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newbie question - when did you last have casual sex?

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curious abt this.. answers appreciated
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curious abt this.. answers appreciated

Oooooo tell us about you first then!
I cant remember when I had any sex TBH
in a car.. with a colleague.. rush of blood..
So are you a single male or are you a couple as it`s not clear from your profile?
does it count if the answer's "with myself"?
In the library with a candlestick serious head wound.
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So are you a single male or are you a couple as it`s not clear from your profile?

Tsk, he's married - he's just not finished doing his profile yet have you, Cool? You need to complete the bits about your wife.
no maybe its in flip flops and a tracksuit LOL
erm, i'll have to pass on that cos i cant remember when LOL
And to answer the question - I've never had casual sex.
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does it count if the answer's "with myself"?

No. but it’s worrying if you asked and answered out loud
never lol redface surprisedops: :oops:
Friday night, after tango, in a car, hopefully out of the sight of a security camera. (but if we weren't, maybe I could ask them for a copy of the tape)
Aparently, I (also) impressed her with my one-step bra unbuttoning technique. She is a faaaab kisser, and has got lovely nipples. (I looove nice nipples.)
What about you? And why are you asking?
wink
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We never have "casual sex" It`s always Full on and serious ...
Casual sex sounds really boring lol do ya do it in an armchair while watching the telly ??

Hear hear, full on and serious!
And seriously fun! wink
yesterday? confused
it was VERY casual! :uhoh:
she's still not talking to me? :?
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Aparently, I (also) impressed her with my one-step bra unbuttoning technique.

braggart! i've been practising that for years ((( with a trainer bra, wrapped round a stuffed, fluffy moomintroll, dontcha know? redface ))) and i still can't bluddy do it FFS?
neil x x x ;)
I'd say casual sex involved people who have only just met and know almost nothing about each other.
That happened to me a few times when I was a teenager and a younger adult. Since then it's all been premeditated, requiring good old fashioned dating.
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Since then it's all been premeditated, requiring good old fashioned dating.

'Premeditated sex' sounds much more fun ... mmm, I'm thinking about it already biggrin
You need to be careful when contemplating causal sex.
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Not had casual sex since my teens confused
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You need to be careful when contemplating causal sex.

You still tired honey? :giggle:
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yesterday? confused
it was VERY casual! :uhoh:
she's still not talking to me? :?
neil x x x ;)

:therethere: Of course I'm talking to you silly billy.
But only if you learn that one handed bra trickery thing. I'd be well impressed with that, I have to admit. redface
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Casual sex sounds really boring lol do ya do it in an armchair while watching the telly ??

rotflmao
Do you know my other half too then? ;) :lol:
Never have. I've had "one night fun sessions" but only with men I knew (before Jay), I have never slept casually with strangers in my life, even in swinging we get to know the people a bit first.
I give blood regularly and it's important I remain healthy so always safe sex for moi! lol
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I give blood regularly and it's important I remain healthy so always safe sex for moi! lol

I knew safe-sex also has an altruistic angle to it, but this is taking it to another level. (they don't seem to have a bowing emoticon, so this is me bowing, jaymar, emoticonless)
As for the one-hand-bra-undo trick - wow, I thought EVERYONE knew that. Cool, let me nick the deli counter tingymijyg from Sainsbury and I'll be happy to start demonstrating. :hunk:
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they don't seem to have a bowing emoticon, so this is me bowing, jaymar, emoticonless

There's this one worship

There's this one worship
Frecklebird, this is the second time you're helping me in emoticon need. Ta, oh so very nicely. :rose:
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Aparently, I (also) impressed her with my one-step bra unbuttoning technique.

braggart! i've been practising that for years ((( with a trainer bra, wrapped round a stuffed, fluffy moomintroll, dontcha know? redface ))) and i still can't bluddy do it FFS?
:smug:
Don't even tell me that nellie can't do the bra trick but dollop can? :shock:
What is the world coming to? dunno
I've been thinking about this and I actually don't know what is meant by casual sex. confused
Well I didn't until I used my favourite little search engine to find...
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Casual sex refers to sexual activity outside the context of a romantic relationship, consisting of a range of informal sexual encounters.


So I'd summise from that definition that swinging is all classed as casual sex... or sex where it's informal. Back to Flower's lazy shagging on the couch while watching telly suggestion! lol
My head hurts. :?
I thought I would define "casual" sex as recreational sex. Then I thought about it & realised I couldn't so now Im flummoxed dunno
:smug:
I know, I know ............ Casual sex = dressed in Jeans instead of a Dinner Jacket :smug:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
does the sex where u are half alseep, so no effrt into it count as casual? lol