older guys (love em or hate em)

16 Jan 2005

Quote by KcKat

I got told off for resting my hand on the gear stick when driving, for leaving the ignition on when stopped and criticised for my choice of route to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FFS!

Tell the old fart that modern front wheel drive cars don't suffer like the old ones did with selector fork problems if you rest your hand on the gear lever, and you won't burn out the coil if you leave the ignition on. (Might not be true, but it'll give him something to think about)
And as far as I know, he can't even open his windows at night without turning the ignition on ! ! ! Mercs ?? Pffftt ! !

16 Jan 2005

Quote by dambuster

I got told off for resting my hand on the gear stick when driving, for leaving the ignition on when stopped and criticised for my choice of route to work!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! FFS!

Tell the old fart that modern front wheel drive cars don't suffer like the old ones did with selector fork problems if you rest your hand on the gear lever, and you won't burn out the coil if you leave the ignition on. (Might not be true, but it'll give him something to think about)
And as far as I know, he can't even open his windows at night without turning the ignition on ! ! ! Mercs ?? Pffftt ! !

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
never in the blummin country when u need to tell him summat! FFS!!!! hehe
Couldn't remember exactly why i was told off for doing those things - but you've hit it right on the head!!!!!!!!! LOL

16 Jan 2005

I personally prefer me older than I am, I am 33 and will consider men as old as 43 but as far as younger men go, I can only go as young as 30. I am just not attracted to younger guys...
I cannot explain the reasons why but I am sure I have some...

16 Jan 2005

Quote by KcKat
Couldn't remember exactly why i was told off for doing those things - but you've hit it right on the head!!!!!!!!! LOL

Possibly cos I'm an old fart too???
Oh dear - has he gone back to work?? How sad. I'm not ! ! ! ! ! !! (working that is)

16 Jan 2005

Quote by dambuster

Couldn't remember exactly why i was told off for doing those things - but you've hit it right on the head!!!!!!!!! LOL

Possibly cos I'm an old fart too???
Oh dear - has he gone back to work?? How sad. I'm not ! ! ! ! ! !! (working that is)
Beat me to the punch line hunni ;)

16 Jan 2005

Quote by Serenity
I personally prefer me older than I am, I am 33 and will consider men as old as 43 . . . . . . . ...

That's me out of it again then.
(unless we can do it without the VAT???)

16 Jan 2005

Quote by dambuster
I personally prefer me older than I am, I am 33 and will consider men as old as 43 . . . . . . . ...

That's me out of it again then.
(unless we can do it without the VAT???)
:twisted: :twisted:
Sounds a bit dodgy to me ;)
Runs to avoid a slap!!

16 Jan 2005

Oi! :bounce: :bounce:
YES I'm fuckin' back at work and YES I'm a fuckin' "old fart" and I'm outta the fucking country once more but you know what?
This is an interesting thread!! lol

:lol: :lol: :lol:
I'm following it with great interest " 'cos the proof is in the pudding" and I'm happy :lol2:
wink

:wink: to my friends.
biggrin

:D
:twisted:

16 Jan 2005

Quote by KcKat
Runs to avoid a slap!!

That's not like you Sweetie wink

16 Jan 2005

Quote by KcKat
I personally prefer me older than I am, I am 33 and will consider men as old as 43 . . . . . . . ...

That's me out of it again then.
(unless we can do it without the VAT???)
:twisted: :twisted:
Sounds a bit dodgy to me ;)
Runs to avoid a slap!!
Nah, food is VAT free, so you can have a protein injection cool

16 Jan 2005

Quote by dambuster

Runs to avoid a slap!!

That's not like you Sweetie wink

:twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Didn't say i was running fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hehe

16 Jan 2005

iam new the site and the first post i see is older guys iam in my forties and could learn you young ones.

16 Jan 2005

Quote by lesvictor
iam new the site and the first post i see is older guys iam in my forties and could learn you young ones.

Hi lesvictor, and welcome to the asylum.
Is that learn from; or teach to?

16 Jan 2005

Very good DB, full marks for spotting that one lol

16 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
Very good DB, full marks for spotting that one

Do I get a star, Miss??
Do I? - Do I?
Please

16 Jan 2005

Awwwww alll out of stars babe, what about a BJ instead?
Bev
xx

16 Jan 2005

Quote by freckledbird
Awwwww alll out of stars babe, what about a BJ instead?
Bev
xx

What - ??? Not even a little "brown star"
Aaaaawwwwwwwwwwwwww - alright then. Go on - if you must.

17 Jan 2005

Quote by racer3
I have often wondered what makes some ladies go for an older guy. I can see an arguement for younger but what do you ladies see in the older bloke that attracts how much older is acceptable on an average.
(of course i do not have a vested interest in this enquiry)
(not much I havn't)

well my 'girl' is 42 and im 31 so obviously she now looking for younger guys
but when she was younger she looked for experience and maturity just one ploblem with that ~the older guys got even older too then you dont want them any more and you go the other way
me i go for a soul match first in a long term relationship anything else is a bonus
and all different types and ages for fun cool

19 Jan 2005

Forgive me for saying "age not that old chestnut"
I've never quite worked out what age has to to with anything.I've met guys that are younger than me and guys that are older than me but their age never had any bearing
on why I met we meet people because we are attracted to them in some
way, wether it be physical or you just "click" through conversation.
Maybe i'm just lucky in that all the guys i've met younger and older have all been great,
and isnt that one of the reasons why we "swing" variety? and they do say that "variety is the spice of life"
Anyway as my "other half" is older than me and a wonderful lover and friend,
"older guys (love em or hate em) " I for one love em
candyfloss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

19 Jan 2005

Spose i'll have to add a comment as one of the oldest guys in here......
I've only been to 2 munches and everybody was very nice..
I have noticed a bit of ageism as HB reports but thats only to be expected and rarely happens in the chatroom.....
I shall continue to be the mature gentleman i am and hope to continue having a laugh in the chatroom.

19 Jan 2005

Quote by Cicero
I'd like to think that the older a fella gets and gains more experience of life and not just sex, he becomes a more thoughtful person.
But speaking generally an older guy might want to put his partner's pleasure first before his own. Her enjoyment is paramount. He gets turned on by HER ecstacy and its not because he sees himself as a kind of stud but rather that he is sharing something intimate and so enjoyable with her.
I think also that older fellas would be more interested in the whole person (female or male) and and not just their body. If I find someone's personality attractive, I'll automatically find them sexually attractive. And any sexual contact that takes place will be that more enjoyable and richer.
Speaking as an older bloke (51) I'm in no hurry to jump into bed with someone. Quality rather than quantity has never been truer.
As for slowing down as you get older, yes of course it happens. Some older blokes would hate to admit it but its a fact of life. A definate advantage of slowing down is that sex seems to last longer and thats good news!
Older blokes are very much at ease with themselves.
Sex is much more fun now. It seems to last longer, has more laughter, and a lot of tenderness and warm smiles.
Love Cicero

Perfectly put Cicero - i totally agree! Im 55 (so im probably considere an antique by now).

19 Jan 2005

Personally I have recently pushed the limits of how much older a man could be for me, and on a couple of occasions it has paid dividends as they have been able to do things which younger men haven't achieved so I can vouch for the experience thing being true sometimes. However, I wouldn't feel comfortable with a man older than my Dad, and I have pushed it recently quite close confused

:shock:

19 Jan 2005

OK people - so what exactly is "an older man"? Someone older than yourself i guess.
Buti i read the ads and watch the threads and it would seem that anyone over 40 is way past it! - surely i cant be past it? - in fact i know im not!

19 Jan 2005

When I was 17, I started seeing this bloke who was 34. It lasted a few years, on and off. He'll be 51, now.

19 Jan 2005

Quote by gailen
OK people - so what exactly is "an older man"? Someone older than yourself i guess.
Buti i read the ads and watch the threads and it would seem that anyone over 40 is way past it! - surely i cant be past it? - in fact i know im not!

Surely that depends on your age. If you are 20 them a 30 year old is older but if you are 30 then a 40 year old is older.
My dad is 52 just in case anyone is interested lol!

19 Jan 2005

Quote by MQ
My dad is 52 just in case anyone is interested lol!

Woweeee , in with a chance then .... just !! smile

Seriously, its how old you feel that is a governimg factor. I drive a Honda Civic type R, very much a "Boy Racers" car. :P

19 Jan 2005

As you get older you get a lot BOLDER at least I did,and my shagging partner of 14 yrs standing,lying bending etc. is 17yrs my do I get so tired.
Handy

19 Jan 2005

I think the same applies to older women. I originally wanted to meet them because I always had the Mrs Robinson complex, thinking that "an older woman, eh? She'll show you the ways of the world!" But after experiencing one I don't think I could ever have purely sex with someone my age or younger. Women who are older than me have the experience but also the sexual confidence to push the envelope that bit further.
On the subject of younger men though, I found it a massive ego boost when, as a 22 year old, a 53 year old woman I had sex with sent me a jaw-dropping email the following day going into explicit detail about how I was the best lover she'd ever had. To all the women out there, don't dismiss the idea of the younger man totally (please?)

19 Jan 2005

Seriously, its how old you feel that is a governimg factor. I drive a Honda Civic type R, very much a "Boy Racers" car.

Sorry BE, don't want to piss on your parade but many women would just think that an older guy driving a boy racer car looks ridiculous (no matter how young it makes you feel) - don't think that it gives the impression of youth!
Mr. Writer, I wouldn't dismiss younger men at all, it comes down to attitude. It's already been said on this thread I think, that age really isn't always the deciding factor.
Bev
xx

19 Jan 2005

Ignore mr Writer :shock:
A man reaches his peak at .um..............how old am i...............Oh yes warwicks secret diary aged 40 and 3/4...........
sorry Mr Writer joke ok wink