Is it not about time that SH admin started to delete old profiles that have not been used for 90 days, they clearly have no intention of using the site properly and probably only registered 1 evening when they were bored. Or maybe they thought it guaranteed sex in 30 mins. They are a waste of time. You see a profile that contains no picture, no details and the user has not logged in for 90 days. Its clearly a timewaster. Delete them!
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It's entirely up to the individual how they use the site and how often. If they don't wish to complete their profile, who are we to insist they do? If they decide to only log on a couple of times a year, who are we to inist they log on more often? You yourself didn't log on for a couple or months at one time - as with everything, real life gets in the way of swinging sometimes!!
As a caveat, I do understand your frustrations if you come across a profile that you think might be worth checking out and find little or no info on it, but that's life. There are plenty of other people on the site who do fill in their profiles and these are the ones to concentrate your efforts on.
Hope that helps
Mal
As a caveat, I do understand your frustrations if you come across a profile that you think might be worth checking out and find little or no info on it, but that's life. There are plenty of other people on the site who do fill in their profiles and these are the ones to concentrate your efforts on.
Hope that helps
Mal
Yup that's the crux of it, we know that some people don,t make any effort with profiles, pictures, mails or even trying to get a meet, but that is thier perogative, we simply see that as not worth our time fretting over and move on to those that do choose to give the information we seek in order to decide if we want to meet or not.
Many think our profile is too much, that is thier opinion and we respect that, respect has to be the first rule of the swinging scene.
As to why they choose thier way, I have to admit that it is puzzling, personally we believe that the more information on your profile the more chance of finding compatible partners, the less chance of wasting peoples time and the more fun the site is, a picture paints a thousand words but yes up to date pictures are important to us, we would hate to mislead anyone with 10 year old pictures.
That said we know people who do use pictures that are 10 years old but in all fairness the pictures are still a fair reflection of how they are now, perhaps a few more frown lines, sometimes they look better today than they did now, so we don't care too much if photos are old providing they are that true reflection of how the people look.
We see our profile as our shop window, if people like what they see and read in it they can quickly decide to move on to the next window or come inside to find out more, we try to instill a little of our personalities into it whilst making it clear what we are looking for and what we have to offer.
Many think our profile is too much, that is thier opinion and we respect that, respect has to be the first rule of the swinging scene.
As to why they choose thier way, I have to admit that it is puzzling, personally we believe that the more information on your profile the more chance of finding compatible partners, the less chance of wasting peoples time and the more fun the site is, a picture paints a thousand words but yes up to date pictures are important to us, we would hate to mislead anyone with 10 year old pictures.
That said we know people who do use pictures that are 10 years old but in all fairness the pictures are still a fair reflection of how they are now, perhaps a few more frown lines, sometimes they look better today than they did now, so we don't care too much if photos are old providing they are that true reflection of how the people look.
We see our profile as our shop window, if people like what they see and read in it they can quickly decide to move on to the next window or come inside to find out more, we try to instill a little of our personalities into it whilst making it clear what we are looking for and what we have to offer.
I have a blank profile.
That way I don't appear in random search results from people who I don't know. It used to have some details in it, and I received frequent 'chancer' messages from people who have abosolutely nothing in common with me. They stopped when I cleared my profile.
Perfect !!
On the plus side, I'm in chat pretty much every day. I've made the occasional post on the forums, and have been to countless socials, munches and club meets all over the country. So there are actually other ways of getting to know people.
That way I don't appear in random search results from people who I don't know. It used to have some details in it, and I received frequent 'chancer' messages from people who have abosolutely nothing in common with me. They stopped when I cleared my profile.
Perfect !!
On the plus side, I'm in chat pretty much every day. I've made the occasional post on the forums, and have been to countless socials, munches and club meets all over the country. So there are actually other ways of getting to know people.
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I have a blank profile.
That way I don't appear in random search results from people who I don't know. It used to have some details in it, and I received frequent 'chancer' messages from people who have abosolutely nothing in common with me. They stopped when I cleared my profile.
Perfect !!
On the plus side, I'm in chat pretty much every day. I've made the occasional post on the forums, and have been to countless socials, munches and club meets all over the country. So there are actually other ways of getting to know people.
There ya go, each to thier own, it works for you and it is what you feel comfortable with, so why do a profile in a way your not comfortable with, personally we would never respond to anyone with a profile like yours but quite rightly that doesn't bother you and you find the people you want who do like your style, there is something for everyone here
