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10 Oct 2005

hello all,ok here goes...taking the plunge as it were
yes i am here as a single,i am married and technically yes i am cheating.
my wife any my sex life isn't the same any more as she has disabilities which prevent her from feeling sexy....won't go into too much detail tho,sufuce as to say she has given her blessing for me to find myself a sexual partner,preferabley one she dosnet meet or get to know,she loves me an i her,but she couldn't deal with knowing the in's and outs.i am not looking for a one off,not in the meet sense anyways,i am looking for some seriously good fun,long term.....both aware of the sittuation,anyway i am 34 slim build fairly well endowed and too horny for my own good i guess,would love to hear from any ladies or couples looking for a play mate in the north west,i will understand if you don't believe me or think i am in the wrong place,i do not wish to enter into an arguement but will gladly discuss it with anyone,as i appreciate it is probably not the normal,anyway i hope you appreciate my honesty,and wish to fond out more,add me to msn messenger and hope to get to know a few people as friends too
freddy xxxx

10 Oct 2005

Hi Cappy welcome to the forums, and well done for such an honest and detailed post. I am not going to comment on your circumstances other than to say I really do hope that everything works out for you, whatever happens.
Good luck xx

10 Oct 2005

Hi there Cappy welcome to the Mad House! lol

10 Oct 2005

Hiya Cappy,
good to see you are listening wink

welcome and have a hug sweetie
Kit
xxxx

10 Oct 2005

Welcome to the site
Good luck
Vicky xxxx

10 Oct 2005

Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Hi Cappy welcome to the forums, and well done for such an honest and detailed post. I am not going to comment on your circumstances other than to say I really do hope that everything works out for you, whatever happens.
Good luck xx

thankyou very much,i will keep you posted as things like this are never easy
thanks for the welcome xxxx

10 Oct 2005

Quote by Dune
Hi there Cappy welcome to the Mad House!

cheers dune....aha....another black adder fan
"WOOF"

10 Oct 2005

Hiya cappy
Hope you find what your looking for m8
all the best
Mr goodtimez

10 Oct 2005

Quote by Kit
Hiya Cappy,
good to see you are listening
welcome and have a hug sweetie
Kit
xxxx

awwwwwwwww thanks for the hug,i kinda needed it,well always do need a hug never need an excuse,and contrary to popular belief....men do sometimes listen:P lol mwah xxxx ty kit xxx thaks for your help

10 Oct 2005

Quote by Sexysteph
Hiya and Welcome to SH
Good Luck
Steph

thanks steph....nice pic,gonna try and get mine sorted out now lol....i'm still nervous,will prolly shake more than that cleavage of yours lol
xxxxx

10 Oct 2005

Quote by goodtimez
Hiya cappy
Hope you find what your looking for m8
all the best
Mr goodtimez

thanks mr goodtimes,much appreciated,wow,can't believe how warm and friendly you all are,i really thought i was gonna get torn to pieces lol...well ok maybe wishfull thinking lol....
thanks you guys xxx

10 Oct 2005

Quote by cappy
Hiya cappy
Hope you find what your looking for m8
all the best
Mr goodtimez

thanks mr goodtimes,much appreciated,wow,can't believe how warm and friendly you all are,i really thought i was gonna get torn to pieces lol...well ok maybe wishfull thinking lol....
thanks you guys xxx
Thats only if you post something realy daft like me.... redface

10 Oct 2005

Hiya cappy and :welcome: to the site smile

It's great that your wife knows about you looking into things and I would say that as she has prior knowledge you aren't technically cheating. Just my opinion :)
Minx x x

10 Oct 2005

Quote by BiWelshMinx
Hiya cappy and :welcome: to the site
It's great that your wife knows about you looking into things and I would say that as she has prior knowledge you aren't technically cheating. Just my opinion :)
Minx x x

thankyou sweety...i do like a nice minx lol....and it was partially her idea,she wants us to stay together,and suggested if about 5 years ago,but i didn't want to,if that sounds wierd lol
i sent you a pm,dunno if you got it before i posted on here xxxxx thanks for your welcome and for sharing your thoughts
xxxxxxxx

10 Oct 2005

thanks for all the welcomes guys,have been in touch with a few now,and seems i needent have been so scared,thanks for the push kitty....and thanks for the boost guys....needed it mwah xxxxx freddy

10 Oct 2005

hi...... well i read the pm you sent me befor i read you post how strange it seems like it been written by 2 diffrent people mm :shock:

11 Oct 2005

Quote by cappy
hello all,ok here goes...taking the plunge as it were
yes i am here as a single,i am married and technically yes i am cheating.
my wife any my sex life isn't the same any more as she has disabilities which prevent her from feeling sexy....won't go into too much detail tho,sufuce as to say she has given her blessing for me to find myself a sexual partner,preferabley one she dosnet meet or get to know,she loves me an i her,but she couldn't deal with knowing the in's and outs.i am not looking for a one off,not in the meet sense anyways,i am looking for some seriously good fun,long term.....both aware of the sittuation,anyway i am 34 slim build fairly well endowed and too horny for my own good i guess,would love to hear from any ladies or couples looking for a play mate in the north west,i will understand if you don't believe me or think i am in the wrong place,i do not wish to enter into an arguement but will gladly discuss it with anyone,as i appreciate it is probably not the normal,anyway i hope you appreciate my honesty,and wish to fond out more,add me to msn messenger and hope to get to know a few people as friends too
freddy xxxx
Welcome- That was a a good honest post - there are more open minded realistic people on this site than there are people who criticise cheating - keep postiing and best wishes, Cheetah

11 Oct 2005

Hi Cappy - welcome!
This isnt a hug or a cuddle, you understand, just a welcome!
lol

11 Oct 2005

cappy
From one NW newbie to another wave

11 Oct 2005

Hi cappy!

I do hope you find what you are looking for babes big hugs passionkiss

OOO be warned there all nutters in here apart from me :smug: so if you need any advice just pm me ok :thumbup:
WHAT dunno

11 Oct 2005

Quote by SauciSpouse
cappy
From one NW newbie to another

thank you ema mwah was nice chatting earlier too mwah hope to keep chatting wink

11 Oct 2005

Quote by Debbiewebs
Hi cappy!
I do hope you find what you are looking for babes big hugs
OOO be warned there all nutters in here apart from me :smug: so if you need any advice just pm me ok :thumbup:
WHAT

assionkiss: ty babes,well i know who to pm now mwah xxxxx thank you guys xxxxxxxxxxxxx cappy