Hi there,
We are new on here,and we are thinking of having our first 3some with a the idea of it is exciting,we are not sure about the "rules" also worried if there will be bad feelings such as jealousy etc...We would like to hear other peoples views and opinions and also how they felt the first time it happened to them.
Thanx
L&M..
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Sex God
Hiya and welcome 
I'd imagine that if it's you instigating a meet you can set your own rules, but make sure you post in Let's Meet Up (LMU) when you decide to go ahead.
They're lazy, some of the buggers on here, aren't they? (Not replying to your post before!). Give 'em one of these
Good luck! :P
ES
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I'd imagine that if it's you instigating a meet you can set your own rules, but make sure you post in Let's Meet Up (LMU) when you decide to go ahead.
They're lazy, some of the buggers on here, aren't they? (Not replying to your post before!). Give 'em one of these
Good luck! :P
ES
:rascal: :rascal:
Sex God
Two rules:
No means No
Respect other people's rules, wishes, expectations.
No means No
Respect other people's rules, wishes, expectations.
This is something that worries me too, first trip to a swingers club on friday and meeting someone from an ad on here next week. I'm 99.9% sure i want to do it but a tiny tiny part of me is paranoid my partner may get jealous however comfortable he says he is with it. (it was his idea) so i understand what you mean x 
Oneismagic
I felt exactly the same last week until we actually did it - it turned out to be a lot of fun for all involved.
:twisted:
You'll never know until you do it. Sometimes, you just have to bite the bullet and go for it
If it doesn't work out, put it down to experience and you never have to do it again.
Try it, you might like it
:angel:
I felt exactly the same last week until we actually did it - it turned out to be a lot of fun for all involved.
:twisted:
You'll never know until you do it. Sometimes, you just have to bite the bullet and go for it
If it doesn't work out, put it down to experience and you never have to do it again.
Try it, you might like it
:angel:
Thanks angel, i think i'm being a bit of a scardy cat cos our fantasy envolves single men, not that i'm intimidated by them or think they are dragons or anything! i'll report back after X-tasia on friday night. I'm well looking forward to it tho, now i just have to decide what to wear!!!!
Hi everyone,
Marie here btw.....!!
I guess I`m worried about how i will feel....jealousy etc....If my partner will think she is sexier....better at bj`s!!....I`m not a jealous or insecure person....and I wouldn`t want to start feeling that way......
Hope you have a good time at x-tasia!!!
xx
Marie here btw.....!!
I guess I`m worried about how i will feel....jealousy etc....If my partner will think she is sexier....better at bj`s!!....I`m not a jealous or insecure person....and I wouldn`t want to start feeling that way......
Hope you have a good time at x-tasia!!!
xx
