It's not healthy for me to rant and I know this is a subject done to death but I so need to let rip about single male pm's. I've come to the conclusion that there are two types of single males, those worth their weight in gold, wonderful to chat to, polite, well mannered and charming.
There's then the single male, who is bored! Quite frankly I am sick to death of this kind. If you're bloody bored then go and get a hobby, get a personality, get a life just get off this site!!!. I make no bones that single males aren't our thing (I say our as it bloody well says in my signature that I'm part of a couple), it says in our www page that we're not looking for single males, although if you are above the ordinary then get in touch and we may consider.
So why oh why do idiot single males pm me with absolutely no information about themselves (unless it's to moan about their ex girlfriend), asking for further pics or to chat on msn? The last one couldn't even be bothered to put anything about himself just went ... "I'm xx male blah blah blah"
What the ????? Why do you think that might make me want to jump to life and chat with you to the ends of arranging a meet? I'm not intolerant generally, I chat to loads of people via this site or msn, I might not meet single males but some of my most cherished friends on msn are single males.
I did a quick reckoning and out of about 20 pm's from single males I guess only 3 had actually read my profile or got to know me pretty well through my posts! What makes them think that even though I'm advertised as part of a couple, that I'm going to turn round to my hubby and say sorry I'm going with a single male, with no obvious outstanding qualities, no obvious personality, who has been on the site for a whole day, put no effort into getting known or even into his pm?
It's just not going to happen!
There are some sonderful single males on this site and they most definitely have a place with in the community, I feel so sorry for them having to carve their niche amongst the wankers who are around.
C x