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Thank you to everyone who has posted a reply and/or sent me a PM. I've really appreciated your insight/advice/comments.
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SH and its members are very refreshing in many ways; I wish I had found you earlier.
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Leave the site? No fooking way!
Now who's up for a virtual
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Thanks for caring,
36 x
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SH and its members are very refreshing in many ways; I wish I had found you earlier.
/ / :cheers: / :thumbup: * Leave the site? No fooking way!
Now who's up for a virtual
:twisted: Thanks for caring,
36 x
it sounds as if ur wife is not ready yet give her time. somebody else said to u that u will get a lot of entertainment and pleasure from the site alone this is true. we have found as unmarried couple of ten years that the whole thing has thrown up a lot of issues for us. its not all plain sailing but i recommend it. mayb/does ur wife explore her fantasies with u..... good luck 
Sex God
Quote by winchwench
Know where you are coming from, my wife hates sex, and its putting a strain on our relationship. Im the opposite, I love sex, you need physical attraction too. Im playing with fire. I did think of prostitutes but just cannot bring myself down to there level, swinging seems my best option.
m1970....I dont want to hijack, but can't not have my say on this one. To be so disparaging about prostitutes is unwarranted and unkind. Yes, there may be some "rough as arseholes" whiskey swilling drug addled street walkers out there, granted. However, the majority are clean, intelligent,articulate women who have chosen to make a living this way.
I once knew one lady who was middle class, highly educated and a very respected member of her community. She worked as an escort to enable her to keep horses as this was her passion. She, and every woman doing the same job, had my respect.
Open.....pls excuse hijack.
First of all Spot on winchwench :thumbup:
36 we feel for your position as do all those that have posted here, but the only way anybody can truly understand what the problems are, is by sitting down and talking to you both, and that ain't likely to happen........
Be careful about going out there and doing something unilaterally, it will be fairer all round if you and your wife can't work things out, that you call it a day and split.
Oh and regardless of what anyone may say, to swing without any emotional issues tomorrow, means to be at one with your partner today.
M
I feel Respect in a rlationship is more important than love to keep things fair,happy and content. We had fantastic,adventurous sex life,with a few swinging and dogging experiences thrown in, and loved each other like kept hurting each others feelings (usually when drinking).Even with talks and negotiating, nothing changed , so I thought how can we really respect each other. I believe without respect a relationship or friendship cant genuinly work so its better to move on. So did we really love eachother?She knows she did,Im sure I did, but couldnt imagine living rest of life with respect missing cos we would carry on pissing eachother off too often, then too much chance of stuck in a rut feeling.
Maybe not true for others , but it helped me move on, look forward,think positive, Then I found SH ! No way looking back now
Maybe not true for others , but it helped me move on, look forward,think positive, Then I found SH ! No way looking back now
please bear with me, this is leading somewhere ( I think)
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
Quote by peenut
please bear with me, this is leading somewhere ( I think)
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
Scarily enough, yes it does :shock:
There are plenty of people who use this site purely for social reasons ( and not because they have a cat's chance in hell of getting a shag
) so there's no reason why you can't stick around :thumbup: Quote by Sassy-Seren
please bear with me, this is leading somewhere ( I think)
Some years ago i had an interest in motorcycles, the biking life an all that. On my travels I met many types from the one percent to the wannabes. But everybody loved and supported the ideals of biking,. even if you didn't actually have one ! I don't ride anymore but still have support for those that do.
Now what I think is even though one cannot swing for some reason, then one could still be a supporter of the lifestyle so why not stick around and enjoy the scene ? After all I am not bi or gay but that does not mean that i should not enjoy chat or associate with those people ? ! Its all part of the fun of the site I think? I have no ties as such but if I did and that person was non scene then I would give up "looking for action" but would still remain on this site as a supporter! to those that are ! Does that make sense?
Scarily enough, yes it does :shock:
There are plenty of people who use this site purely for social reasons ( and not because they have a cat's chance in hell of getting a shag
) so there's no reason why you can't stick around :thumbup: What does that mean 
: Are we on about tobaco now :lol2:Phredd
Quote by splendid33
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:hump: :hump: :hump: :hump: :hump: :hump: :hump:
:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: I'll bring the virtual marrow too :twisted:
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Thanks to everyone who has replied since my last 'thanks' post. I read every one and have found all useful. Thanks.
