Has anyone ever written or considered writing a do's and don't guide for beginners?
If so where is it and if not why not?
I personally am getting sick and tired of newbies making mistakes at my expense and then saying the same old, 'I'm new I didnt realise' thing.
For instance, recently at a club I am with a 'newbie'. I didn't go with him although we did communicate before the evening. We spend some time together and we have played once, which was great. Later in the evening we are chatting again and he actively asks me to go in a room to play with him. I agree, but ask him to wait so I can put my bodystocking on.
I didn't see him again that night, he disappeared. I wasn't sure what had happened so I sent him a text to see if he was ok and ask what happened. He tells me he went to find out the time and got asked into a room by another person and went with them. He then decided to leave without coming to let me know what had happened.
I explain to him that it isn't really right to dump someone for a better offer after you have actually instigated and asked to play with them and he basically told me I was making a big deal and as swingers what is my problem.
Funny how it has never happened to me before in 4 years if that is the case. Needless to say I was not amused and not really interested in repeating the experience with him.
This is just one of a few experiences I've had with 'newbies' who really don't seem to think beyond their cock and act like the only thing that matters is that they cum.
So... back to the point. I personally am not going to offer to meet or play with newbies again unless there is something I can point them to that can explain the etiquette to them and give them some basic idea of how to treat people both in clubs and during private meets. It could prevent a lot of upset and annoyance for everyone concerned.
Casanova
