NW couple - can you help us?

9 Jan 2005

Hi all

We are fairly new to the scene, and are hoping that we can get some advice from the more experienced people on this site smile

We are f24 and m31, and dont live too far from the Chester area.
We would be grateful for any advice on how to go about arranging meet-ups and also getting invited to all these parties we keep reading about wink

We are not into full swap, however we do like same room fun and the female can be bi (with the right person! lol).
Hope to hear all your advice/experiences soon. xx

9 Jan 2005

Hiya Jo and Will,
The ways to get into swinging are as varied as swingers themselves.
Route one is put an advert up in the photo ads section saying clearly what you are looking for, and hope that the right couple/single bloke/single fem replies.
Route two is chatting in the forums, going to munches, getting to know people, then just wake up one morning, and find out you have done it!
Route one tends to be quite stressful, but can give quicker results, route two is much more relaxed.
Eventually, you end up doing both, and getting the best of both worlds.
You say 'fairly new' have you had any swinging experiences so far?
lhk
Kat

9 Jan 2005

Hi Kat
Thanks for your response.
We've had experiences in the sense that we went to Hedonism II & III in Jamaica last year, and I (the fem) had a bit of a fumble with 1 or 2 sexy couples (as said b4 though it wasn't full swap). We really just want want to meet like-minded people who are up for some fun i.e. meeting up for drinks etc. and seeing how things go from there. wink

Have you had many meets/experiences through SH? biggrin

9 Jan 2005

Personally I would say stick around on the forum, chat to the regulars and then attend one of the munches.... mind you, meeting us all face to face will probably put you off swinging for life, so ignore this comment totally wink

9 Jan 2005

I've met Blue - she made me lick her boots :eeek: - and I got away lightly! :shock:
I forgot to mention clubs. - but I suspect you are looking for that social meet before hand, so the munch thing is a good way forward.
lhk
Kat

9 Jan 2005

Can't add much folks, just say as the others have, hang around a while and chat on the boards... Check out the ads section regularly... Don't forget to wrack your brains and search your memories for couples you know or have known who might be open to suggestion.
One main thing I will add as an old codger who worries about young folks... take care out there, there's some evil buggers about this world.

10 Jan 2005

Quote by KitKat
I've met Blue - she made me lick her boots :eeek: - and I got away lightly! :shock:

i should say very bloody lightly! :scared:
hiyas jo & will
:welcome: to SH!
as everyone else has said, chatting on the forums and getting to munches are great for easing in gently to the social, friendly side of things, at your own pace. once you get to know folk, the parties follow on nicely! smile

have fun!

neil x x x ;)

10 Jan 2005

Blue/Kat/arkan/neilinLeeds
Thank you all for your responses kiss

- we get the idea of what to do know.
Hope to speak to you/see you all soon!!