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I just need a damn hug. Please don't laugh at me but I am very attached to animals ( hell, I prefer them to most people ) and I just had to leave my 10 year old cat at the vet due to kidney failure. Very sad Abi right now.
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I just need a damn hug. Please don't laugh at me but I am very attached to animals ( hell, I prefer them to most people ) and I just had to leave my 10 year old cat at the vet due to kidney failure. Very sad Abi right now.

Sending you a hug sad
Lots of hugs for Abilene
:therethere: :therethere: kiss :therethere:
May your pussy cat R.I.P
Shaz and Tony :kiss:
:therethere: Life sucks sometimes does'nt it hun!
Love
Fire xx

Nooooooo.............. he's not dead ( yet ...sniff sniff ). They are putting him on an I.V. drip and doing god knows what tests ( to get the bill as high as possible ) and will be giving me the results and decision making choice tomorrow. Sniff ... sniff.
Think I am gonna need lots of hugs at the birthday munch and the BBQ !!!!
:therethere:
Sorry to hear your news. sad
oh no sad i had to go through the same thing with my cat when i was about 16 i was devastated, he was very special to me, so i can empathise with you here.
take care hun xxxxx
I felt a little silly at the vets cos when I had to hand him over I couldnt let go. Poor damn cat must have felt like a rubber band !!! Then I am crying like my kid just died or something ... but I hate that he is so sick ... as an animal lover you always feel like maybe there was/is something you can do to help but in reality you can't and dammit I want him here jumping in my lap, climbing on the keyboard and knocking my tea over !!!!
Thanks for all the hugs .......... :love:
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May your pussy cat R.I.P
Shaz and Tony kiss

Nooooooo.............. he's not dead ( yet ...sniff sniff ). They are putting him on an I.V. drip and doing god knows what tests ( to get the bill as high as possible ) and will be giving me the results and decision making choice tomorrow. Sniff ... sniff.
Think I am gonna need lots of hugs at the birthday munch and the BBQ !!!!
oops sorry hun redface
At the BBQ you can have all the cuddles you want :twisted:
And p.s
Shaz has been on a low carb diet like you said you had and she has lost nearly a stone in 2 weeks, she's really chuffed biggrin
Tony wink
I hope your kitty will be fine...me and my kitties are thinking of you.
lots of hugs and wet nose kisses coming from us (wet noses from the cats!)
awwwwwwww big hugs.
my gorgeous kitty passed away a couple of weeks ago and i am still crying about it now.
Hi Abilene, you have a PM.
Abi, I'm so sorry to hear that. Hugs anytime hunni :therethere:
:therethere: :therethere: :therethere:
I know how you feel :cry:
I rescued a stray cat a few years ago, took him to the vet who diagnosed him with FIV (cat AIDS).
They said he can still live a healthy life, but 2 weeks later he went down with kidney failure and had to be put to sleep. I was devestated but I knew I was doing the right thing. Its very difficult, but at least your cat wont be in pain.
:therethere: :therethere: :therethere:
B
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Hugs for you abi, hope everything turns out ok for you and kitty x x x x
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I just need a damn hug. Please don't laugh at me but I am very attached to animals ( hell, I prefer them to most people )

I won't laugh as I can see your point, PK has a rabbit well she has 2 really but one is of the fluffy four legged variety and of late he has become my mate. When I first started coming up here he used to go all jealous and bounch round his cage in a protective manor. But sincce I've been living and working up here and as I'm on nights he is the first living thing I see when I get up in the afternoons as PK is at work. I chat with him, feed him even let him out for a run round and a chew of anything he can get his teeth on lol Hell I even found my self in Tescos the other day looking for rabbity treats for him redface
Now when he see's me he bounces round in happiness I came back tonight after a long shift (Glasgow and back) and even PK pointed out that he was begging for my attention biggrin
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I just need a damn hug. Please don't laugh at me but I am very attached to animals ( hell, I prefer them to most people )

I won't laugh as I can see your point, PK has a rabbit well she has 2 really but one is of the fluffy four legged variety and of late he has become my mate. When I first started coming up here he used to go all jealous and bounch round his cage in a protective manor. But sincce I've been living and working up here and as I'm on nights he is the first living thing I see when I get up in the afternoons as PK is at work. I chat with him, feed him even let him out for a run round and a chew of anything he can get his teeth on lol Hell I even found my self in Tescos the other day looking for rabbity treats for him redface
Now when he see's me he bounces round in happiness I came back tonight after a long shift (Glasgow and back) and even PK pointed out that he was begging for my attention biggrin
Hijack>>>>>>>>>>
You were in Glasgow and you didn't tell me??
Bad Sheddy!
<<<<<<<Hijack over
so sorry to hear that abs, when that happened to my wee cat it was v hard, he was like my wee baby brother :-(
hugs, maz xx
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Hijack>>>>>>>>>>
You were in Glasgow and you didn't tell me??
Bad Sheddy!
<<<<<<<Hijack over


Sadly I didn't have time to stop as I was on a sort of interview. I came home tonight with an application form for a 4 day a week job that pays a stupid amount of money and leaves 3 days a week free to run my buisness. Am I chuffed? Too fucking right I am :smug:
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I want him here jumping in my lap, climbing on the keyboard and knocking my tea over !!!!

I'll pop round, jump on your lap, climb on your keyboard and knock your tea over for you if you think it will help!!?? confused :? :? :? :? :? :? :? wink
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I want him here jumping in my lap, climbing on the keyboard and knocking my tea over !!!!

I'll pop round, jump on your lap, climb on your keyboard and knock your tea over for you if you think it will help!!?? confused :? :? :? :? :? :? :? wink

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Bloody hell Sarge....nearly spit me wine all over the keyboard then............I could think of much better things to do after I'd jumped on Abi's lap.............ol
Seriously though Abi, I've always been a dog type person before. (Never really liked cats, but would never allow any harm to come to one) If you ever need a hug, just give me a shout and I'll nip over and be there for you.
*And I really do mean that. I've travelled more miles than I care to remember doing coffee/drinks and chats with newbies*
So a short 128 mile journey is nothing.
Seriously babes, give me a shout if you ever need "consoling" :twisted: :twisted:
Marcuso
xx xx
I just want to take a moment to thank everyone for their kind words ands pm's.
Today at I held Sam as he was gently and respectfully put to sleep. :cry:
Don't really know what to say right now. Sam had kinda become like my second child since my son had decided to live with his dad in the States for a while when I moved here. There was no-one waiting to greet me when I came in tonight. I have to go downstairs and put his bowls away. Think I'll go take a nice bath first.
Thanks y'all.
p.s. Should I be worried that Marcuso has calculated the miles to my house wink
Quote by Abilene
I just want to take a moment to thank everyone for their kind words ands pm's.
Today at I held Sam as he was gently and respectfully put to sleep. :cry:
Don't really know what to say right now. Sam had kinda become like my second child since my son had decided to live with his dad in the States for a while when I moved here. There was no-one waiting to greet me when I came in tonight. I have to go downstairs and put his bowls away. Think I'll go take a nice bath first.
Thanks y'all.
p.s. Should I be worried that Marcuso has calculated the miles to my house wink

Abi :therethere: :therethere: :therethere:
It's never easy, but try to remember you were acting for Sams benefit.
I hope you feel better soon.
:rose:
Abi I'm so sorry, I've been through this myself and know how it feels. Try to take some comfort in the fact that you gave him a happy life.
H.x
Sorry Abilene :cry:
Don't know what else to say. Take it easy hun :therethere:
As for distance its in profile hun site works it out ie 97 mile from me. I think you can turn it off somehow.
Can't believe how tearful I feel for you Abi :therethere:
Be gentle on yourself hun kiss
Love
FIRE xx
...sneaks in.. cool
...wonders if anyone's watching... :uhoh:
:therethere: Abi
..no-one saw that did they innocent
...sneaks back out wink
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...sneaks in.. cool
...wonders if anyone's watching... :uhoh:
:therethere: Abi
..no-one saw that did they innocent
...sneaks back out wink

You big soft old rottie you!
c'mere passionkiss
FIRE xx
bollox Fire you quoted it!!! redface surprisedops:
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