New to this!!!!!!!!

28 Jul 2006

We are a couple who've just found this 've never been on the scene before but are very keen. We are just wondering how easy/hard is it to get into? We've put an ad on the site and sent a few e-mails. We are also intersested in attending clubs/parties, and would like to know about them. Is membership required or can anyone turn up on the night? etc.
Thanks in advance for any advice given.
S & R

28 Jul 2006

Hi fozzy.......... wave

and welcome to the forums............i can't give you much advice on clubs etc but if you look at the clubs and parties section at the top of the page that should help you out.......
apart from that generally i think that most people on here find that you get what you put into the site......so relax.......put your feet up and have a good old browse.........
if you look at the stickies at the top of the cafe you'll see there's a mentoring scheme here which might be worth you joining whilst you find your feet.......
and last but not least guys........have fun........... lol

28 Jul 2006

Hi we turned up on the day at Chams to join. But remember to take some ID!!
Enjoy, sure you'll have fun.

28 Jul 2006

Hi fozzy and :welcome:
Take it easy and hope you find what you want.

29 Jul 2006

Welcome to Swinging Heaven Fozzy :welcome: I am sure you are going to find everyone a friendly bunch here biggrin

Have a read of the topics that are of interest to you and I am sure you will find peoples experiences smile

I hope you both find what you are looking for and enjoy the swinging scene.

29 Jul 2006

Hi Fozzy2006
Welcome to Swinging Heaven, hope you have a great time here and have lots of fun :twisted:
Shaz x

29 Jul 2006

Fozzy
If you're interested in clubs, read some of the review sections and then have a look on line at some of them.
Usually you can see a virtual tour of the facilities on line and it will tell you the costs and what you need to join.
It'll also tell you what's what on each day night e.g. Couple & single fems only, fetish nights etc.
I've had a look at your ad and it's a bit short. If you've done a bit of browsing you'll have noticed there's a lot more couples looking for single fems than there is single fems looking for couples so you really need to make your ad stand out.
I'd also get some pics up (you can blur your face out if your not comfortable putting that up).
As the site has the option to search only ads with pics. If people select this feature they won't even see your ad.
Hope you find what you're looking for wink

29 Jul 2006

Thanks very much to all of you for the comments and advice. It's very much appreciated! biggrin

29 Jul 2006

Hi Fozzy,
Great profile you have, clear and concise, good you know what you're looking for.
Bi fem's are like gold dust round here but I hope that doesn't out you off your search.
Best wishes to you both

29 Jul 2006

<<<< gold dust wave

30 Jul 2006

hi fozzy and welcome biggrin

30 Jul 2006

and :welcome: to :swingingchair: heaven. Bash about on the forums let people get to know you attend some munches. Read the clubs and party reviews there are some excellent clubs out there.
Mids n newt

30 Jul 2006

Hello and welcome to sh

30 Jul 2006

A belated hello Fozzy and :welcome: to the SH Cafe!
I hope you have lots of fun!
KM
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