Newbie single guys please read

7 Nov 2006

Quote by sercher01
bugger! i mist the quote on the "self apointed sex guru "
but as you can now see there are ways of getting a pic up where it can be seen safley
and as is now becoming clear i think getting seen is the thing to do as a single guy
it all come down to the look i think
if you look like someones type they will start to talk and then hopefully arange a meet
but as has been pointed out everyone is different

Ha ha you must have friends PMing you sercher!
Yes,I posted the line about you coming over like the self appointed sex guru of SH and then I thought better of it,thought its sounded a bit 'off' toward you though I did put a wink after which always means its only meant lightheartedly..but that may not have come over like that so I edited it out.

8 Nov 2006

Quote by sercher01

I have enjoyed watching and reading this thread. Even if the advice doesn't suit or work for everyone, I don't think you can fault somebody for trying to be helpful.

your only saying that cos you want a snog too rolleyes

That was my reason at first. redface

Quote by sercher01
but i do hope this helps some of the guys
i think if they bother to read the hole thread they may gleen some valuadle information

That's the real reason for my comments. :thumbup:
ps: Can I have a snog now?

8 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss

I have enjoyed watching and reading this thread. Even if the advice doesn't suit or work for everyone, I don't think you can fault somebody for trying to be helpful.

your only saying that cos you want a snog too rolleyes

That was my reason at first. redface

Quote by sercher01
but i do hope this helps some of the guys
i think if they bother to read the hole thread they may gleen some valuadle information

That's the real reason for my comments. :thumbup:
ps: Can I have a snog now?
ill have to ask meaty but im sure he wont mind wink

8 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss
ps: Can I have a snog now?

Quote by sercher01
ill have to ask meaty but im sure he wont mind

Don't worry about that - he likes to watch. :grin:

8 Nov 2006

i know hun :giggle: wink

anyway wouldnt it be nice if some of the more "sucssesful" single guys posted some help in here for the newbies???????????
that way we would get a more rounded thread cool

8 Nov 2006

Quote by sercher01
i know hun :giggle:
anyway wouldnt it be nice if some of the more "sucssesful" single guys posted some help in here for the newbies???????????
that way we would get a more rounded thread

Yes but the flip-side would be that more single males would be sucessful after reading the kind advice, leaving even fewer ladies and couples to 'go round' (For want of a better term.)

8 Nov 2006

Quote by Kiss
i know hun :giggle:
anyway wouldnt it be nice if some of the more "sucssesful" single guys posted some help in here for the newbies???????????
that way we would get a more rounded thread

Yes but the flip-side would be that more single males would be sucessful after reading the kind advice, leaving even fewer ladies and couples to 'go round' (For want of a better term.)
and you'd have more blokes to go tarting round for snogs, filthy trollop :wink:

8 Nov 2006

Quote by meat2pleaseu
and you'd have more blokes to go tarting round for snogs, filthy trollop

And I thought that's why you loved me! :rascal:

8 Nov 2006

Quote by sercher01
i know hun :giggle:
anyway wouldnt it be nice if some of the more "sucssesful" single guys posted some help in here for the newbies???????????
that way we would get a more rounded thread

you mean like this..... the advice thread stickied at the top of the cafe........where it has several sections for help on many things.....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/67211.html

8 Nov 2006

Quote by fabio grooverider
i know hun :giggle:
anyway wouldnt it be nice if some of the more "sucssesful" single guys posted some help in here for the newbies???????????
that way we would get a more rounded thread

you mean like this..... the advice thread stickied at the top of the cafe........where it has several sections for help on many things.....
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/67211.html
ok point taken
now make it more obvius ok? rolleyes

8 Nov 2006

But re the helpful stickies... the proof is in the pudding as they say. If people we reading them there wouldn't be so many negative threads posted in the Cafe.

8 Nov 2006

so tbh this thread is a wast of time as
a/ its been done before
b/ the people its amed at helping dont bother reading it anyway?
dunno

still i think we have made some valid points wink

8 Nov 2006

you'll always have threads that have been done before but they can also bring some new comments and tips along. :thumbup:

9 Nov 2006

and in conjunction with the " BUMP " thread :shock:
this is how you do it wink

10 Nov 2006

Ill be honest, i sat and read thru this and im sorry Searcher, and its only my opinion that it was a very poor attempt at an advert. But hey if it works for you then do get on with it, but as someone who has dabbled in these areas and was quite succesful (not thru the forum but thru the adverts) i do remember posts like these poping up from time to time. But hey if it works for you, mind looking at your profile mate and your pics you look pretty camp to me. must be wrong like your profile says your straight.
But the one thing i will say is that anyone who thinks that chatting to someone in a chat room and or a forum with a view to forming an opinion of wether there a good person beyond reproach which would lead them to have safe sex or fun with them.. well im sorry. If you think you can tell your bloody stupid.
Axe murderer or nice guy, must be a nice person because they said nice things on the internet. Oh Dear!
But hey im so good im chocolate, ive got 24" inchs and i can lick my eyebrows.

10 Nov 2006

Quote by Versace Vase
Ill be honest, i sat and read thru this and im sorry Searcher, and its only my opinion that it was a very poor attempt at an advert.
its not an advert its a thread
But hey if it works for you then do get on with it, but as someone who has dabbled in these areas and was quite succesful (not thru the forum but thru the adverts) i do remember posts like these poping up from time to time. But hey if it works for you,
it dose work for "me" and if you had read the thread like you state you will see that it has been pointed out that it may not work for others
mind looking at your profile mate and your pics you look pretty camp to me. must be wrong like your profile says your straight. if putting some efort into pic's is camp so be it ( got to say you look pritty camp yourself m8 :shock:
But the one thing i will say is that anyone who thinks that chatting to someone in a chat room and or a forum with a view to forming an opinion of wether there a good person beyond reproach which would lead them to have safe sex or fun with them.. well im sorry. If you think you can tell your bloody stupid.
Axe murderer or nice guy, must be a nice person because they said nice things on the internet. Oh Dear!
But hey im so good im chocolate, ive got 24" inchs and i can lick my eyebrows.

but apart from that this is just an advice thread thats all :wink: