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New to Swinging Need advice please

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Hi,

We are completely new to Swinging. For the last few years we have enjoyed sex in public or semi-public places, we both get turned on by the thought that others may be watching us. Now we need to take it to the next stage - to actually have sex in a public setting, where we know others are watching us. The idea excites both of us.

Where we need advice is: We have never been to a Swinging club. What can we expect when we enter? I am hoping that the two of us will feel free to be naked, to be intimate, to have sex, in front of the other guests - but without any pressure to share physically? I am hoping that one day we can come to the stage where we want to share with other partners, but right now we just want to feel the excitement of having sex in the company of, and being watched by, others, without full swap.

Does that seem kinky? Maybe.

Please - let us know whether going to a Swinging Club is a good next step for us to explore the above.

Also do you have any recommendations about good Clubs in Europe (need not be UK)?

Thanks!

Eva & Walle

why not try xtasia at west brom nr birmingham u dont have to do anything you dont want they have play rooms & glory holes e.c.t. usally hots up after 11 you'll have to choise night but it changes so i'll let u go on web to check they have a forum, dont know if they allow male nudity after 11, flirts open at 6 main xtasia at 7