New to site - What''s the best way for a single guy ....

11 Jul 2009

What is the best way for a single guy, new to the site to get the best out of Swinging Heaven and make a lasting good impression?
How does he set himself apart from the crowd? :idea:
Are there any protocols/do's and don'ts/common mistakes etc
Any advice would be appreciated... especially from single females/couples who have seeked a single guy as they are the one's I am interested attracting.

11 Jul 2009

i think people will tell you to join in on the forums and also in chatrooms smile

and go to socials and munches and meet people that way :)

11 Jul 2009

Your comments are appreciated - as will anyone elses, incase I can't respond...
I've put a couple of posts as well as the cafe here.. but, to be honest there never seems to be a lot of people online at anyone time - unless I'm online at unusual times ... despite the large numbers of members.
Their "take a look at these profiles which might interest you" often contain people from the USA - bit far to go for a night of fun... LOL
Thanks again..
David

11 Jul 2009

I agree with danne-gary ... check the 'events' section and Let's meet up section on the forums - look out for socials and munches in your area and go along. The single guys who seem to have most success are those who get known socially. By doing that, people know they're genuine and are therefore more willing to meet up with them for fun. Also persevere with the chat rooms - especially any regional ones.
As for ads and searching online - all I can advise is READ THE PROFILES carefully before responding. If a couple only wants to meet other couples, it'll only piss them off if you message them chancing your hand.
Good luck and happy swinging smile

11 Jul 2009

Just dont listen to anything I say !
Go well biggrin

11 Jul 2009

http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
Some good advice in there!
To be honest, it isn't about how many people are online at any one time - this isn't an instant gratification thing. (Well, it may be is if you like perving cocks on cam!) Get a feel for the workings of the site, decide what it is you are looking for. Look in the Let's Meet Up and Club Meets forums - put your name down for socials and Munches if that's your thing or sign up for a club get together.
Then you could play the long game: post in the forum, read other people's posts, send them a PM, have some banter and arrange a meet. Hey, it might take a while or it might happen quickly and spontaneously - people play differently.
I never expect or presume... somehow that seems to work! wink

11 Jul 2009

get name down for socials in your area....that way people know you genuine.....and don't expect things to happen over-night....takes quite a time to be accepted...but its worth the wait..if you have the time.

11 Jul 2009

Honesty. Period.

11 Jul 2009

Quote by kentswingers777
Honesty. Period.

Yuk.............. rolleyes

12 Jul 2009

I have been here since year dot and never met anyone or ever been to any socials or any munches.
rolleyes

:roll:
I never get invited anywhere and I am close to moving to a cave and becoming a hermit cos I may have a better chance of getting laid there.
I am god's gift to woman am 6 foot seven, have a 12 inch dick,look like a male model, have a perfect body and a great six pack and can shag for months.
Oh and I'm also a muli millionaire and I never tell porkies.
So there you go be honest and youll get on great lol

13 Jul 2009

It can be a long road, so take one step at a time down the path.

14 Jul 2009

The secret of my success??????
Post a lot in the cafe and other forums. Show your charm and wit. Get your name recognised. Go to socials. Get your name recognised
oh and patience lots and lots of patience

15 Jul 2009

Have noticed in the chatrooms that a lot of single guys keep whispering and it gets peeps backs up - my advice would be to read profiles first and they will invariably tell you that peeps dont like whispers or winks, otherwise peeps will remember your name for the wrong reasons. Theres never anything in a whisper that cant be said in the room - apart from the obvious - phone numbers email etc.