Quote by Suze43
Ummm surely its not the quantity but the quality???
:thumbup:
that said, i do have days where my body says I need it, and I need it NOW and that feeling doesnt go away til I've .. ahem, sorted it
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Orgasminator
That is what I said! LOL Till it got sorted, it wasn't sorted so Ikept trying to get it sorted.
Quote by dirtytwo
Way to go Tania. Me finks those who have blanks in their diaries are a little bit jelous. I KNOW where you're coming from with the nymphomania thing. I also know where to go for sex with different men every day, if I want to, and yes, I sometimes do. Sometimes quantity is what is need too!
So like I said, good on you. You go girl
And yes, before anyone asks, the other half of dirtytwo loves that I'm a nympho slut and that I go out an get mine
I'm not jealous.
Yes,I'd perhaps like to be doing a few things with others that I'm not currently doing but I'm not jealous of Tania's adventures, and I wish her nothing but well and hope she has found something worthwhile in it all for herself.
It was more that I wouldn't want to be included in a list like that on the forum if I played with somebody,even if I were just one of a few guys in a short a space of time to me each act I'd take part in is still a private and valued moment of intimate pleasure between myself and the person/people concerned,not to be put up on SH as part of a scoresheet after.
Also if I put myself put up such a list of women I'd had sex with in 5 days I would be laughed at as being either a liar or being guilty of indiscreet boasting were it true!
Orgasminator
I don't think any of the guys involved would mind, it is another feather on their cap (isn't that the expression?) Besides I have not identified them and I doubt they will ever remember they once met me. It was all too brief and insignificant for them.
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer' or 'yes, you should, we don't do such things in here, you little hussy'
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer' or 'yes, you should, we don't do such things in here, you little hussy'
Quote by Tania
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer' or 'yes, you should, we don't do such things in here, you little hussy'
I don't think you were boasting hunni. I'm just freakin jealous you managed to get some 5 days in a row ffs !
Quote by Tania
I don't think any of the guys involved would mind, it is another feather on their cap (isn't that the expression?) Besides I have not identified them and I doubt they will ever remember they once met me. It was all too brief and insignificant for them.
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer' or 'yes, you should, we don't do such things in here, you little hussy'
They won't remember they ever met you,it was" too brief and insignificant for them"?
But it's "another feather in their cap"?
I've got nothing against NSA one off sex but I'd hate it to be that meaningless to me or to my partner or partners but thats me not you Tania,whatever floats your boat eh?
Quote by Tania
I was not boasting. I was seriously worried about my voracious appetite but now everything is clear to me.
All I wanted was to hear what others had experienced when they first began swinging. Did they go on a rampage or was it a slow controlled progress? The 'should I see a doctor' question was tongue in cheek and I was hoping people would say 'no, you are normal, it happens like this to a first-timer'
I think, and remember this is only my oppinion, that many people, gals and guys, on arrival here do the whole 'kid in a sweetshop' thing.
Its all so exciting, your confidence goes through the roof because you're getting offers in your pm box every 5 minutes and you're on a high from both the attention and the hormone levels - especially the fems. Physical pleasure is good, feels good, therefore you want more, and there's plenty on offer. You can get, if you want it, practically anything at the drop of a pm, and you know it.
But I also think kid-in-a-sweetshop syndrome is one of the most unappealing and unattractive aspects of this lifestyle. It can give others a 'bad' impression - each to their own , and what's ok for one might not be ok for another etc, but me personally, I'm not interested in playing with someone who's shagged half the site before they get to me, in being another 'conquest', 'feather in someones cap' or some insignificant shag that he/she forgets about the following day when he's/ she's out shagging the next one on the 'to do' list. Frankly, that whole attitude of legs spread faster than margerine kinda disgusts me - but hey, there's plenty of folk out there who dont have a problem with it
Me, I'm up my own ass and think I'm special, but hey, you can just call me picky
Orgasminator
Good piece of advice dirtytwo. I think the word you were thinking of is 'psyche' - the soul.
Well I know a lot more about myself now than I did a week ago. That alone was worth facing the SH firing squad.
It would have been nice if one of the seasoned swingers here had taken me under wing as I had advertised for a long time ago but people are not interested in newbies and that is life. So of course I went out and made my own mistakes and learned from them.
What makes me laugh is I lost a guy who I was really attracted to because I didn't want to sleep with him on a first date lest he thought badly of me. (I am sure people can do a search and find out about that incident...)
I have been fired upon for wanting a relationshipand again for seeking NSA sex. I can't win, whatever I do. I need someone to teach me the right balance. Perhaps one day he'll come by SH and take me by the hand.
...wondering whether I have met niceandgentle and not remember it! :shock:
Well I know a lot more about myself now than I did a week ago. That alone was worth facing the SH firing squad.
It would have been nice if one of the seasoned swingers here had taken me under wing as I had advertised for a long time ago but people are not interested in newbies and that is life. So of course I went out and made my own mistakes and learned from them.
What makes me laugh is I lost a guy who I was really attracted to because I didn't want to sleep with him on a first date lest he thought badly of me. (I am sure people can do a search and find out about that incident...)
I have been fired upon for wanting a relationshipand again for seeking NSA sex. I can't win, whatever I do.
I need someone to teach me the right balance. Perhaps one day he'll come by SH and take me by the hand....wondering whether I have met niceandgentle and not remember it! :shock:
Quote by Tania
It would have been nice if one of the seasoned swingers here had taken me under wing as I had advertised for a long time ago but people are not interested in newbies and that is life. So of course I went out and made my own mistakes and learned from them.
There's always this
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/81218.html
Yes, it's only been up since June but an almost identical post was up before that. Of course we are interested in newbies, they are the life blood of the site and needed to keep the mix good and the conversation flowing. Don't start saying that newbies are not wanted cos it's just not true in any way.
If you contact Mal NOW I'm sure he'd be happy to allocate you a mentor.
:P
Quote by Tania
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I guess my nymphomania has to do with the quest for satisfaction. Once given it, I calm down.
Quote by Tania
That is what I said! LOL Till it got sorted, it wasn't sorted so Ikept trying to get it sorted.
Awww - does your "regular lover" know he is not pushing the right buttons
Quote by Darkfire
edited, cos these posts & your post history make absolutely no sense. You're not a newbie, so I'm confused :doh:
Nothing makes sense to me either Dark.... completely baffled by this one and I'm usually quite good at puzzles
It's all just a bit....erm... well, wierd! "Will the real Tania please stand up?"
"Tonight Matthew I'm going to be...... shy? confident? in a relationship? pregnant? a mummy? a nymphomaniac? Gollum?"
Orgasminator
Quote by Jags
Don't start saying that newbies are not wanted cos it's just not true in any way.
:P
The word I used was 'interested'. I did not make reference to not being wanted. Thanks for referring me to Mal. I will make contact.
Orgasminator
Quote by Darkfire
edited, cos these posts & your post history make absolutely no sense. You're not a newbie, so I'm confused :doh:
I considered myself a newbie because I had had no swinging experience. I never said I was not sexually experienced or that I am not aware of medical issues, etc. Hope this clarifies things.
Quote by Tania
Good piece of advice dirtytwo. I think the word you were thinking of is 'psyche' - the soul.
Well I know a lot more about myself now than I did a week ago. That alone was worth facing the SH firing squad.
It would have been nice if one of the seasoned swingers here had taken me under wing as I had advertised for a long time ago but people are not interested in newbies and that is life. So of course I went out and made my own mistakes and learned from them.
What makes me laugh is I lost a guy who I was really attracted to because I didn't want to sleep with him on a first date lest he thought badly of me. (I am sure people can do a search and find out about that incident...)
I have been fired upon for wanting a relationship and again for seeking NSA sex. I can't win, whatever I do.
...wondering whether I have met niceandgentle and not remember it! :shock:
Haha saw the little writing there we have never met,if we had I'd have said so.
Orgasminator
Quote by niceandgentle
Haha saw the little writing there we have never met,if we had I'd have said so.
And that is supposed to ...put my mind at rest?
Now everyone will think you are in denial!
Quote by Tania
Don't start saying that newbies are not wanted cos it's just not true in any way.
:P
The word I used was 'interested'. I did not make reference to not being wanted. Thanks for referring me to Mal. I will make contact.
Yes, you did.. but not being 'interested' in newbies implies that they are not 'wanted'. Semantics I could discuss all day!! Pity it's boring.
I'm sure that Mal will sort you out a great mentor to help.
:P
Quote by Jags
Don't start saying that newbies are not wanted cos it's just not true in any way.
:P
The word I used was 'interested'. I did not make reference to not being wanted. Thanks for referring me to Mal. I will make contact.
Yes, you did.. but not being 'interested' in newbies implies that they are not 'wanted'. Semantics I could discuss all day!! Pity it's boring.
I'm sure that Mal will sort you out a great mentor to help.
:P
Thank god i don't Mentor anymore!
:whistling: 
Orgasminator
I'm confused.
What do you class as a seasoned swinger?
You have friends who you sleep with regularly - why is this NSA not classed as swinging in your eyes?
You have attended munches, associated I think with another life style, but they are still run on pretty much the same lines.
You give advice to people on ads and profiles.
You have a wealth of sexual experiences, far more than many people I know, myself included.
You are quite happy to turn people down if it feels wrong to you, so don't suffer from pressure issues.
You are happy to comment if a date hasn't behaved as you expect.
What exactly is it you're expecting from people on here?
Jas
XXX
What do you class as a seasoned swinger?
You have friends who you sleep with regularly - why is this NSA not classed as swinging in your eyes?
You have attended munches, associated I think with another life style, but they are still run on pretty much the same lines.
You give advice to people on ads and profiles.
You have a wealth of sexual experiences, far more than many people I know, myself included.
You are quite happy to turn people down if it feels wrong to you, so don't suffer from pressure issues.
You are happy to comment if a date hasn't behaved as you expect.
What exactly is it you're expecting from people on here?
Jas
XXX
Quote by Jas-Tim
I'm confused.
What do you class as a seasoned swinger?
You have friends who you sleep with regularly - why is this NSA not classed as swinging in your eyes?
You have attended munches, associated I think with another life style, but they are still run on pretty much the same lines.
You give advice to people on ads and profiles.
You have a wealth of sexual experiences, far more than many people I know, myself included.
You are quite happy to turn people down if it feels wrong to you, so don't suffer from pressure issues.
You are happy to comment if a date hasn't behaved as you expect.
What exactly is it you're expecting from people on here?
Jas
XXX
I``m with you on this one
Orgasminator
Quote by Jas-Tim
You have friends who you sleep with regularly - why is this NSA not classed as swinging in your eyes?
I always considered swinging to be an activity that couples do, something formal associated with going to clubs or private parties. I thought swinging was done within a group of friends, not on a one-night stand basis with total strangers. I don't think I have the hang of it yet. I think I am just dipping my toes in the water as opposed to swimming properly without armbands in the open sea. I am probably wrong about everything, let me think about things a bit more.
Quote by Tania
You have friends who you sleep with regularly - why is this NSA not classed as swinging in your eyes?
I always considered swinging to be an activity that couples do, something formal associated with going to clubs or private parties. I thought swinging was done within a group of friends, not on a one-night stand basis with total strangers. I don't think I have the hang of it yet. I think I am just dipping my toes in the water as opposed to swimming properly without armbands in the open sea. I am probably wrong about everything, let me think about things a bit more.
I am sure you will be able to look-up all the info you need to broaden your knowledge - you have always been very good at the google in the past.
Now, back to this one...
Awww - does your "regular lover" know he is not pushing the right buttons
You might feel I am being too nosey - but you brought the information to the forum, so I feel it is OK to ask.
Quote by PoloLady
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I guess my nymphomania has to do with the quest for satisfaction. Once given it, I calm down.
Quote by Tania
That is what I said! LOL Till it got sorted, it wasn't sorted so Ikept trying to get it sorted.
Awww - does your "regular lover" know he is not pushing the right buttons
You might feel I am being too nosey - but you brought the information to the forum, so I feel it is OK to ask.
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
Awww - does your "regular lover" know he is not pushing the right buttons
You might feel I am being too nosey - but you brought the information to the forum, so I feel it is OK to ask.
If he's a member on here, he does now. I'd be pretty pissed off if I was someone's regular lover and they said something like this. Is it the same one you're falling in love with, Tania?
Orgasminator
He is not a swinger and does not come in this site or any other site for that matter. He fulfills me in every way and is accepting of my fantasies. Happy now?
