New to all this

25 Mar 2005

Hi Im new to all this and wanted to ask a question to all you out the ' Can I as a single person swing and how would that happen....

25 Mar 2005

Quote by loopylaura
Hi Im new to all this and wanted to ask a question to all you out the ' Can I as a single person swing and how would that happen....

its easier with a partner to push you.. but as long as you have strong leg muscles... i guess you can swing alone! lol

seriously ........ there is nothing against anyone swinging regardless of their relationship status.
you may find that being single puts you out of some peoples catchment - but into others.
i hope you have loads of fun discovering how it works
xxxxx

25 Mar 2005

Laura
I'm new to - please let me know how you get on - I would think it may be a bit easier for you than me biggrin

25 Mar 2005

Laura, as a single lady you will find that you will be accepted/invited into most clubs / parties etc but also you should find it just as easy if you want to venture as a couple. What type of thing tickles your fancy?

25 Mar 2005

Depends what your looking for but swinging is not just for couples its for anybody who's interested in the lifestyle. I would suggest going to a munch and meeting up with others for a social drink and a chat and taking it from there.
Have fun Sean x

25 Mar 2005

Hiya Laura and Tom wave

Welcome to the forums biggrin

Firstly take a look around, chat to people and gradually work out what it is you want. And have a brilliant time exploring it!
Lots of discussions around as to whether singles are classed as swingers dunno

I just love sex, sod the label lol

Have fun and enjoy biggrin

25 Mar 2005

Sean
Sorry - I really am a newbie - what's a munch ?

25 Mar 2005

Misschief
Thanks for the welcome

25 Mar 2005

SEAN
Thanks. Its something I have always been interested in and I wanna give it a go its just that now Im single and you always think of it being a couples thing.

25 Mar 2005

Sean
Don't expect anything - just wanted to know the termology - thanks for the reply
How do I put a picture on the left hand side - very sorry - ignorant

25 Mar 2005

Quote by MISSCHIEF
I just love sex, sod the label

OK I'm back already rolleyes

thought I better explain this before someone else does - but not in the context I mean!!
What I meant by it, is that as a single, I haven't a bluddy clue as to whether I could ever be classed as a swinger, to some maybe, to others definitely not you have to be part of a couple ............ to me, I don't mind, I'm exploring what I like and enjoy, having a great time with it, whether I'll ever be classed as a 'swinger' is really not that important to me right now dunno

25 Mar 2005

Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all biggrin

25 Mar 2005

Here you go Tom .... http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/terminology/index.html

25 Mar 2005

Many thanks - and about the picture ?

25 Mar 2005

Quote by MISSCHIEF
I just love sex, sod the label

OK I'm back already rolleyes

thought I better explain this before someone else does - but not in the context I mean!!
What I meant by it, is that as a single, I haven't a bluddy clue as to whether I could ever be classed as a swinger, to some maybe, to others definitely not you have to be part of a couple ............ to me, I don't mind, I'm exploring what I like and enjoy, having a great time with it, whether I'll ever be classed as a 'swinger' is really not that important to me right now dunno

How about we just put you in a class of your own! :shock: wink

By the way hi loopylaura and welcome to the cafe! :welcome:
Roger the Dragon cool

25 Mar 2005

Quote by Tompricho
Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all

Nope, you're right - but I had more waffle left in me and it had to come out before bedtime confused

25 Mar 2005

Quote by rogerthedragon
How about we just put you in a class of your own! :shock:

Like a detention you mean? :twisted: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:

25 Mar 2005

Sorry - I just want to know how to put a picture on the left hand side of the screen
Did not mean to cause offense.

25 Mar 2005

Quote by MISSCHIEF
Misschief
Did you need to - the first sentence says it all

Nope, you're right - but I had more waffle left in me and it had to come out before bedtime confused

very sensible, an empty bowel will always make for a more comfortable night and waffles can often lay very heavy

25 Mar 2005

Quote by Tompricho
Did not mean to cause offense.

Oh you didn't cause offence, if you had've you would've got a right red arse.
So .... smackbottom

for thinking you caused offence when you didn't lol

25 Mar 2005

So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up biggrin

25 Mar 2005

misschief has the best taste in men!! wink

25 Mar 2005

Quote by Tompricho
Sorry - I just want to know how to put a picture on the left hand side of the screen
Did not mean to cause offense.

To put an avatar pic on - go to the top of the page and click on profile - it should have all your settings and stuff - at the bottom is an avatar section - you can either choose one out of a load of pre-done ones or load any pic that is small enough of your computer.
Or you can customise one of them like I have! cool

Roger the Dragon cool

25 Mar 2005

Many thanks

25 Mar 2005

Quote by Tompricho
So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up

It's not gonna be a pic of yer pride and joy is it??? confused

you have to go to your profile, down the bottom somewhere you can ad an avatar. It's gotta be small tho - if it's too big to upload (this so hadn't better be a cock pic :lol2: ) then somewhere around here is an avatar resizing program done by the gorgeous JQL, who's on holiday at the moment, and I don't know where he's put the program dunno

might have to wander around a bit to find it.

25 Mar 2005

- would not dream of it - cannot seem to do it

25 Mar 2005

Quote by MISSCHIEF
So if I didn't cause offense - how do I put a piccy up

It's not gonna be a pic of yer pride and joy is it??? confused

you have to go to your profile, down the bottom somewhere you can ad an avatar. It's gotta be small tho - if it's too big to upload (this so hadn't better be a cock pic :lol2: ) then somewhere around here is an avatar resizing program done by the gorgeous JQL, who's on holiday at the moment, and I don't know where he's put the program dunno

might have to wander around a bit to find it.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/
It's help a mod day today! wink

Roger the Dragon cool

Tomorrow I'll bring you an apple! lol

25 Mar 2005

Testing

25 Mar 2005

Quote by Tompricho
Testing

did you pick a picture of a beige wall or did it go wrong tompricho

25 Mar 2005

Oooooh JQL left his office unlocked and I've found his program cool

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/personal/jql/

Are you sure?