounds like something added when you came home from the pub. you have inferred that these new members are unattractive and that it won't matter here! I'm not going to say any more but I hope you have an appropriate and lovable response.
It's ok skinny, it's comments like this I choose to ignore, I could resopond aggressively and defensively, but that would make me no better!!!
It's not us that looks the ar*e here...... :sad:

29 Jan 2012

Quote by Steve
Personally I don't reply to ads if I don't think I fit exactly what the advertiser requires....

Neither do we.

1 Feb 2012

Hi Ya,
I'm new on here too hun and being a slim size 10 doesn't seem to be getting me much decent interest either.
Most of the guys on here who have contacted me fit into the 'any holes a goal' category, ie: haven't read my profile or my preferences; just chancers looking for the next quick shag sad

You are beautiful hun, we all are biggrin

So look for a discerning person who appreciates what you are, not where they can put things lol ;)
I have also had a few lovely genuine people message me, who are inquisitive to find out more but not jumping in head first.
Hopefully we all get exactly what we want, but Quality over Quantity every time :P
Pam xx