Theres been a lot of talk about newbies lately and i was just wondering when did you feel like you stopped being a newbie.
When you had your first meet or social/munch?
When you'd been here a certain amount of time?
When you'd made a certain amount of posts?
Or something else
Weve not been here too long, but i already dont feel like a newbie anymore. For me its a mixture of things, had a few meets, feel welcomed into the forum and got a social coming up ( cant wait ) :thrilled: . So what made you feel like your not a newbie, or do you still feel like one and what do you think would make you feel like part of the furniture?.
Louise xx
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Dunno 
Still feel very new sometimes 
depends who I'm talking to 
Still feel very new sometimes depends who I'm talking to Quote by Dlep
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Same here....Although I've been here a while, I do feel like a newbie when i see people I don't know on here....
Saying. that i do feel quite new still when i go into chatrooms cause everyone seems to know each other well already. Then i fell like a right numpty whos butting in.
louise xx
LouiseI think this part of your quote sums it up really
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Weve not been here too long, but i already dont feel like a newbie anymore. For me its a mixture of things, had a few meets, feel welcomed into the forum and got a social coming up ( cant wait ) :thrilled: .
Louise xx
I think it's a decision you make yourself, when you feel "at home"
When I first joined here, I lurked for quite a while, but when I finally plucked up the courage to start posting I felt at home very quickly.
Having siad that, the forum had a different feel back then.
Hope you enjoy your first social. Come back and tell us how you got on (said in best Cilla voice)
Essex_chav_wide_tart 
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I think this part of your quote sums it up really
Weve not been here too long, but i already dont feel like a newbie anymore. For me its a mixture of things, had a few meets, feel welcomed into the forum and got a social coming up ( cant wait ) :thrilled: .
Louise xx
I think it's a decision you make yourself, when you feel "at home"
When I first joined here, I lurked for quite a while, but when I finally plucked up the courage to start posting I felt at home very quickly.
Having siad that, the forum had a different feel back then.
Hope you enjoy your first social. Come back and tell us how you got on (said in best Cilla voice)
I agree with the lovely Horny One ( snogs babes
)I lurked for a while and when I did start posting, I felt welcomed quite fast..........or should that be felt UP fast?
As I'm still yet to do a munch ( :scared: ) I still feel a little like a newbie but I've been to a few socials and been made very welcome indeed. That might have just been the cleavage but who knows?
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Theres been a lot of talk about newbies lately and i was just wondering when did you feel like you stopped being a newbie.
When you had your first meet or social/munch?
When you'd been here a certain amount of time?
When you'd made a certain amount of posts?
Or something else
Weve not been here too long, but i already dont feel like a newbie anymore. For me its a mixture of things, had a few meets, feel welcomed into the forum and got a social coming up ( cant wait ) :thrilled: . So what made you feel like your not a newbie, or do you still feel like one and what do you think would make you feel like part of the furniture?.
Louise xx
When you're made to feel welcome by those who have been here a while... and when you are into the :swingingchair: of things
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Saying. that i do feel quite new still when i go into chatrooms cause everyone seems to know each other well already. Then i fell like a right numpty whos butting in.
I feel that too; although I am a newbie. The other day we were in the same room and all we managed to say was 'hello'. I guess I assumed you were confident in the chatrooms like everybody else and so felt stupid saying anything.
Next time I'll try to say more.
I recommend people try the 'forum chat' -- this is a chat room where people actually talk! :shock:
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Saying. that i do feel quite new still when i go into chatrooms cause everyone seems to know each other well already. Then i fell like a right numpty whos butting in.
I feel that too; although I am a newbie. The other day we were in the same room and all we managed to say was 'hello'. I guess I assumed you were confident in the chatrooms like everybody else and so felt stupid saying anything.
Next time I'll try to say more.
I recommend people try the 'forum chat' -- this is a chat room where people actually talk! :shock:
Sometimes im confident in the chatrooms, but that all depends on the feel that i get of the room itself. Im sorry if i didnt manage to say alot to you when we crossed paths the other day but sometimes i do like to have a bit of a perv, so dont notice anything else going on.
ops: louise xx
hehehe... I 'stopped' being a newbie when a certain wench traveled 50 miles in the freezing snow to sample me pork chops! :shock:
But hell... I think I & everybody else is are still a newbies coz we ain't met yet!
I still have a list o peeps I wanna snog & buy a pint with... or both!
When this stops being fun...
then & only then will I no longer be a newbie
Long live the newbies! I say :thumbup:
But hell... I think I & everybody else is are still a newbies coz we ain't met yet!
I still have a list o peeps I wanna snog & buy a pint with... or both!
When this stops being fun...
then & only then will I no longer be a newbie
Long live the newbies! I say :thumbup:
Sex God
Why don't you have a 'break in a newbie' month. Make as many newbies feel as welcome as possible and the person who does the most wins a cookie.
Sex God
Ha yes, we don't feel like a newbies anymore. Had a meet, a party, a social and some pretty horny cyber dealings so there you go...we are not newbies anymore I have offically decided. Up to 160 posts or something...I think we're settled here. 
pink x
pink x
I ve been on SH for 5/6 months, most of time I ve spent in the chatrooms. And I feel I am no longer a newbie there.
But as you can see I don't post very offen in the forums (this is only 2nd post!) so I am very much a newbie here.
I have had my first social, saturday just gone and I am going to the Nottingham social. I ll still be a newbie when I go to that one but I think by the end of it I don't think I ll be a social newbie anymore.
Think what it comes down to is putting yourself out and really talk to people whether its here, in a chatroom or at a social.
But as you can see I don't post very offen in the forums (this is only 2nd post!) so I am very much a newbie here.
I have had my first social, saturday just gone and I am going to the Nottingham social. I ll still be a newbie when I go to that one but I think by the end of it I don't think I ll be a social newbie anymore.
Think what it comes down to is putting yourself out and really talk to people whether its here, in a chatroom or at a social.
Sex God
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