Sorry to hear Jess but as you know the world is full of annoying little jerks, but you will find nothing but support and understanding from within this community.
Hold your head up and say who cares you have an understanding of life they will never know and how sad are they
Q. Why where they on S/H are they a little bit hypercritical be sure to mention this when questioned turn it around a little
Jess
If It's any consolation - I've had something similar happen to me at work. Someone managed to find my ad, and decided it would be great fun to lead me a merry dance - sending all manner of timewasting emails, text messages etc. As others have mentioned - It's mostly immaturity on their part, and the fact that they have no real grasp on the concept of this site, that makes them behave like this.
I know it's easy to say - but try not to stress it too much - ignore things, and once people realise you aren't biting - they'll probably get bored and go off and try and annoy someone else.
Keep your chin up
kbuk
Wonder why this 'friend' was nosing around this sort of site anyway? Hope you can ride this out, swinging or casual relationships are a lifestyle choice, though the small minded twats will always take the oppertunity to poke fun at what they see as 'smut'. At least you are big enough to have decided what you want and gone for it, while they are sitting at home hiding their heads in the sand.
Just point out to them what a wonderful time you are having with all these adults, and what a shame you found there were not more grown ups in your uni... :twisted:
Oops slightly embarassing for you but if I'd heard that about someone from this guy, I'd definintely be wondering what he was looking for when he "found" your pic (amazing odds of discovering it by accident, on the entire internet! uh huh).......I'd just brazen it out in your position and point out that clearly I am having an exciting, varied and active social/sex life whilst he is skulking around the net reading about it, playing with himself and wishing he could use his PC to build a girlfriend (Weird Science, bad 80s film!) :twisted:
This basically comes down to immaturity and laddish bravado. He is probably wants to try and score cool points with his little group of inferior mates.
Fortunately, for you, this has been an introduction to the way the world is when grey society finds that you are someone who is in touch with not only her sexuality, but also her feminity.
This experience will hopefuly teach you how to protect yourself so that the way you choose life to be will not be compromised by people who are closed minded.
Sorry to sound authoritarian, but I feel that this is a time time for reflection on your part, and advice on my part.
Other than that, well done for being able to discuss this with people who understand. That m'lady is called maturity.
Cuddles to ya.
Bell x
You won't have a problem with this. Most students will consider you have crossed a line and be unable to relate to you. They will snigger for a while and then it will all be forgotten about.
What you might find difficult to deal with is the actual lack of feedback. You may wish for a more sensational response or something rewarding. It is unlikely to happen.
Hang loose, let it pass over, and avoid working yourself into a state about it, because no one else will.
hi Jess
just wanted to say sorry to hear this happened.
x
It is awful to think that people can be so narrow. I hate people being the butt of other people's jokes .. but this was just humiliating.
I won't put a recognisable photo on my ad for this very reason. I only send it out via email. There is then nothing to directly link it to the advert. I'm also very cautious of pic hunters.
I'm also saddened when I get replies from females who obviously want a bit of fun but are scared of being perceived as "slappers" or "tarts". This is obviously the dominant view they have received of such people. They even think that I, a male looking for some no strings fun, will view them in this way.
People just don't understand.
Awwwwwwww poor jess, i do feel sorry for you.
Your ad was loverly and added to the fact your a bloody loverly person.
Jess to be honest with you that is one of the reasons i do not post my ad on here because of immature twats.
loads of hugs and kisses
MikeC
Well I haven't had anyone see 'any' of my 'many' ads, but I guess it would be a bit harder to explain looking in the guys section or on a bi themed site.
nicked this image from another forum posting ..... but it seemed appropriate....
Jess don't let them stop you having your fun sweetie. They are the ignorant losers. Hold your head high, stick your lovely tits out and F*CK em - they are only jealous of your courage and ability to enjoy your life.
Sunbunny xxxx
ops: 
i know i should hold my head up high and not be embarrassed by who i am or what i do but its very hard when there's whispering and sniggering going on :oops: I will just have to remember that the advantages of being part of a site like SH (such as meeting people like you) far away the disadvantages of having to deal with small minded individuals who don't understand in the 'real world'.
) - finally get into bed with em, only to have them bounce around on top of you for 45 seconds before either the grand finale or deflation :roll: then an hour of them trying to convince you how much better they are at "it" normally.
), the groundwork is already done as to why people are there in the first place - the only thing that needs clarifying is whether people act upon it, some do, some don't no embarrassment, no worries, no classroom sniggering - just likeminded people having a great time - an occasionally a great fuck :twisted:
:wink:
