New, Young, Curios, but shy!!

1 Oct 2006

Hi,
Well.....
Ummmm....
We are kinda new here, been registered just a few weeks. We are a young couple, looking for either a female (if there are any real ones out there) or a couple under 35 (yes thats both members under 35... sorry but we have had some pm's where one person has been under 35 but the partner hasnt)!
We have been using the chatroom, but finding it hard to break the ice, and have replied to several adverts, and had a few pm's too (but usually from older couples).
We have nothing against older couples, but as we are only in our early 20's, we dont really want anyone our parents age.
We have been together over 4 years now, and have been thinking about swinging for the past 2. We used another site before, got chatting to a few people, but most turned out to be time wasters, so we never met anyone. Then the Mrs moved to germany for uni for almost a year, and now she is back, we started looking again.
We are finding it difficult to find anybody genuine, parlty because we are still rather young, and partly because we dont actually live together yet. Peaople always assume that we (more like I) am a single male or a fake.
I assure you guys this isnt the case, and we are still looking for that first encounter.
Maybe our profile needs fine tuning, or something, but we arent really sure.
If you are interested in us, or have any advice, please reply...
Thanks in advance,
M and F

1 Oct 2006

Hiya and :welcome: from both of us who are most certainly under 35 biggrin

well one of us is by a long shot but the other one is sadly knocking on the door much sooner than he would like lol

1 Oct 2006

hiya and :welcome: from us
we are sadly' just over the hill' for you two sad

but we certainly don't act it wink

lilnfil xx

1 Oct 2006

Yep Me and Stormy are miles too old for you too, we could be your parents! (my Mum would have been unimpressed though I think)
Hope you find what you are looking for as your profile looks fine. Even if it does suggest that anyone over 35 is over the hill. Oh little do you know :giggle:
Love
FIRE xx
PS Just going off now to choose the wood for me coffin and choose the cremation music! :giggle:
Just playing with ya welcome to the forums!!!!!!

1 Oct 2006

Hey Guys

We've had the same probs as you regarding age... but don't worry, there are some cool couples on here - just ensure that the female part of the couples are as up for it as the males, as we've had a few encounters when the female has been doing it only to 'please' their bloke, which makes for no fun at all...
As for the elusive single, young, sexy bifem.... if you find her before us please pass her our details too biggrin

:D
Loads of luck guys, and try the chatroom - it can be a load of fun!
Tyler and Layla xx

1 Oct 2006

btw - firelizard is right - sometimes older can be better... ;-)
T&L x

1 Oct 2006

We have been using the chatroom, but finding it hard to break the ice, and have replied to several adverts, and had a few pm's too (but usually from older couples).

1 Oct 2006

Hi you two, welcome to SH - I hope you both have lots of fun!
biggrin

1 Oct 2006

Oh, apologies for not seeing that you said you used the chatroom
still though, a lot of replies and advice, so slightly weird that you only took the fact that I missed a bit of your message on board! Lol
Good luck!

1 Oct 2006

Quote by lysistrata
Oh, apologies for not seeing that you said you used the chatroom
still though, a lot of replies and advice, so slightly weird that you only took the fact that I missed a bit of your message on board! Lol
Good luck!

Whoa there tex cut em some slack it may have been a case of a wrong button pressed and all that dunno

after all a requote with no reply normally means someone has tired to edit a post and hit the wrong button biggrin

After all I have nearly 5000 posts and still fook up me quotes go easy on the newbs with only 2 posts to their name eh lol

and after a conflab with PK we have decided they deserve a banner :lol:

1 Oct 2006

shitting hell, can't say anything right today wink

lol - again, wasn't meaning offence! Sarcasm just can't be viewed very well on here.. think I should just stop posting today before I offend anyone else... lol....
Great banner though!!
:happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy: :happy:

1 Oct 2006

Thanks everyone!!
Sorry lysistrata,
I guess we are doing something right then, lol, some of the messages we have had in reply to this post are quite flattering, and nice!
If anyone might be interested in meeting us or at least chatting to us, then send us a message, including a messenger address if possible!!
Thanks again!!

1 Oct 2006

Quote by Sexy_couple1_06
We have been using the chatroom, but finding it hard to break the ice, and have replied to several adverts, and had a few pm's too (but usually from older couples).

I know what you mean and we all do. Our ad says that we are only interested in peeps that are not young enough to be our children and that we are only interested in single ladies. However we have received PMs from single males, couples and people that are altogether too young.
It's a sad fact of life on here and we all go thru it. Don't give up though as there's lots of fun to be had, just delete them and move on. smile

1 Oct 2006

well I hope it turns out well for you guys, we are just starting out we are hoping its going to be a bright new world wink

1 Oct 2006

Hi Sexy_couple1_06
:welcome: to this place
If you like chat i recommend the mids room on server 3 nice folks in there.

1 Oct 2006

Hi both

and a very warm welcome from another old fart ( that'd be my hot water bottle wink

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1 Oct 2006

Quote by goose35

Hi Sexy_couple1_06
:welcome: to this place
If you like chat i recommend the mids room on server 3 nice folks in there.

Actually i just looked at your profile and i have seen you in the mids room havent i confused

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Anyway hope you have fun here and good luck

1 Oct 2006

Is that a new avitar Sassy
lol

:lol: :lol:

1 Oct 2006

Quote by Cossie
Is that a new avitar Sassy
:lol: :lol:

It sure is hunni. Thought I could do with a change wink

1 Oct 2006

Getting a bit off topic with tthe chat about avatars arent we, lol!!!
I'm in chat and nobody wants to chat to me, maybe its cos of the "we dont live together" bit of our profile??

1 Oct 2006

Quote by Sexy_couple1_06
Getting a bit off topic with tthe chat about avatars arent we, lol!!!
I'm in chat and nobody wants to chat to me, maybe its cos of the "we dont live together" bit of our profile??

Dont take it personally I pop into chat now and then and if I'm in a room where nobody knows me I rarely get a reply to my "hello room" its not an age thing or the fact you dont live together biggrin

Stick at it all will come good in the end :thumbup:

1 Oct 2006

Quote by sheddy
Getting a bit off topic with tthe chat about avatars arent we, lol!!!
I'm in chat and nobody wants to chat to me, maybe its cos of the "we dont live together" bit of our profile??

Dont take it personally I pop into chat now and then and if I'm in a room where nobody knows me I rarely get a reply to my "hello room" its not an age thing or the fact you dont live together biggrin

Stick at it all will come good in the end :thumbup:
If it were just once or twice I could understand, but i say a lot more than "hello room" ... i try to prompt responses, and still nothing, am i banging my head on a brick wall??

1 Oct 2006

Quote by Sexy_couple1_06
Getting a bit off topic with tthe chat about avatars arent we, lol!!!
I'm in chat and nobody wants to chat to me, maybe its cos of the "we dont live together" bit of our profile??

Dont take it personally I pop into chat now and then and if I'm in a room where nobody knows me I rarely get a reply to my "hello room" its not an age thing or the fact you dont live together biggrin

Stick at it all will come good in the end :thumbup:
If it were just once or twice I could understand, but i say a lot more than "hello room" ... i try to prompt responses, and still nothing, am i banging my head on a brick wall??
I used to get that in the mids room at first it does take a while to settle especially when full.

2 Oct 2006

Quote by Sexy_couple1_06
We have been using the chatroom,

Whassat?

:dunno:
Oooh yes - I remember now - that'll be the place I ventured into one night in an attempt to do something daring for a change (like walking up a couple's front door alone isn't daring enough rolleyes

).. There were loads of words whizzing all over the page, and I coudn't keep up so I played, "click on the button and see what happens", at which point I suddenly had a pic of Staggy in bed, and he was telling me off for not saying hello. Yup - that'll be the place.
Nah - life is a lot less hectic in the forum!
Anyway - what was I saying? Oh yes - good luck. Can't see any problems with asking to meet people your own age, even if there are some damn sexy "oldies" out there. Have fun whatever you do wink

Rsxx :color: