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older guys (love em or hate em)

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Quote by lorrilove
mind you now i'm 45 i'm beginning to prefer the play partners younger... i'd never swap hubby for the world though.

There does seem to be a theme here from the ladies. Up to mid 40's the preference is for older males, after mid forties, THEY want to regain their youth lol
(just gettin my own back)
Strange,
Now that I am in my early 40s, I seem to be increasingly the toy boy in relationships!
Do women in their 40s + have the best of both worlds. A younger man who has allthe advantages of maturity????
Ok , iv'e done the survey and nearly all you lovely ladies are up for an older guy. The bit that i can't figure out is why my inbox is still empty. I must be doing somthing wrong. Oh well, back to the surveys,
Ps. although my name is racer and i come from essex i'm not a boy racer nor am i young innit Good response to the thread folks
Quote by racer3
Ok , iv'e done the survey and nearly all you lovely ladies are up for an older guy. The bit that i can't figure out is why my inbox is still empty. I must be doing somthing wrong. Oh well, back to the surveys,
Ps. although my name is racer and i come from essex i'm not a boy racer nor am i young innit Good response to the thread folks

confused Bit different from the 'ToyBoy' thread a while back? :?
I hate older guys - they are so much better in the sack than me evil I just can't figure out why I am not better than all the blokes younger than me! sad
*Kat wanders off muttering about life being unfair and never getting this faded and weather worn 'L' plate off his back.*
lhk
Kat
Quote by tall_dark_n_havesome
Strange,
Now that I am in my early 40s, I seem to be increasingly the toy boy in relationships!
Do women in their 40s + have the best of both worlds. A younger man who has allthe advantages of maturity????

of course we do honey, nice 30 something guys with loads of experience.
Older guys don't watch as much football.
Older guys don't go to the pub as much.
Older guys have learned a trick or two.
Older guys take all day to (insert favourite word)
BTW, I'm not old, I'm recycled. biggrin
Steve
Quote by Parrot
Older guys don't watch as much football.
Older guys don't go to the pub as much.
Older guys have learned a trick or two.
Older guys take all day to... CHOCOLATE???
BTW, I'm not old, I'm recycled. biggrin
Steve
Being one of the older 'members' of this site I have noticed a very slight decline in my bedding activities and I must admit that i was finding it a little difficult keeping up with the demands of my permanent girlfriend and the two occasional lady friends who seem to like nothing more than a weekly bonk or two.
I thought I was nearing the end of my active sex life until I had a chat with an older mate. He is a widower aged 82. He has two different ladies who he sees at least twice a week for bedtime activities. I have seen both of them and although they are in their 60's they both gave me a hard on just looking at them. lol. Both are stunners. Honestly.
If he can manage two ladies twice a week there is hope for me yet. Yeehaaaar.
O/K neither of us is as good as we once were, but we both have the experience to be as good 'once' as we ever were.
Having discussed our mutual pleasure in taking ladies to bed, we do have one thing in common, we both ensure the lady is satisfied before we satisfy ourselves, furthermore we both take our time, so there are no quickies, we take our time and don't burn ourselves out after 2 minutes.
Not every male or female is sexually active when they are over say 55 years of age, but to those of us who are, the experience gained over perhaps 40 + years does have distinct advantages.
This may not appeal to the younger members on this board, but I can assure them that sex gets much better with age and experience. At 61 I was considering I might only have a few active years left, but if my mate can manage it at 82, and several times a week, I still live in hope of a few more years of horizontal refreshments. It's a case of quality rather than quantity really, these days.
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish.
hump drinkies :borg:
Don't all PM me at once ladies, I have almost as much as I can handle at the moment. lol.
Quote by harry0
Being one of the older 'members' of this site I have noticed a very slight decline in my bedding activities and I must admit that i was finding it a little difficult keeping up with the demands of my permanent girlfriend and the two occasional lady friends who seem to like nothing more than a weekly bonk or two.
I thought I was nearing the end of my active sex life until I had a chat with an older mate. He is a widower aged 82. He has two different ladies who he sees at least twice a week for bedtime activities. I have seen both of them and although they are in their 60's they both gave me a hard on just looking at them. lol. Both are stunners. Honestly.
If he can manage two ladies twice a week there is hope for me yet. Yeehaaaar.
O/K neither of us is as good as we once were, but we both have the experience to be as good 'once' as we ever were.
Having discussed our mutual pleasure in taking ladies to bed, we do have one thing in common, we both ensure the lady is satisfied before we satisfy ourselves, furthermore we both take our time, so there are no quickies, we take our time and don't burn ourselves out after 2 minutes.
Not every male or female is sexually active when they are over say 55 years of age, but to those of us who are, the experience gained over perhaps 40 + years does have distinct advantages.
This may not appeal to the younger members on this board, but I can assure them that sex gets much better with age and experience. At 61 I was considering I might only have a few active years left, but if my mate can manage it at 82, and several times a week, I still live in hope of a few more years of horizontal refreshments. It's a case of quality rather than quantity really, these days.
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish.
hump drinkies :borg:
Don't all PM me at once ladies, I have almost as much as I can handle at the moment. lol.

harry i'm sure you're full of life yet... one of my regular menfriend's is 69 next month, and he still goes like a bloody 20 yr old some nights... except he last 3 times as long. :twisted: lol
Quote by lorrilove
Being one of the older 'members' of this site I have noticed a very slight decline in my bedding activities and I must admit that i was finding it a little difficult keeping up with the demands of my permanent girlfriend and the two occasional lady friends who seem to like nothing more than a weekly bonk or two.
I thought I was nearing the end of my active sex life until I had a chat with an older mate. He is a widower aged 82. He has two different ladies who he sees at least twice a week for bedtime activities. I have seen both of them and although they are in their 60's they both gave me a hard on just looking at them. lol. Both are stunners. Honestly.
If he can manage two ladies twice a week there is hope for me yet. Yeehaaaar.
O/K neither of us is as good as we once were, but we both have the experience to be as good 'once' as we ever were.
Having discussed our mutual pleasure in taking ladies to bed, we do have one thing in common, we both ensure the lady is satisfied before we satisfy ourselves, furthermore we both take our time, so there are no quickies, we take our time and don't burn ourselves out after 2 minutes.
Not every male or female is sexually active when they are over say 55 years of age, but to those of us who are, the experience gained over perhaps 40 + years does have distinct advantages.
This may not appeal to the younger members on this board, but I can assure them that sex gets much better with age and experience. At 61 I was considering I might only have a few active years left, but if my mate can manage it at 82, and several times a week, I still live in hope of a few more years of horizontal refreshments. It's a case of quality rather than quantity really, these days.
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish.
hump drinkies :borg:
Don't all PM me at once ladies, I have almost as much as I can handle at the moment. lol.

harry i'm sure you're full of life yet... one of my regular menfriend's is 69 next month, and he still goes like a bloody 20 yr old some nights... except he last 3 times as long. :twisted: lol
Thanks for that lorrilove, way to go. lol.
Harry0
Casenova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish.
:hump: :drinkies: :borg:
Although age isn't something I consider that much.
I have had a younger man :giggle: redface but not one that is older than me so maybe its something I should think about dunno
Dawn :silly:
Yeah yeah yeah :twisted:
pick me please please please :twisted:
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Although age isn't something I consider that much.
I have had a younger man :giggle: redface but not one that is older than me so maybe its something I should think about dunno
Dawn :silly:

Dawn darling,
The next time we meet, I may surprise you. lol
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish
hump drinkies :borg:
Quote by warwick
Yeah yeah yeah :twisted:
pick me please please please :twisted:

Damn, if only I could type quicker.... move over I'm a coming thru :bounce:
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Quote by warwick
Yeah yeah yeah :twisted:
pick me please please please :twisted:

lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Your hardly older than me warwick, not by very much.
Besides, I was willing and able to help you by taking your pictures the other day but you couldn't make it sad
:lol:
Dawn :silly:
Quote by harry0
Dawn darling,
The next time we meet, I may surprise you. lol
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk and Dogger of this Parish
hump drinkies :borg:

kiss Harry0 :kiss:
What have I started rolleyes
Dawn :silly:
Its this bloody job.. keeps getting in the way :cry:
Still a warming thought lol
Quote by BaldEagle
Damn, if only I could type quicker.... move over I'm a cuming thru :bounce:
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Already :shock: Bloody hell, your quick :giggle:
Dawn :silly:
Bloody hell, your quick

Dawn, I don't think Warwick would appreciate you saying that hun lol
Bev
xx
Just adding my bit...Im 57 year old single male...and yes i agree with whats been said i find that being this age i have matured and now think twice before putting my mouth into gear. Reguards to sex i have not lost any of my drive and still enjoy it to the full. I love to take my time now and make sure my partner enjoys it as well instead of the old days when i only conciserd myself. Yes i love my age now
Little poem for you
When i was young and in my prime i use`t to fuck em ten at a time
now im old and gray i only get it once a day
Hmmm once a day i wish sad more like once a year
Quote by racer3
I have often wondered what makes some ladies go for an older guy. I can see an arguement for younger but what do you ladies see in the older bloke that attracts how much older is acceptable on an average.
(of course i do not have a vested interest in this enquiry) lol
(not much I havn't)

Well Daz is 35 and i'm 19 which is a gap of 16 years. In actual fact, i didnt decide to go for an older guy, but Daz wouldnt leave me alone till i got with him, lol!! At the time it was a problem, as i was only 17, but he was more bothered than me TBH! As for what i saw in him..... well it was his sexy bum that first got me interested, rolleyes but the attraction of an older man is huge, theyre more mature, have a better knowledge of things, and Daz had his own place, his own car, and a steady job - so i was never going to end up stranded on a Saturday night in the middle of town with some pathetic little idiot who'd spent his last few quid on a pool table!!! And we've been together for 2 years in April so it cant be all that bad, lol!
biggrin younger women should love older guys as much as older guys love them wink
Interesting perspectives, should we be talking about older/ younger, because it all depends on your own age. Perhaps the discussion is more the difference between men in their teens, 20's 30's, 40's etc. Indeed ,is it significant that as a man in my 40's I got bored in the last sentence and confined the 50+'s to an etc?
I didn't consider my self an "older man" in my thirties, I felt I had reached that peak of athleticism and sexuality. In your 40's and beyond, you are like the aging footballer, you conserve your energies for when you need it and watch all the young bucks tearing round to little effect before he steps forward to show real skill and experience of touch just when it is needed. Your body may stop improving after your early thirties, but your mind does not stop developing, and the most stimulating sexual organ is the mind.
Men of different ages are different, not better, not worse, and Vivre le Difference! And if you hav,nt tried it, I would recommend it...So pick me!!
I think this argument can be summed up by re telling the story of the old bull and the young bull who shared a large field.
One day the farmer introduced a small number of attractive young cows at the opposite end of this field. The young bull said, "lets run over and have one each". The old bull, looked at the young bull and said, "you can do that if you want, I'm just going to stroll over and have them all".
Harry0
Casanova, Drunk, Dogger and Old Bull of this Parish.
hump drinkies :borg: :thumbup:
I know a few older people who are bikers and they are cool hornybear. It's when people try to be something they are not they end up looking silly, sort of like Peter Stringfellow lol
I am an older huy. You can love me or hate me and/or both if you want.
I, for one am happy being middle aged when i look back to when i was a younger man on all the angst,and bluffing to my mates about lengendery conquests i was making/faking .
Now, i am confident in myself in all departments,and my sex life has never been busier with lots of variety.I can only to put it down to caring what my partners needs are,and not rushing ties in with what the ladies have said in this thread so take heed you young guys,(or even not so young guys) and your sex life will improve each,and every partner with respect.
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