Ok is this interesting enough!? - Pregnancy and swinging!

28 Dec 2004

Quote by northwest-cpl
Children can be awfully cruel on racial matters, and oftentimes are, on playgrounds, in parks, etc.
If you don't care about your kids, that is your business....I do care about mine, and want them happy.

Actually, children show very little racial awareness until it is demonstrated to them by adults. Adults on the other hand can be racialist takes one to know one....

28 Dec 2004

Thanks for the demonstration Dr. T

28 Dec 2004

Dr.T............you're the width of a gnats pubic hair from being banned from this site. I suggest you change your attitude or express yourself a little more clearly before the trapdoor opens.

Quote by Scandal
Your sig is still racist.

If we banned everyone who expressed a preference to meet black or white people only then we'd have to ban half the photo-ad section. There's a right way and a wrong way of doing it though.
Dr.T..........I also suggest that you reword your signature.
Steve

28 Dec 2004

Yeah cause we all know that when it opens you aint gonna be getting back out :twisted: .
Does anyone remember a cartoon that was on usually in the morning called trapdoor?

28 Dec 2004

While we are on the subject, should I have aborted my child who is disabled? She might get picked on by kids as well! How about if we aborted the bigots who make peoples lives a misery to save the world from their ignorance evil

28 Dec 2004

Quote by lil_miz_naughty_0204
Yeah cause we all know that when it opens you aint gonna be getting back out :twisted: .
Does anyone remember a cartoon that was on usually in the morning called trapdoor?

I do

Little blue plasticine guy called Berk :D I bought my brother the t-shirt for christmas :D

29 Dec 2004

I can believe the comments you made there Dr T,fine if you dont give a damn impregnating a woman you shag via swinging but perhpas you should clarify that first.
Its not just the pregnancy issue though,dont you think you should use protection against diseases perhaps???Or do you not give a shit as long as your getting a shag from someone who is white???
Your offensive and perhaps should keep your mouth shut where you could cause offence to others.

Quote by northwest-cpl
Children can be awfully cruel on racial matters, and oftentimes are, on playgrounds, in parks, etc.
If you don't care about your kids, that is your business....I do care about mine, and want them happy.

Actually, children show very little racial awareness until it is demonstrated to them by adults. Adults on the other hand can be racialist bigots.
Well said northwest had a similar discussion with my got my youngest a black baby annabell simply for the fact that it look different from the one my eldest has and they cant argue over who's is who' mother kept asking why and making comments,though refuses to accept that she is racist!!!!
Funnily enough neither of the kids have even noticed that one has a different colour skin to the other,we must be doing something right somewhere biggrin

29 Dec 2004

Quote by MQ
While we are on the subject, should I have aborted my child who is disabled? She might get picked on by kids as well! How about if we aborted the bigots who make peoples lives a misery to save the world from their ignorance

Couldn't agree more with you, my son is disabled, he's totaly loved and accepted by everyone he meets even people who have possibly had a poor respect for disabled people, he managed to educate them biggrin

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I have to say this thread has been hijacked for the wrong reason's. Maybe we should get back on track and take no notice of this poor taste posting. If he wanted to discuss these issues then start his own thread?.
SO
As for getting pregnant while swinging, it would be a very difficult time for everyone and would have to be discussed at great lenghths with everyone involved. But I would imagine getting an std would be more of a problem, you wouldn't know youve got it and could pass it on further. I think you can't be too careful, and by putting on a condom is'nt saying I think your dirty, its saying I'm being responsible for both of us.

29 Dec 2004

Quote by Libra-Love
I have no problem(s) with my woman getting pregnant from a swinging scene, unless some African impregnated her. I would gladly raise the baby as my own. I do not use birth control or safe sex.

Jeezus....wish some people would think first
Agreed............ rolleyes

29 Dec 2004

Quote by Dr.T
My intention was not designed to be offensive on that comment.
Then think a bit more carefully before posting in future.

Quote by Dr.T
I was only looking out for the benefit of children that might be born, because other children have a habit of being offensive to mixed blooded ones. Children can be awfully cruel on racial matters, and oftentimes are, on playgrounds, in parks

Other kids can be cruel about being fat, being thin, red hair, no hair, spiky hair, big ears, spectacles, disabilities................ That's life, & all involved have to learn to deal with that sort of thing. Skin colour is only one way of being different.
As others have said, children tend to pick up racism from their parents, & until then they are quite happy to be with black, asian, mixed race kids etc.
EDIT: Just remembered the excellent reason for this thread :doh: I always take precautions for STD reasons (& plan to start getting checkups in the New Year), & also of course to avoid unwanted pregnancies. So, what to do when a woman falls pregnant to a swinging partner? This inevitably depends on the individual circumstances, & whether or not the father can be identified. Too many possible scenarios to mention... dunno

29 Dec 2004

Would you expect most women to tell the man (swinger) in such a situtation? I would really want to be told if it was me. I would hate to know there is a child that is mine that i was never told about.

29 Dec 2004

Quote by theacdcat
I would hate to know there is a child that is mine that i was never told about.

If you weren't told then you won't know. Problem solved. lol

:lol: :lol:

29 Dec 2004

29 Dec 2004

Quote by northwest-cpl
I would hate to know there is a child that is mine that i was never told about.

If you weren't told then you won't know. Problem solved. lol

:lol: :lol: Shame on you northwest-cpl,,you know what he meant,

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30 Dec 2004

Quote by hornyred and dino
Shame on you northwest-cpl,,you know what he meant, :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

You're right, I did....but the temptation was just too much...sometimes the submit button has a will of its own...mea culpa. redface

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