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Hi Im new to all this and wanted to ask a question to all you out the ' Can I as a single person swing and how would that happen....
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Hi Im new to all this and wanted to ask a question to all you out the ' Can I as a single person swing and how would that happen....

its easier with a partner to push you.. but as long as you have strong leg muscles... i guess you can swing alone! lol :lol: :lol:
seriously ........ there is nothing against anyone swinging regardless of their relationship status.
you may find that being single puts you out of some peoples catchment - but into others.
i hope you have loads of fun discovering how it works
xxxxx
Laura
I'm new to - please let me know how you get on - I would think it may be a bit easier for you than me biggrin
Laura, as a single lady you will find that you will be accepted/invited into most clubs / parties etc but also you should find it just as easy if you want to venture as a couple. What type of thing tickles your fancy?
Depends what your looking for but swinging is not just for couples its for anybody who's interested in the lifestyle. I would suggest going to a munch and meeting up with others for a social drink and a chat and taking it from there.
Have fun Sean x
Hiya Laura and Tom wave
Welcome to the forums biggrin
Firstly take a look around, chat to people and gradually work out what it is you want. And have a brilliant time exploring it!
Lots of discussions around as to whether singles are classed as swingers dunno I just love sex, sod the label lol
Have fun and enjoy :D
Sean
Sorry - I really am a newbie - what's a munch ?
Misschief
Thanks for the welcome
SEAN
Thanks. Its something I have always been interested in and I wanna give it a go its just that now Im single and you always think of it being a couples thing.
Sean
Don't expect anything - just wanted to know the termology - thanks for the reply
How do I put a picture on the left hand side - very sorry - ignorant
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I just love sex, sod the label lol

OK I'm back already rolleyes thought I better explain this before someone else does - but not in the context I mean!!
What I meant by it, is that as a single, I haven't a bluddy clue as to whether I could ever be classed as a swinger, to some maybe, to others definitely not you have to be part of a couple ............ to me, I don't mind, I'm exploring what I like and enjoy, having a great time with it, whether I'll ever be classed as a 'swinger' is really not that important to me right now dunno
Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all biggrin
Here you go Tom .... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/index.html
Many thanks - and about the picture ?
Quote by MISSCHIEF
I just love sex, sod the label lol

OK I'm back already rolleyes thought I better explain this before someone else does - but not in the context I mean!!
What I meant by it, is that as a single, I haven't a bluddy clue as to whether I could ever be classed as a swinger, to some maybe, to others definitely not you have to be part of a couple ............ to me, I don't mind, I'm exploring what I like and enjoy, having a great time with it, whether I'll ever be classed as a 'swinger' is really not that important to me right now dunno
How about we just put you in a class of your own! :shock: wink
By the way hi loopylaura and welcome to the cafe! :welcome:
Roger the Dragon cool
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Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all biggrin

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Nope, you're right - but I had more waffle left in me and it had to come out before bedtime confused
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How about we just put you in a class of your own! :shock: wink

Like a detention you mean? :twisted: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
Sorry - I just want to know how to put a picture on the left hand side of the screen
Did not mean to cause offense.
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Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all biggrin

rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Nope, you're right - but I had more waffle left in me and it had to come out before bedtime confused
very sensible, an empty bowel will always make for a more comfortable night and waffles can often lay very heavy
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Did not mean to cause offense.

Oh you didn't cause offence, if you had've you would've got a right red arse.
So .... smackbottom for thinking you caused offence when you didn't lol
So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up biggrin
misschief has the best taste in men!! wink
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Sorry - I just want to know how to put a picture on the left hand side of the screen
Did not mean to cause offense.

To put an avatar pic on - go to the top of the page and click on profile - it should have all your settings and stuff - at the bottom is an avatar section - you can either choose one out of a load of pre-done ones or load any pic that is small enough of your computer.
Or you can customise one of them like I have! cool
Roger the Dragon 8-)
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So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up biggrin

It's not gonna be a pic of yer pride and joy is it??? confused
you have to go to your profile, down the bottom somewhere you can ad an avatar. It's gotta be small tho - if it's too big to upload (this so hadn't better be a cock pic :lol2: ) then somewhere around here is an avatar resizing program done by the gorgeous JQL, who's on holiday at the moment, and I don't know where he's put the program dunno might have to wander around a bit to find it.
biggrin - would not dream of it - cannot seem to do it
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So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up biggrin

It's not gonna be a pic of yer pride and joy is it??? confused
you have to go to your profile, down the bottom somewhere you can ad an avatar. It's gotta be small tho - if it's too big to upload (this so hadn't better be a cock pic :lol2: ) then somewhere around here is an avatar resizing program done by the gorgeous JQL, who's on holiday at the moment, and I don't know where he's put the program dunno might have to wander around a bit to find it.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/
It's help a mod day today! wink
Roger the Dragon cool
Tomorrow I'll bring you an apple! lol
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Testing

did you pick a picture of a beige wall or did it go wrong tompricho
Oooooh JQL left his office unlocked and I've found his program cool http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/