Quote by Alexandra
Nowt like blowing your own trumpet is there, Steve
(as the gay contortionist said)
I tend to take a back seat if the room host is capable(which Steve is) so its not really down to me...
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No directing??
Quote by Alexandra
Still can't get into seteve's room FGS! No wonder it's popular !!
There are a few seats free at the moment :-)
You reckon we need one of those ticket dispenser thingies, like at the deli counter in Tescos?
Nah... they never work for me. The bloke behind the counter just serves the sexy looking women before he presses the button
Ia m new to this site. and I love it... for those of you that are not sure about what someone on cam gets out of being on cam and why no directing is important let me explain.
For me being on cam is about knowing that someone is watching... and I CAN'T see them. I like knowing they are there... and seeing appreciative/flattering comments. As a lesbian I don't think about the gender of the voyeur... just knowing that someone watching is what turns me on. I enjoy puting on a show.
Directing me--
adds a gender normally... as the blokes invite me to watch them, have their fingers instead of my own, suck them off etc etc
also assumes that my needs are their own,
my fantasies are theirs.....
I want to do my own thing and know that there is someone else enjoying it.
I have met a woman who watched me and sent me a contact because of it... and we had a lovely time together. But that is a side benefit it isn't why I do it.
amongst many things I am an exhibitionist..... and that is why I "perform" on cam. I goto clubs for the same reason.
I am not interested in being part of anyones' on screen fantasy and I aint a puppet for others to instruct.
no directing means no directing. :shock:
(sheddy you do realise that I would give you a private show tho?? !!! :twisted: )
Quote by london_steve
The excuse that its a swinging site so it should be ok is rubbish, the rooms are chat rooms and just because they are in a swinging site does not give people the ok for sexually or verbally abusing the people on cam...
I wreckon that most folks who direct see this as a sex site rather than a swinging site and need some education on what the difference is.
Yes most of the dorectors are single blokes and i'd put money on it they have joined the site recently after SH got a mention in the press on or around Christmass.
Yes i was one of those who joined then
Yes i did a bit of directin in the first few weeks but soon learnt it was not the done thing and thanx to those who helped me.
Now i just get so pissed with the directors and it spoils the chat as i said earlier.
Quote by splendid33
(sheddy you do realise that I would give you a private show tho?? !!! :twisted: )
ops: <<<<<<<<< Looks at diary...out tonight 
away all weekend (posibly not sure yet) Next week? why I'm free for every minute of evey day :rascal: press here you know want to 
Orgasminator
Quote by Darkfire
chatroom directors are a pet hate of mine
Does that mean if we ever add each other to messenger (subtle hint, lol) I cant ask you to get your tits out and suck them?
Wanders off to sulk
Jon xxxx
PS as an incentive to add me to messy i think i have a photo of you and your twin (suze) to send you
Now theres a fantasy... twins... :lol:
As another incentive... i want you naked on my bed so I can take photos of you! (and if you say you wont... i'll come around and spank your botty! (looks mean and dom :lol: ))
Quote by piercedJon
chatroom directors are a pet hate of mine
Does that mean if we ever add each other to messenger (subtle hint, lol) I cant ask you to get your tits out and suck them?
Wanders off to sulk
Jon xxxx
Jon, you mean & Dom alpha male you :rascal:
MSN is a whole different ball game - on principal I have to invite you by giving my msn addy and any camming would be on a 1:1 consentual basis. Hey, it works for me
. That said, you'd seriously need to turn up the Dom volume if you want me to perform to command - I'm a very untrained little rottweiler me PS as an incentive to add me to messy i think i have a photo of you and your twin (suze) to send you :lol:
Now theres a fantasy... twins... :lol:
Piccies you say? :twisted: , I'll be right over
As another incentive... i want you naked on my bed so I can take photos of you! (and if you say you wont... i'll come around and spank your botty! (looks mean and dom :lol: ))
Quote by osemlover
Having compliemented the site on its chatrooms I'm forced to ask why do so many people (guys predominantly it has to be said) try to direct those on cam when there are specific instructioins NOT to do so? If I stumble across someone on cam who's prepared to put on a show the last thing I'm going to do is hassle them to do things they don't want to. Of course there is a fine line between encouragement and direction but I do think more people ought to be a bit more considerate and allow those on cam to run their show their way.
T - the male half of the equation
I don't know if anyone has already pointed this out or not - but the answer to your question is quite simple...
Some people in the chatroom are swingers.
Some people in the chatroom are thinking about swinging.
Some people are there for their exhibitionist fix.
Some people in the chatroom have no interest in swinging and look at it like a visit to the zoo - let's stare and point at the funny animals.
Some people in the chatroom think it is an easy place to get a quick shag.
Some people in the chatroom think it is a place to get some free porn for a quick wank.
Some people are there because they have realised it is cheaper than booking a webcam session with an escort (or similar) as they don't have to pay by the minute. However it is acceptable to direct your whore when you are paying by the minute and only have a 10 minute booking - so I guess they get confused as to where they are watching the cams.
Some people are just ignorant fuckers!
