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hi everybody, I'm 24 and pretty new to this. I'm looking for casual sex with girls of my age, as i don't feel confident enough to meet couples yet. however, I don't really know what to post or not, and i think i'd need a mentor to guide me through the site. thank you.
Hi , and :welcome: if you look to the left of your screen in the box marked information there are various sub categories which may assist you in you post development.
Dave.
send a pm to mai asking for a mentor , theres a sticky on the cafe which tells you what to send when asking but id say what youve said above will be enough and you will be assigned a mentor ;)
matt and crystal
lol No, you don't need a mentor. All you need is a bit of time to get used to the place and a liberal dab of common sense.
What should you post - It depends on why you are here. The forum is a platform for chatting and getting to know people.
If you are here ONLY to make contact with people to have casual sex and you are not interested in getting to know them, then you should only reply to posts from women - and eventually couples - who are after the same thing.
If, on the other hand, you are interested in the wider social aspects of swinging, then reply to any post that interests you.
lhk
Kat
Hi yndo (how do you pronounce that?)
Welcome!
I would suggest that you just post away and have a laugh.
Just a couple of pointers for you -
I am always right
Whenever you see one of my posts, just post after it "another fantastically witty/intelligent/profound (whichever is most appropriate) post Happy Cats, you really are a god!
Do that, and you will fit in just fine!
wink
Quote by Happy Cats
Whenever you see one of my posts, just post after it "another fantastically witty/intelligent/profound (whichever is most appropriate) post Happy Cats, you really are a DOG!

I love the edit button bolt
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts

Whenever you see one of my posts, just post after it "another fantastically witty/intelligent/profound (whichever is most appropriate) post Happy Cats, you really are a DOG!

I love the edit button bolt
Dave_Notts
rotflmao :rotflmao:
git!
Quote by KitKat
Hiya CliareMarie,
Welcome to the site,
Advice - Don't talk to strange men, put anything in your mouth when you have a blindfold on, use a condom more than a year out of date, or type in capitals. wink
lhk
Kat

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Quote by EagerSlut
Hiya CliareMarie,
Welcome to the site,
Advice - Don't talk to strange men, put anything in your mouth when you have a blindfold on, use a condom more than a year out of date, or type in capitals. wink
lhk
Kat

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Looks like you became a victim of Kats swift fingers as well lol :lol: :lol:
Dave_Notts
Quote by yndo
hi everybody, I'm 24 and pretty new to this. I'm looking for casual sex with girls of my age, as i don't feel confident enough to meet couples yet. however, I don't really know what to post or not, and i think i'd need a mentor to guide me through the site. thank you.

are u male or female cause i can't find anywhere where it says
may help in ur quest if u let people know lol