Hi Everyone......
I was just wondering, has anyone ever had something physical wrong with them that means that they can't have sex for a little while?
I've got something wrong with me (don't ask cause I won't say, not even in PM) and I can't have sex for the time being, it's incredibly frustrating and I'm not sure how long it will be for....
Anyway, I was just wondering on advice to get through it and trying to vent a bit of frustration with you guys......
Helen.
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Not Being Able To Have Sex.....!!
LoL....it's nothing that I've caught from anyone....it's not an STD or anything like that....
It's just something physical that means I can't have sex......
Good idea Venus but who is going to want to meet up for just cuddles and that's it? It's fine when you're married but not when you're single..... :cry:
It's just something physical that means I can't have sex......
Good idea Venus but who is going to want to meet up for just cuddles and that's it? It's fine when you're married but not when you're single..... :cry:
Sexlightened
some times it is about trust as a single guy I love sex, but would find it difficult with someone I had just met hence not into dogging, would rather get to know someone before playing.
Warming the Bed
I suppose a lot depends on what you mean by 'can't have sex'...does that mean absolutely no sexual activity at all, or can you masturbate/pet but no penetrative sex? (Is it me or am I sounding like Claire Raynor?).
A cuddle can help, and if you can let someones fingers do the walking, then that may help ease off the 'oh my god I gotta have a shag!' feelings.
Otherwise I'd suggest taking up a really complicated hobby. Or cleaning the whole house with a very small cloth. It may not help much but it'll fill in the time.
A cuddle can help, and if you can let someones fingers do the walking, then that may help ease off the 'oh my god I gotta have a shag!' feelings.
Otherwise I'd suggest taking up a really complicated hobby. Or cleaning the whole house with a very small cloth. It may not help much but it'll fill in the time.
:smackbottom: You know I only use gerbils!!! LoLQuote by DreamerHelen
LoL....it's nothing that I've caught from anyone....it's not an STD or anything like that....
It's just something physical that means I can't have sex......
Good idea Venus but who is going to want to meet up for just cuddles and that's it? It's fine when you're married but not when you're single..... :cry:
Awww, I`ll give you a cuddle pet :love:
Venusxxx
It's not that I can't have sex, it's just that that part of me is kind of ugly at the moment and that's as much as I'm going to say......
So it means that anyone that got that close would run away screaming.....and I wouldn't blame him.....
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( It's so depressing and demoralising....
So it means that anyone that got that close would run away screaming.....and I wouldn't blame him.....
:( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( :( It's so depressing and demoralising.... 
Warming the Bed
You have our sympathy - after I had our first child we were at it again in no time at all, but after our second...well, due to various complications, it was 9 weeks before we could even consider it & we were :crazy: for it by then. Naturally, I had done my best to keep Matt happy in other ways in the mean time, but even so...
Sorry, I know that's no help at all to you being single but I wanted to sympathise.
Sorry, I know that's no help at all to you being single but I wanted to sympathise.
I'm afraid you don't have to 'have something wrong' to not be able to have sex for an unknown period. You just have to be single (and not have discovered SH!) It's a bit like de-toxing I suppose. One day at a time. Re-assuring yourself 'You WILL have sex again one day, Cinderella'.
AND......... just think how great it's going to be when you start again. :thrilled:
Jezzay
AND......... just think how great it's going to be when you start again. :thrilled:
Jezzay
