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Quote by flower411
I generally think that I put myself across online in possibly my most extreme persona....
Annoying, argumentative, smartarse, pedantic ...etc etc ....

I agree with that :giggle:
I'm pretty much like I am in real life, I don't say a lot but listen to everything, or in this case read everything.
As a consequence it takes a long time to get to know me.
I think I am mostly me, perhaps I try to be a bit less geeky and odd on here.
Its an odd one. What you see here pretty much is me in my opinions and the fact I pretty much think I am always right. I can be quite argumentative here to at times though Ive mellowed a bit over the years. However were you to meet me you probably dont see this side of me at all due to the social situation we are probably meeting in. You will probably see me as quite laid back trying to have a laugh and a generally nice kind of chap biggrin You would probably only encounter this forum side of me if you were to say meet me in a working environment.
I'm probably similar to how I am in real life... as I have become more argumentative and sure of myself in person, I have also gone that way on forums. I do get paranoid more online that people will misinterpret what I am trying to say though.
Quote by flower411
I generally think that I put myself across online in possibly my most extreme persona....
Annoying, argumentative, smartarse, pedantic ...etc etc .... cos when people meet me they`ll be surprised at what a nice person I am in real life ! lol
Do you try to show yourself in the best light possible or are you happy to show yourself "warts and all"

I agree with all of the above you forgot old git too.
But all the above never showed when you worn your pink hat on cam, we had a good laughs in those times wink
I am not that good an actor to be anything but myself, although I have different sides to my personality in the chatrooms my laid back, have fun and a laugh side come out generally in the forums my more thoughtful side seems to come out more.
Maybe in the chatrooms people can see my face and see my reactions where in here maybe I am more cautious as to not offend and that isnt anywhere in my personality to offend people.
But I let people decide who I am.
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Maybe in the chatrooms people can see my face .........

See your face while doing ya pelvic floor exercises!?!?! :giggle:
As for me, I'm pretty much just me wherever I am, although I tend to behave much better when I'm at work!!
Quote by Funlovers2009
Maybe in the chatrooms people can see my face .........

See your face while doing ya pelvic floor exercises!?!?! :giggle:
As for me, I'm pretty much just me wherever I am, although I tend to behave much better when I'm at work!!
:shock::shock: errmm you were on cam doing them too you aint getting off that easily rotflmao:rotflmao:
That was so funny we will have to do it again, just dont make me laugh next time lol
Quote by Theladyisaminx
Maybe in the chatrooms people can see my face .........

See your face while doing ya pelvic floor exercises!?!?! :giggle:
As for me, I'm pretty much just me wherever I am, although I tend to behave much better when I'm at work!!
:shock::shock: errmm you were on cam doing them too you aint getting off that easily rotflmao:rotflmao:
That was so funny we will have to do it again, just dont make me laugh next time lol
It was the way your eyebrows moved up and down as you were doing them, I couldnt help but laugh!! For women, we didnt multi-task very well!! :lol:
I've not got a clue whether i come across as the same in real life as I do in cyberspace. I guess it would only be the people, I've met often enough through both mediums, to feel comfortable with could have an opinion.
Quote by flower411
I generally think that I put myself across online in possibly my most extreme persona....
Annoying, argumentative, smartarse, pedantic ...etc etc .... cos when people meet me they`ll be surprised at what a nice person I am in real life ! lol
Do you try to show yourself in the best light possible or are you happy to show yourself "warts and all"

Not sure how I come across on the forums as no one has told me yet....... Not sure how I would differ in real life, my views would not change one jot, however, I often do not debate matters with people in groups, as it is often more about who can shout the loudest! But here, that can not happen.
What I do find interesting is how one builds up a mental picture of people from what, how and where they post in the forums.
lol blue I haave met half a dozen folk socially who were expecting to meet a west indian bloke carrying a guitar.
Quote by Ben_welshminx
lol blue I haave met half a dozen folk socially who were expecting to meet a west indian bloke carrying a guitar.

Oh, don't you really have a guitar then......... :giggle::giggle:
lol
Quote by Ben_welshminx
lol blue I haave met half a dozen folk socially who were expecting to meet a west indian bloke carrying a guitar.

FFS you mean you're not!!
next you'll be telling us there's no Santa Claus.
Quote by Ben_welshminx
lol blue I haave met half a dozen folk socially who were expecting to meet a west indian bloke carrying a guitar.

And singing "Old Man River"

thats our local mob.
St Johns Llandudno in the summer for regular gigs.
A dullard here, a dullard in real life!
Nar Chief ur obviously bonkers as evidence by your half man half biscuit obsession.
Quote by chief-kaiser
A dullard here, a dullard in real life!

I endeavour to be at my most agreeable and least contentious online,in reality I have some rather controversial opinions and am not afraid to express them
I don`t know myself half the time, how`s anyone else expected to :confused:
Generally I`m a very upbeat person, like a giggle in the chat room and the people we have met at socials etc seem to think I`m ok.
As for the forum I only pop in now and again and leave my twopennerth on the side so I`m not sure many could gauge my personality from that
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Quote by brucie
im dave. im a trucker from hull and weigh 24 stone.

Now thats what I call a persona....Straight to the point!boink
Personally, I try to express the real me on line. Though facial expression, is hard to put into words. Emotions such as a smile, can take several words, and not quite the same.
Quote by sundragon
im dave. im a trucker from hull and weigh 24 stone.

Now thats what I call a persona....Straight to the point!boink
Personally, I try to express the real me on line. Though facial expression, is hard to put into words. Emotions such as a smile, can take several words, and not quite the same.
smile ...... dunno ...... :huh: ....... rolleyes ...... :haha: