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Hi lovebear69 from m/ new to this and have spoke to a few nice people from here but im gutted i could not go to the manchester said and rightly so because im new i need to get to know and meet some members a good looking 38yr old single guy with a good fit muscular body,5ft7 and 12st,clean and healthly with a g.s.o.h. and i need to meet any single ladies,couples or groups from northwest for meets anywhere to get known so that i can join in all the fun,Please help me in any way wont be Lovebear.X dunno
Mod edited title of thread cos it was scary and misleading mad
TCH ! That sounded like something important mad
Im very sorry if the title was misleading.I was trying my hardest to be careful how i was wording its not mislead anyone about me because i am a really nice honest person.X redface
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Im very sorry if the title was misleading.I was trying my hardest to be careful how i was wording its not mislead anyone about me because i am a really nice honest person.X redface

Its not the message m8, just the title, as there are a lot of ppl who monitor this group, when u see an URGENT tag, it kinda says that u r in trouble, and need help, like now??
so anyway, welcome, keep posting, and never give up! xxxxxxxxxxx K
Hi lovebear
welcome aboard i am new to so hope to get to know you some more. It feels strange when we ae new to a place
Speak soon
Hi lovebear69
We are new as well and it can be a little frustrating trying to get known especially when you see all the fun thats going on! Seems everyone but you had a good time last night doesn't it.
But when you think about it, it does make you feel safe in this group, that they are really picky about who they welcome into the inner circle. They seem a really super crowd and like you I can't wait to be accepted. But wait I will cos I would be really worried about getting to know groups whe let 'anyone' in.
After all if its worth having its worth waiting for.
Get known and have fun and hope to join you in the 'familly' sometime soon
Lydia xx
Just like to say a thankyou to the people who replyed to all seem really nice people,as do all the people on this site.I will have to be patient before i get known and get to meet people but i know it will be worth it in the hope to meet all or most of you anyone would like to get to know me better,meet me or even invite me to any kind of meet please feel free to get in touch. Lovebear.X kiss
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Hi lovebear69
We are new as well and it can be a little frustrating trying to get known especially when you see all the fun thats going on! Seems everyone but you had a good time last night doesn't it.

I first joined about a week before the bi-fem meet and I felt very isolated in my "newness" when I read all the report backs. I managed to get an invite to the Notts Munch, but have to admit that the Essex munch was much more enjoyable for me because by then I "knew" people off here. I knew who I wanted to meet - and had an idea of who was who.
It does take a while to get known, but trust me, it is worth taking the time to sit back and get known before jumping into munches etc. It does help in the long run - trust me!!!
And I still class myself as a newbie believe it or not!