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OK, so you arrange a meeting for a social drink....

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Let's say you arrange a meet in a pub for a dozen or so members and friends etc and the meet is in a pub. :cheers: :cheers:
You get there and the place is crowded. drinkies
How do you recognise each other? dunno
You can't very well just shout out "Any swingers in here?"
I suppose you could all wear pink carnations and carry a copy of the Times under your left armpit, lol
I have only been to one small meeting and I didn't recognise anyone and the place was virtually empty. Mind you, NOBODY had any problem recognising me, :taz: :taz:
Steve
TnH told us all to look out for the guy with a grey cuddly elephant of the table.....a grey cuddly elephant which he managed to block out with his 6ft + well built bulk! I believe one at least one attendee managed to sit within 10ft of us all night and totally missed that we were the guys she was looking for! rotflmao
Venusxxx
You need to take Reese or Fabio with you. Everyone recognises them.
Put your names down on the pool players list blackboard as you go in. ;)
Big stickers on your heads - that should work! smile
If they don't have a pool table then sign up for the Karoake and you recognise each other by the songs you each sing.
You'll recognise me because I'll be singing Tie Me Kangeroo Down Sport! lol lol
Quote by Hokum
Put your names down on the pool players list blackboard as you go in. ;)

Oh, I like that one.
If nobody else shows up, at least you'll get a game, lol
Sounds like a case for the

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No problem for the Nottingham Social Drink
I have made a huge sign that says:
"Swinging Heaven Notts Social Drink Members On This Table Only" :shock: :shock:
Only joking.....................perhaps the Fluffy Elephant is not a bad idea though. Now where to find an elephant that I can stick fluff on mmmmmmmmmmmmm
Dave_Notts
Quote by freckledbird
Ask DB if you can borrow his lol

yes but I'm sure he doesn't want fluff sticking on it :shock:
Quote by Sarah1448
yes but I'm sure he doesn't want fluff sticking on it :shock:

And Fluff (whoever she is,) may not be too keen either. biggrin
Sarah, aren't you a fluffer? Can't you fluff his elephant lol
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Sarah, aren't you a fluffer? Can't you fluff his elephant lol

Now Now Bev, I only do fluffing at parties...................
We have just solved this very problem!!!
We have arranged to meet a few couples in a pub in NE. But we don't know what each other look like.
So we checked out the (very large and busy) pub first, and saw it had a glass collection hatch, then we saw it sold some unusual drinks. So the deal is, "go to pub XX stand near glass collection point and have a bottle of YY drink in your hand".
Should work!!
John & Shel
Yuk that YY drink stuff is shite...is there an alternative if you don't like YY? lol
Quote by freckledbird
Yuk that YY drink stuff is shite...is there an alternative if you don't like YY? lol

Castlemaine XXXX ?? lol
Well, we couldn't name the real drink could we? Cos everytime you saw a couple with a bottle of Brown Ale (for instance) in their hand you would go up to them and start talking about swinging!!
John & Shel
Quote by freckledbird
Ask DB if you can borrow his lol

Oiiiii ! ! ! !
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yes but I'm sure he doesn't want fluff sticking on it :shock:

Oh - I don't know :lol:
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And Fluff (whoever she is,) may not be too keen either. biggrin

I'm sure she would wink
From my own experience, some peeps can be vague about their dress or appearance, some want to meet outside the venue, some want to have or do something unusual to be recognised. I found this often ended in missing the rendezvous.
I found the easiest thing is to leave your name with the barman, waiter, maitre de, host etc. They will then let you know who your partner is. It offers a human touch.
I once missed an affair with a woman, but managed to phone the pub and they told her I could not come. So it is an example of how helpful strangers can be when making rendezvous with other peeps.
Judy, Are there many purely social meets in our area?