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Newbie Help - Whats the etiquette

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Hi there every body,
We are a couple (29&30) that have always wanted to try a 3some involving
another female.
We both think this site is phenominal and would really like to try to get int touch with a
few people we have already seen.
But being new to this we dont know the 'correct procedure', if there are dos and donts
or any pitfalls.
I think we would be confident enough and interested in going to any parties
or clubs in our area as well (Derby).
Things we'd like to know about are:
Sending pics - yes / no
When would you meet.
Do you meet for a drink before actually getting back together to having sex.
Is it worth having your own website.
What do you do if you meet and dont like the other person !!!
As it's something I dont think I could go into my local library and ask for a book on,
we thought it would be a good idea to get some info from the people in the know.
I've read a few posts and everybody sounds really cool.
So.........
..........If anybody could offer any advice to us and point us in the right direction
that would be great.
Thanks to anybody that helps.
James & Nic
PS
Really exited. wink
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Things we'd like to know about are:
Sending pics - yes / no
When would you meet.
Do you meet for a drink before actually getting back together to having sex.
Is it worth having your own website.
What do you do if you meet and dont like the other person !!!
As it's something I dont think I could go into my local library and ask for a book on,
we thought it would be a good idea to get some info from the people in the know.
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Hi and :welcome:
We're Derby based and there are no clubs locally - nearest are Liberation (which I rave about) and LaChambre, you'll find a list of clubs at the top of the page. I'd definitely recommend looking round.
We haven't actually swung yet, we prefer the clubs at the moment and building up our confidence. We'd like to see pics and would send ours too ...at least then you know who you're meeting. We think a drink is a good idea, lets you get to know each other and discuss boundaries, likes and dislikes.
Can't comment on the website as such. If you meet and don't like the other person/don't quite gel ~ then you say no. No-one expects you to swing with someone you aren't interested in.
Stick around the cafe, get involved and you'll soon make lots of friends.
Hiya both, no advice just a big :welcome: have fun
xanaisx
wave and :welcome: