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a few of us really nice regulars have been talking to each other in the last couple of days and one of thing that came up was the idea of the newbie social...
i will ask people for there opinions of it before i was to organise something myself...
the idea is basically a few of regualrs and a bunch of newbies in a social setting.... pub/meal/bowling ect... but get an even mix of single men, women, and couples......I was thinking of a small groups for example no more than 20-25 people.. large enough that people can mix, but small enough, that people won't feel intimadated...and if they have any questions they can ask the regulars in regards to the forums/the new chatrooms/munches ect.....
obviously it is a work in progress... smile :) :) there many be things i haven't thought of that people would like the contribute on......all input would be greatfully received....
would enough regulars want to help???
would enough newbies want to take part????
cheers.........
sean xxxxxxxxx
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The socials would not be like a formal munch as we were thinking of limiting the numbers and will try to ensure a mix of people i.e. singles, couples etc.
As Fabio has said above, before we do go out and arrange these events it would be nice to know if any of the regulars would be willing to help out by coming along and answering questions, and also if there is enough interest from the newer members to make it a worthwile event.
Sounds good to the Husky's. Somewhere we could get a drink and have a chat in a relaxed atmosphere? Bowling would fit that bill.
hi ya,
im up for helping out in the cornwall area, as long as you dont make it skating as i cant skate. oh god bowling??? those shoes are so wrong lol.
but yes im up for helping in cornwall, wouldnt like to oragnise a munch as such but a meet up at a open venue is kool.
xxx lou x x
Quote by Husky
Sounds good to the Husky's. Somewhere we could get a drink and have a chat in a relaxed atmosphere? Bowling would fit that bill.

:shock: can we just do the meal/drink thing, knowing me, I would end up breaking my neck at bowles!!!!
wink :wink:
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I'm up for the Leicester ones Sean
Maybe we could have a Bowling league :wink:
Regional competitions lol
Steph

Steph, dont encourage the bowling, I cant do bowling!!!! Anyway I understand Mal is the expert at bowling?
yeah we have so many questions about swinging clubs and how to go about it etc etc ... but dont want to look naive or daft!!
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Sounds good to the Husky's. Somewhere we could get a drink and have a chat in a relaxed atmosphere? Bowling would fit that bill.

:shock: can we just do the meal/drink thing, knowing me, I would end up breaking my neck at bowles!!!!
wink :wink:
Just don'tget your fingers stuck in the holes :wink:
Quote by Husky
Sounds good to the Husky's. Somewhere we could get a drink and have a chat in a relaxed atmosphere? Bowling would fit that bill.

:shock: can we just do the meal/drink thing, knowing me, I would end up breaking my neck at bowles!!!!
wink :wink:
Just don'tget your fingers stuck in the holes :wink:
Its not my fingers Im worried about :shock:
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yeah we have so many questions about swinging clubs and how to go about it etc etc ... but dont want to look naive or daft!!
ask away maybe in a another thread ,but we all here to answer after all been in the same boat lol
Quote by Naughty Wigan Couple
Sounds good to the Husky's. Somewhere we could get a drink and have a chat in a relaxed atmosphere? Bowling would fit that bill.

:shock: can we just do the meal/drink thing, knowing me, I would end up breaking my neck at bowles!!!!
wink :wink:
Quote by steph
I'm up for the Leicester ones Sean
Maybe we could have a Bowling league :wink:
Regional competitions lol
Steph

Steph, dont encourage the bowling, I cant do bowling!!!! Anyway I understand Mal is the expert at bowling?
Midlands wise I'm up for helping - esp if its Notts, Derby, Chesterfield kinda areas & meal/ drinks sounds great, I dont do bowling! biggrin
Other areas considered too dates depending :wink:
Quote by steph
yeah we have so many questions about swinging clubs and how to go about it etc etc ... but dont want to look naive or daft!!

Have you seen Advice on Swinging Clubs for the first time visit from the advice section.
We have just read that steph, exellent advice and help, thank you. passionkiss
I love meeting new people as well as me old mates :bounce:
Due to the inability to organise even the proverbial brewery piss up confused I won't volunteer to arrange anything, but willing to help out tho! :happy:
hi well i for one would be interested im not really a newbie on here or to swing (although a little out of practice) used to go to small club in bournemouth & small groups.
i am a newbie to sh socials & munches though & would love to put some faces to names that i have been seeing on here & make new friends although im not looking for intimate meetings at mo (still trying to sort through few probs in personal life confused ) i would love to be a more active member of this community smile
would be better for me if meeting was nearer south but can travel so not essential thank you for your time :) :)
It sounds a good idea to us - even though weve been on this site since march, we still havent been to any munches or socials... (we admit, were a bit scared!) Would give us a really good opportunity to meet people.
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It sounds a good idea to us - even though weve been on this site since march, we still havent been to any munches or socials... (we admit, were a bit scared!) Would give us a really good opportunity to meet people.

What they said! I've been around for ages but I'm a little bit nervous about going to one and also the NW munches seem to be booked months and months in advance.
So count me in for a NW one.
Dave
Basicallly like.....
"central port of call in each town."...... hey we could become the new WI
We would be interested as a good way to socialise with lkeminded people in social non commital environment. Although been on here for a few months we are still wet behind the ears lol
would be interested in a meet in kent cool given enough notice
great idea biggrin
HB dont mention the WI , had issues withthem on the site ages ago lol
xxx lou xxx
I probably won't be able to give any advice but if any are near me/us on the South coast we may stop by to say hello.
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I probably won't be able to give any advice but if any are near me/us on the South coast we may stop by to say hello.

if it does take off & you do make it mines a remey martin xo large please biggrin
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HB dont mention the WI , had issues withthem on the site ages ago lol
xxx lou xxx

Trying to infiltrate eh!? tut! PM me details.. fancy a goss
Quote by st3v3
I probably won't be able to give any advice but if any are near me/us on the South coast we may stop by to say hello.

Brave man St3v3 lol :lol: wink
Shireen
xxx
I dont mind doing a NW one its a good idea
Been to the last liecester munch. Had a good nite but have been offline and the idea of a small get together sounds grate to me. lol :lol:
Good idea, Sean & co. I'd be up for helping out with a Bristol / West Country one!
think it would be a good idea ,think maybe a pub meet ,so peeps can mix chat and for new peeps to the scene who want to ask questions about the scene ,yup great idea
Id be interested, depending on when and where it is?
Ive not been to one before mainly because Im on my own........ hate going into places alone!
xanaisx
Ps I missed putting my name down for the Bristol one! typical eh? Miss out on one near me!
Well, two replies to the original posting from the west country so far makes this sound promising to this newbie.
As a singleton, meeting real people (both new and experienced) in a relaxed atmosphere sounds like a fabulous idea. A real ice-breaker!
:bounce:
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Id be interested, depending on when and where it is?
Ive not been to one before mainly because Im on my own........ hate going into places alone!
xanaisx
Ps I missed putting my name down for the Bristol one! typical eh? Miss out on one near me!

You mean I may finally get the chance to meet you???? :shock: :bounce: :bounce: