Hi there
Me and my girlfriend have recently moved down to Leeds and are thinking about posting an ad but there seems to be loads of couples looking for women so I was hoping for a bit of advice in order to stand out from the crowd!!
We're both new to this sort of thing but she has dabbled before in boarding school but nothing to serious. Were after a threesome cos she's really not keen on going with another man (which would make this a lot easier as theres thousands of couples!!!).
Anyway anything you can suggest would be graciously appreciated
Thanks
Dave and Vicki
PS Hello everyone (how rude am I having this at the bottom!)
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Newbie help with threesome
Hi poolie,
To be honest, ads are very hit and miss, unless you both look like you'd win beauty contests.
The very best way for you to 'pull' the single bi-fem is to get out to a club with a certain reputation (like the Torture Garden in London - I don't know any in Leeds), and have your girlfriend flirt with the other women there. Or maybe you can flirt and ask if they're not averse to a bit of bi.
The best way I've found of catching bi-fem's is to get friendly with women you fancy and find out if they're bi-curious at all - (one girl I know reckons that she can pull 3 out of 4 women just by asking them if they've ever thought about what it'd be like to be with another woman sexually). I've always found that being up-front works. Of course, there will be failures, and the trick there is to not let that put you off - as the famous saying goes, "If you don't ask, you won't get!"
To be honest, ads are very hit and miss, unless you both look like you'd win beauty contests.
The very best way for you to 'pull' the single bi-fem is to get out to a club with a certain reputation (like the Torture Garden in London - I don't know any in Leeds), and have your girlfriend flirt with the other women there. Or maybe you can flirt and ask if they're not averse to a bit of bi.
The best way I've found of catching bi-fem's is to get friendly with women you fancy and find out if they're bi-curious at all - (one girl I know reckons that she can pull 3 out of 4 women just by asking them if they've ever thought about what it'd be like to be with another woman sexually). I've always found that being up-front works. Of course, there will be failures, and the trick there is to not let that put you off - as the famous saying goes, "If you don't ask, you won't get!"
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The very best way for you to 'pull' the single bi-fem is to get out to a club with a certain reputation (like the Torture Garden in London - I don't know any in Leeds)
Any fetish/goth club is gonna have plenty of bi & poly boys & girls (TG, Club Wicked, Slimelight etc) and theres zero chance of getting any trouble for being gay, poly or whatever in those placs
hardcore dance & trance clubs are pretty good for bi girls, especially those of us of the disco bunny persuasion :)(one girl I know reckons that she can pull 3 out of 4 women just by asking them if they've ever thought about what it'd be like to be with another woman sexually).
:) I'm not quite that good, but yeah :) I've long said that one of the best reasons for going gay is that guys are too easy to get into bed! But even so I reckon I probably succeed with about 1 in 2 straight girls I go after. Ali (my gf) is amazing at it tho, waaaaayyy better than me, I reckon she manages 4 out of 5! Of course, some of it's picking right tho.
Em
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