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One for the ladies - Fisting

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Hi, have just watched a very nice cam of a couple having sex and he giving her a prolonged fisting. Never tried it myself on my wife, only got as far as 3 or 4 fingers which she said was terriffic. Ladies, those of you that are able to accept a fist, is there more pleasure given than a good fingering of the clit and vaginal opening?
Could the feelings of being 'opened' up be reminiscent of childbirth maybe? Love to hear your thoughts and any guys who are able to do it to/with their partners.
Smooth1
Mrs Saralou loves 3/4 fingers as she puts it "loves being stretched" but as a have quite large hands would probably hurt trying anything more. It is not something we do all the time but she likes it now and again and also make her quirt loads when in the mood
i never imagined mrs star would even think about this until one night we saw it while watching a norty film.
she seemed to be getting rather excited so i asked the question, want to try it? as a few drinks had been consumed we gave it a go. it took a while until the whole fist was in but she was loving the trying part and loved even more the sucess part.
it is not something we try a lot just when the mood takes. but when we do she hits the roof and i must admit seeing her stretched like that is a huge turn on.
anal fisting would be something that i do not think i would want to try though.
One for the ladies - Fisting
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I as a male have done it once to one lady. She was obviously very used to it and gushed in about 10-15 seconds of complete fisting. At the same meet the partner of said lady tried fisting Mrs Tweeky for some time with no success and Mrs Tweeky spent a few weeks walking funny and feeling rather bruised. Not something she wishs to retry so I would say its for some ladies and not others just like most things really smile
It's something I'd love to experience, I think although ouchies to the Mrs Tweeky story! :shock: Not sure I like the sound of that!
I can't say I've been proper fisted, just up to the knuckles. It was uncomfortable in a nice hurt kind of way (if that makes sense). Yes, it was nice but not something that I would like to do on a regular basis, as tweeky said, it does leave you feeling a little bruised and battered for a few days afterwards. There is a definite technique though, and you have to take it slowly. A girl tried to do it to me at a party once and it was very painful! (if I wasn't so polite, I'd have lamped her lol )
Oh and to the OP, it is nothing like childbirth which feels more like you are having the biggest shit you've ever had and it is about to tear you in half!
Too much info?? dunno
bolt
I knew a young lady who used to enjoy me fisting her. Patience and a lot of lube helps - and making sure you take your watch off because I was 'in' up to my wrist!! :eeek:
However fisting can be painful. I was holding the hand of a lady whilst she was being fisted by another lady. When she came she squeezed my hand so hard it bloody hurt!!! :grin:
Mal
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At the same meet the partner of said lady tried fisting Mrs Tweeky for some time with no success and Mrs Tweeky spent a few weeks walking funny and feeling rather bruised.

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A girl tried to do it to me at a party once and it was very painful! (if I wasn't so polite, I'd have lamped her lol )

I don't quite understand how people are so keen to try this sort of thing so casually on women that are not used to it?! :shock: Like already mentioned - it needs so much patience, time, lube, care even, when you are starting out. A bit like anal sex - do it in a rush and you're bound to put a woman off it for ever.
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I knew a young lady who used to enjoy me fisting her. Patience and a lot of lube helps - and making sure you take your watch off because I was 'in' up to my wrist!! :eeek:

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Ya see, it's the little things that make all the difference isn't it? Patience and lots of lube: good; not removing sharp bits of steel cos you'd not foreseen getting quite that far: bad.
Top tip in the same vein: take yer fingernails right off. Otherwise expect a punch in the head.
It's about one of the horniest things I've done, but there's a tendency to get carried away with the horniness of it and go faster, playing with the kind of BDSM pleasure / pain thing limits. Found that's not a good idea. ;)
N x x x ;)
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Hi, have just watched a very nice cam of a couple having sex and he giving her a prolonged fisting. Never tried it myself on my wife, only got as far as 3 or 4 fingers which she said was terriffic. Ladies, those of you that are able to accept a fist, is there more pleasure given than a good fingering of the clit and vaginal opening?
Could the feelings of being 'opened' up be reminiscent of childbirth maybe? Love to hear your thoughts and any guys who are able to do it to/with their partners.
Smooth1

Well i've been fisted several times and have to say it is an amazing feeling. Makes me gush so much. Think it's the feeling of being totally full!!!
I got hands like shovels and close friends call minx "sooty".
In response to your query, i am female and i love to fist women whenever i can, there is a technique to it, which i'm not going to tell you wink
I can also fist men, but generally take a lot more time, depending on the fistee lol
I also love to be fisted, usually by my partner cos he knows the secret, but unfortunately he has hands like shovels, so he can't use the whole hand, several others have tried with varying success, but once really successfully by both male and female.
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I got hands like shovels and close friends call minx "sooty".

Some jobs are simply meant to be outsourced!
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I got hands like shovels and close friends call minx "sooty".

Some jobs are simply meant to be outsourced!
I have really slim hands which adapt well for fisting...only knew 2 girls who were into it, and it was when they were in the mood and led me to it.
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I got hands like shovels and close friends call minx "sooty".

Some jobs are simply meant to be outsourced!
I have really slim hands which adapt well for fisting...only knew 2 girls who were into it, and it was when they were in the mood and led me to it.
Volunteers should form an orderly queue to the left.
Quote by Ben_Minx
I got hands like shovels and close friends call minx "sooty".

Some jobs are simply meant to be outsourced!
I have really slim hands which adapt well for fisting...only knew 2 girls who were into it, and it was when they were in the mood and led me to it.
Volunteers should form an orderly queue to the left.
<<<< stands to the right, just to be awkward! lol
Ahhh avoiding getting killed in the rush eh, very wise.
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Ahhh avoiding getting killed in the rush eh, very wise.

Sometimes ya just have to acknowledge a tart when one appears....but no worries, we can use her later.
Hmmm, it's not anything that I can honestly say that appeals to me or something I can imagine being fun, but then I've not tried it.... (evil thoughts).
I do like DP though so I understand the rush you can get from feeling a little uncomfortable and also full, though I'd definitely start with a chick doing it to me first.
Amber x