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Hello all,
I must have contacted dozens of women on this site and so far I haven't received a single reply, not even to say "thanks but no thanks", which would be nice if only to show a bit of courtesy.
I understand the ratio of men to women etc. but I'm starting to wonder (actually I'm starting to hope!) that it's because my emails are making their way automatically into peoples' spam or junk mailboxes which are being auto-deleted without even being read. MSN deletes mails in 5 days, I presume others do pretty much the same.
Are the Swinging Heaven owners able to make folks aware about this happening, if only so that I might get laid at least once in the new year! ;)
Happy holidays!! smile
Squirtfan. x x
I'd wager the chances are your mails are getting through.
When I was replying to ads here and elsewhere, I must have sent, well, rather a lot.
In all I think I had 4 replies.
I had problems when I had an ad getting any replies through to my msn addy.
Wasn't a problem with the site but with msn so I changed my e-mail addy to a one and was amazed at how many replies I did get! (I'm a single fem though)
Might be worth u considering changing to another e-mail address just incase u r missing replies.
Lil_Bunny, I check my junk folder daily in case anything important has made it's way there by mistake.
I was really talking about people who I send messages to - I'm concerned that my emails are being missed by them because they're going straight into the junk folder and they don't even know they're there.
Squirtfan. x x
hiya squirtfan
i'd suspect your mails are getting through ok. it's not uncommon for couples and single fems to get 2-300 mails week in week out, and no i'm not exaggerating there, as i'm sure some will confirm. it's very hard to write a reply that stands out, and very hard for them to reply to every mail they get.
keep trying, but i find the forum is the best place to devote your energies as far as getting to know people and possible future meets are concerned.
neil x x x ;)
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I had 4 replies.

Wow Zootle, thats a fantastic conversion rate, whats your secret? Is it your cyber-pheremone spray that you lace every e-mail with? wink
I agree with Neil, but the ads situation does seem strange to many guys I imagine.
SA
XXX
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Is it your cyber-pheremone spray that you lace every e-mail with?

No, that doesn't work. I've ordered my minions to build a particularly large death ray specifically for the purpose of destroying the purveyors of the aforementioned cyber-pheremone spray.
Two to three hundred replies a week? Wow! Seriously? I won't hold out much hope then! LOL!
The trouble is that I'm often too busy to read through the forums, which is kind of why I'm looking to meet someone just for sex really - hence my ad. Oh well, I'll try to hang around on here more often! ;)
Squirtfan. x
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Hello all,
I must have contacted dozens of women on this site and so far I haven't received a single reply, not even to say "thanks but no thanks", which would be nice if only to show a bit of courtesy.

As single males, we are but tiny fish in a huge ocean. Its highly likely your emails are getting through, but women receive so many messages that they don't have time to look at them all, let alone respond to them. Many from single males who haven't even read the adverts properly & just respond to everything with one liners. rolleyes
I would never respond to an advert if I was not the sort of person the advertiser is looking for, so it is very frustrating. mad
Also I suppose I'm in another minority as I'm not a black guy with a ten inch cock either, which seems to be what a lot of women are looking for! LOL!
Oh well, back to porn and wanking for me then! ;)
Squirtfan.
I think it is just a matter of patience and luck. the couples and ladies are in such demand (i wonder why) One tip is to read the adds very carefully, if you dont match up to the requirements you can bet you will be straight in the recycle bin. Keep trying though, I have had replies both negative and posetive and also got to meet some nice folk. Be warned though, it doesnt always lead to sex
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Also I suppose I'm in another minority as I'm not a black guy with a ten inch cock either, which seems to be what a lot of women are looking for! LOL!
Oh well, back to porn and wanking for me then! ;)

As I am about to do...... :wanker: surprised
Just because I haven't read every post in the forums here doesn't mean I can't
read and understand someone's ad, and I feel a little insulted that you think as
much to be honest.
Of course I only reply to ads with criteria that I fulfil, and I would expect the
same courtesy to be shown to me. My replies are polite, brief (as I am
aware people are busy) without being one-liners, and I always include a
current face photo when requested, ditto if one 'further south' is asked for.
I'm not sure what you meant by your last comment about my profile, are you
saying that if I include a photo of myself and a signature quote I'd get more
responses to my ads? And besides, what's the point of ads if, as Neilinleeds is
suggesting, we should all move to the forums to arrange meeting up.
Now 'm even more confused! ;)
Squirtfan.
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single guys are likea single sperm looking for the egg, sometimes its a blowjob wink
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Just because I haven't read every post in the forums here doesn't mean I can't
read and understand someone's ad, and I feel a little insulted that you think as
much to be honest.
Of course I only reply to ads with criteria that I fulfil, and I would expect the
same courtesy to be shown to me. My replies are polite, brief (as I am
aware people are busy) without being one-liners, and I always include a
current face photo when requested, ditto if one 'further south' is asked for.
I'm not sure what you meant by your last comment about my profile, are you
saying that if I include a photo of myself and a signature quote I'd get more
responses to my ads? And besides, what's the point of ads if, as Neilinleeds is
suggesting, we should all move to the forums to arrange meeting up.
Now 'm even more confused! ;)
Squirtfan.

Squirtfan, please take advice without taking offence. You'll find you'll have a lot more success if you do.
I'm single and on the prowl :twisted:
But looking at your profile tells me nothing.
You've made 9 posts.
Don't know if you're even in my area for starters dunno
You registered on my birthday
Your email address suggest you're the king of the jungle type (but we all know the lion is finished in 5 seconds flat sad )
And your nick tells me you want to squirt everywhere.
Is that all we need to know about you?
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And your nick tells me you want to squirt everywhere.

I think you'll find he wants you to squirt everywhere. lol :lol:
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And your nick tells me you want to squirt everywhere.

I think you'll find he wants you to squirt everywhere. lol :lol:
Ooops..... redface surprisedops: :oops:
That rules me out then. rolleyes
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I can sub for you libra hun wink .
Judy

Or we could forget the man in the middle and do each other instead :grin:
Well I wish I could come up with such an amazing character profile based on a few posts, a nickname and an email address.
Amithelion is taken from a song that my best friend wrote about unrequited love and seeing the person you're in love with leave you for someone else. So it is about being king of the jungle in a way, or more accurately about never being in that position.
No references to premature ejaculation in the lyrics at all as far as I know. (Cheap shot by the way Libra-Love).
I chose the name squirtfan because I'm quite a fan of female ejaculation, but femaleejaculationfan is (excuse the pun) rather a mouthful.
You really don't know me at all, and what you've said about me is in fact pretty much all wrong... and some of it downright insulting and rude. Also posting "please don't take offence" and then actually being offensive doesn't really work.
All I posted for was to get a little advice (and thanks to those that gave me that), but now I think I'l leave as quickly as some of you judged me.
Squirtfan.
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Well I wish I could come up with such an amazing character profile based on a few posts, a nickname and an email address.
Amithelion is taken from a song that my best friend wrote about unrequited love and seeing the person you're in love with leave you for someone else. So it is about being king of the jungle in a way, or more accurately about never being in that position.
No references to premature ejaculation in the lyrics at all as far as I know. (Cheap shot by the way Libra-Love).
I chose the name squirtfan because I'm quite a fan of female ejaculation, but femaleejaculationfan is (excuse the pun) rather a mouthful.
You really don't know me at all, and what you've said about me is in fact pretty much all wrong... and some of it downright insulting and rude. Also posting "please don't take offence" and then actually being offensive doesn't really work.
All I posted for was to get a little advice (and thanks to those that gave me that), but now I think I'l leave as quickly as some of you judged me.
Squirtfan.

You're right. I really don't know you at all. That's kinda the point I was trying to make.
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Your email address suggest you're the king of the jungle type (but we all know the lion is finished in 5 seconds flat )

Maybe a link/a quote/etc in the sig isn't such a bad idea
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And your nick tells me you want to squirt everywhere.
Is that all we need to know about you?

As other's pointed out I was wrong about this. Not surprising then that I was wrong about your email address either. But not much there to go by but assumptions is there?
Now I'll apologise for getting it wrong. The crystal ball's kinda on the blink today.
But I aint gonna beg you to stay.
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But I aint gonna beg you to stay.

I'm sure you said elsewhere that you like being made to beg. :grin: